16+ years...anyone brave enough to be open about it?

i did not have sex untill i was 23. does that count?

I admit it, I am

PricelessHo said:

Does, much props for being brave.

thekidsgirl said:

Your time will come, when you're ready.

I'm a virgin too.

ArielB said:

in my ears
...

i actually am (unlike the past few posters.)
and it's not funny to me anymore.
i'm 21 and still - nothing.
but i guess it's kind of a good thing, all my friends tell me how much they regret doing it so early in life..

I think it's great when men and women hold on to their virginity until they find someone they love. I have great respect for them!

I wish I would have done that.

sammij said:

it's absolutely a good thing...

I was 17 my first time and I honestly wish I had waited until I could've shared it with somebody I truly cared for...

DanceWme said:

Same

ArielB said:

said the man with 10 kids.

roodboi said:

im glad i can kind of be some sort of goofy rolemodel for the youngins after me now, but really, i'm not sure if i even want it to be special anymore

i've tried once before and i stopped because it hurt like a motherfucker...and i loved that man very very much and it seemed right

but now, i dont know i think i just wanna fuck and get it over with... because even if it's special, it's bound to end anyway?

ihave a screwed up state of mind obviously... but i'm not waiting anymore, i just don't have any opportunities?


i mean for the most part i kinda get a kick out of people who think i'm a certain way, by the way i talk and act, but when they find that out about me they're all no you're not! i'm proud of it when it's looked at like that
but when you're the LAST out of pretty much all your friends (i can name one more person and that's it) who is still a virgin, and all they want to talk about is sex to you? it gets a little embarassing... i dont know... i tend to feel ashamed of it then, it's a fucking rollercoaster, that's alls i know.

liberation said:

Hey!


I only have 9 kids

Sammi...any girl can get laid, seriously. It's different for men these days. Guys always wanna fuck, they'll fuck a wet paper bad if showed some interest.

If you're that desperate you'll find someone, not knowing who you are...but i think you're looking for more then a quicky, people often confuse sex with love and often intercourse is not a means to an end.

liberation said:

i don't know what i'm looking for and i hate that word... desperate.
it makes me feel like a middle aged woman that belongs on sex and the city

i'm just sick of being played like the baby sister in almost every situation i encounter with friends

once many years ago.

I waited until I was 19 and legally drunk.

Does not having sex for over a year make me an honorary virgin?

I was 18.

I was probably one of the few men whose first time was as bad as a woman's first time.

I have not had sex in 60 ish hours does that count?

mdiver said:

JustErin said:

New pic Er?..looks good.

sammij said:

me too!

sammij said:

what?

thekidsgirl said:

i'm glad there's someone else who knows what i'm talking about

sammij said:

I try not to even tell people about the whole virgin and straightedge thing because all of a sudden you get this weird treatment from people like you're some kind of angel or something which gets very annoying

I've had people apologize to me for saying 'fuck' around me, when I could truely care less. When the time comes I hope to be fucking a plenty myself

thekidsgirl said:

oh hells yes
i already know i'll be a nympho.