8 years and no it wasn't like the first time when it did happen.

It was a choice and when I told the person afterward that it had been 8 years she was like, "what is wrong with you". That's one way I knew she was nuckin futs.

Sell a Bit?

Sale a bit?

Ok...I'm lost!!!

PEJ said:

Get drunk. Talk to the girl no one usually talks to and forget it ever happened.

Is this "celibate" as in no forms of sexual activity whatsoever? lol...

ladymisskat said:

That's been the story of my life.

I started an infamous thread about it earlier this year. Ask one of these other orgers about it.

Rhondab said:

What a bike?

it goes against my vows of perpetual indulgence.

JustErin said:

So you're not a slut?

Byron said:

Good question

eikonoklastes said:

Not for those years, I wasn't.

I was celibate for 5 years. Mainly because I was bitter and because I needed to focus on caring for my child.

my Gawd yes. But it kinda was my first time.

I was celibate for four years. My husband (then-fiancee) and I made a deliberate decision to live this way before we got married. Certainly made the honeymoon a lot of fun.
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Thank you all for your responses. I had no idea there were so many people out there who simply take a break from sexual activities. Be it voluntary or involuntary LOL

I went celibate when I was 30. Got tired of men who played games and didn't want to commit to anything serious. I broke that on my 39th birthday for one night only and it was WONDERFUL!!!! It was truly making love!!!

This person lives in another state but he was well worht it and we are still friends. He stimulates my mind and encourages me to be better in all aspects of my life. So after that night I went back to be celibate it is not hard at all. My fingers are my best freind. I will not settle for less than I deserve out here for nothing and nobody. I value myself first and foremost.

ever since my girlfriend got pregerz.
almost 2 years now!

How I hate her!

morningsong said:

For me is it so. No forms of sexuality and whatsoever, as flirts and so, nooo I do not like masturbation!

Do you think I am not human? Yes I am.

Rightly said:

Congratulations!!!

I didn't have sex with my wife for nearly two months at one time when I was going through a bit of a phase coming out of a kind of depression I guess. I was trying to find something I'd lost and sex just wasn't a part of that. If I'd have made love to her then I would've felt like I wasn't giving everything as I wasn't happy at the time and didn't feel comfortable with a half-hearted effort. I was just focused on other things, spiritual in nature mainly, and to do with putting right my behaviour and lifestyle. She understood and took it quite well.... almost too well.

Fauxie said:

*cough* *cough*

KidaDynamite said:

Fauxie said:

Fauxie said:

2 months.





Going on a year here...

CarrieMpls said:

Going on three

10 this morning...i am getting seriously frustrated

mdiver said:

I have just been corrected...it was 12 sorry for the misunderstanding

And for real, around a year, it sucked in one way but in honesty it worked in another, i am the kind of person that wants connection not just a roll in the hay so as that was gone it surprised me but i was not too bothered

mdiver said:

that's exactly why being celibate hasn't bothered me because I don't have a connection with anyone or at least I don't feel as though I do.

I've had stretches here & there - some short (I used to think 3 months was something to complain about ), some long (YEARS!!). Out of it now, hope to stay out But I won't just fuck anybody for the hell of it. It's wonderful to have a deep connection but I don't even insist on that. I just gotta LIKE the mf & unfortunately I rarely meet dudes I like I gotta get out more... or move

I don't even know if i can say the word but I can go awhile if I wanted. I went 3 years before. and thats because there was noone I was really into at the time.

yes, 13 years.