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PrintableFarrahMoan said: ThreadBare said: Think a moment about offline life. If you see a woman whose figure you like, do you just go up to her and say you "like her bosoms?" And, if that woman is more than twice your age? It's a respect issue. In all seriousness, I apologize to her. I mean "NO" harm, whatsoever. Please, don't get the wrong idea. If I had first met her in person, I wouldn't go about it in that way. Now, we're getting carried away, here. I hope she doesn't hate me or think I am a jerk, now.  Not sure how carried away we're getting, if she called you out for doing it more than once. That bolded portion should govern a lot of our interactions online, I think. You don't necessarily "go there" with a person until you've built up some history and a comfort level -- if then. I highly doubt she thinks you meant any harm. Sometimes, it's better to err on the side of courtesy or restraint. Just  from an oldhead. | |
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ThreadBare said: FarrahMoan said: In all seriousness, I apologize to her. I mean "NO" harm, whatsoever. Please, don't get the wrong idea. If I had first met her in person, I wouldn't go about it in that way. Now, we're getting carried away, here. I hope she doesn't hate me or think I am a jerk, now. Not sure how carried away we're getting, if she called you out for doing it more than once. That bolded portion should govern a lot of our interactions online, I think. You don't necessarily "go there" with a person until you've built up some history and a comfort level -- if then. I highly doubt she thinks you meant any harm. Sometimes, it's better to err on the side of courtesy or restraint. Just from an oldhead.I know some etiquette. I'm not that stupid. But, I know to tone it down, now. Or, at least be a little more careful. As long as we have that understood. I don't even know if I should "JOKINGLY" approach someone, anymore. But, I most likely will because I hate being paranoid. I know how to talk to someone in physical presence, though. | |
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FarrahMoan said: ThreadBare said: Not sure how carried away we're getting, if she called you out for doing it more than once. That bolded portion should govern a lot of our interactions online, I think. You don't necessarily "go there" with a person until you've built up some history and a comfort level -- if then. I highly doubt she thinks you meant any harm. Sometimes, it's better to err on the side of courtesy or restraint. Just from an oldhead.I know some etiquette. I'm not that stupid. But, I know to tone it down, now. Or, at least be a little more careful. As long as we have that understood. I don't even know if I should "JOKINGLY" approach someone, anymore. But, I most likely will because I hate being paranoid. I know how to talk to someone in physical presence, though.  I do NOT think you a jerk in the least... Follow this thought... I have a 17 year old daughter... ( and I was 24 when I concieved her... so not a young mom) Ok so, this part will seem foreign to you.... when she is now coming into her thing, it is beyond odd to have a male in her range note me..... I know a lot of woman find it flattering... and in some small way it is but in a far larger way, it is inappropriate for me... ( There is a far more needy and unfullfilled thing in woman that seeks such attention) and I am not blasting that... just standing honest to it.
You also mentioned earlier in that your posts have been ignored and or have gone un noted.... wayyyyy FALSE! You are far beyond your years... but your years none the less... Thats ok isnt it? Im comfortable in my 42 year old skin... Im blessed of God and get that in someway being acknowledge by someone less then half my age is an honor... but wishing to honor, I have written the above.  | |
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Muse2NOPharaoh said: FarrahMoan said: I know some etiquette. I'm not that stupid. But, I know to tone it down, now. Or, at least be a little more careful. As long as we have that understood. I don't even know if I should "JOKINGLY" approach someone, anymore. But, I most likely will because I hate being paranoid. I know how to talk to someone in physical presence, though. I do NOT think you a jerk in the least... Follow this thought... I have a 17 year old daughter... ( and I was 24 when I concieved her... so not a young mom) Ok so, this part will seem foreign to you.... when she is now coming into her thing, it is beyond odd to have a male in her range note me..... I know a lot of woman find it flattering... and in some small way it is but in a far larger way, it is inappropriate for me... ( There is a far more needy and unfullfilled thing in woman that seeks such attention) and I am not blasting that... just standing honest to it.
You also mentioned earlier in that your posts have been ignored and or have gone un noted.... wayyyyy FALSE! You are far beyond your years... but your years none the less... Thats ok isnt it? Im comfortable in my 42 year old skin... Im blessed of God and get that in someway being acknowledge by someone less then half my age is an honor... but wishing to honor, I have written the above. Okay. I respect that. It makes a lot of sense. Hell, if I had an eighteen year old kid and I was about forty and some lady at around my son's age was flirting me, I would be flattered, but a little bit displaced and slightly uncomfortable. So, I totally get what you mean. No friction or tension over here. No, ma'am. | |
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