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Printableroodboi said: it's a shame that women have to put up with any kind of stupid comments about body size or shape...
That was a nice thing to say Proud Memaw to Seyhan Olivia Christine ,Zoey Cirilo Jaylee & Ellie Abigail Lillian  | |
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jess555ja said: FuNkeNsteiN said: Skinny girls are definitely not my thang.
[Edited 12/13/07 5:25am] LMAO.... I saw it before the edit 
 
I nicened it up 
Moarrr spank, please!  It is not known why FuNkeNsteiN capitalizes his name as he does, though some speculate sunlight deficiency caused by the most pimpified white guy afro in Nordic history.
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MoniGram said: roodboi said: it's a shame that women have to put up with any kind of stupid comments about body size or shape...
That was a nice thing to say I'm practicing to be more like you!!  | |
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roodboi said: MoniGram said: That was a nice thing to say I'm practicing to be more like you!! Awwww another nice thing! Roodboi..are you sick hun? Proud Memaw to Seyhan Olivia Christine ,Zoey Cirilo Jaylee & Ellie Abigail Lillian | |
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FuNkeNsteiN said: jess555ja said: LMAO.... I saw it before the edit
I nicened it up
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roodboi said: it's a shame that women have to put up with any kind of stupid comments about body size or shape...
More so then not it's female voodoo against female voodoo - most of the comments in this thread alone show that It's kinda sad we treat each other with such disrespect sometimes | |
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jess555ja said: FuNkeNsteiN said:
I nicened it up
Moarrr spank, please! It is not known why FuNkeNsteiN capitalizes his name as he does, though some speculate sunlight deficiency caused by the most pimpified white guy afro in Nordic history.
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meow85 said: Volitan said: You don't have to be "plus size" to be curvy.....
Notice how the term "curvy" is being used lately as code for "plus-sized"? Speaking as a skinny chick myself, I'm getting sick and tired of being demonized by average and big women. Some (*ahem!* Mo'nique) even go so far as to call us evil. Cunt. Newsflash: No, most of us don't have eating disorders or otherwise starve ourselves. No, we're not skinny to make you bigger women feel bad about yourselves. No, you do not have the right to stare or make comments about skinny women you see. And yes, you are a fucking idiot if you actually bought that crap magazines feed you and felt bad about yourself because of it. Sounds harsh, but how in God's name could somebody fall for that? Anybody with half a brain knows it's all bullshit anyway.  One minute they want peace……
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Mach said: roodboi said: it's a shame that women have to put up with any kind of stupid comments about body size or shape...
More so then not it's female voodoo against female voodoo - most of the comments in this thread alone show that It's kinda sad we treat each other with such disrespect sometimes You hit the nail on the head. I've have a very thin friend who gets cracked on for being too thin all of the time... she 's beautiful but she too insecure to know it. Meanwhile she's always shocked at the way I get attention from men, and complains about it. Me, I am fat, and I'm not ashamed of it so I don't project that at my thinner friends. Self confidence goes a long way. I jumped from a size 10 to a size 18, and women don't know how to find looks that flatter body type. You can be a 00 to a 38 and still look good or bad depending on cut and style of the clothing. Not every skinny girl can wear a skinny jean, so Sammi J, don't beat yourself up, find a jean with a cut that works well for your figure. Some people will judge others no matter what size they are, never let that stop you from feeling your best. Self image is everything, when you walk around feeling like your happy at the size you are, people gravitate towards you because people enjoy confident, positive women. | |
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Mach said: More so then not it's female voodoo against female voodoo - most of the comments in this thread alone show that
It's kinda sad we treat each other with such disrespect sometimes Agreed. This thread is extremely negative. Oh shit, my hat done fell off | |
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shanti0608 said: Serious said: Sure I had stupid comments like that other women don't want to be on a photo next to me as I make them look fat and coments that I am anorexic. But I think in most cases they are out of jealousy and I don't care. I had that happen when we were taking this pic: 
The one to the far left was by me but moved because I would make her look fat.
I will not say what I wanted to say to her when she made her comment. I am the one second to the end on the right and the one next to me with the glasses also was my boss that was called an anorexic by our patient. She moved because she thought that YOU would make her look fat? HAHAHAHA SORRY, THAT'S HILARIOUS! This thread goes back to my original point in another thread: WHO GIVES A SHIT WHAT OTHER PEOPLE SAY?!! JUST REFUSE TO CARE, IT'S EASY | |
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gemini13 said: shanti0608 said: I had that happen when we were taking this pic: The one to the far left was by me but moved because I would make her look fat.
I will not say what I wanted to say to her when she made her comment. I am the one second to the end on the right and the one next to me with the glasses also was my boss that was called an anorexic by our patient. She moved because she thought that YOU would make her look fat? HAHAHAHA SORRY, THAT'S HILARIOUS! This thread goes back to my original point in another thread: WHO GIVES A SHIT WHAT OTHER PEOPLE SAY?!! JUST REFUSE TO CARE, IT'S EASY I know I usually do not say anything to those comments when I get them. There was a lot I could have said but I never do because that is rude. Some days though I would like to say something rude back but I just don't have it in me. If it makes them feel better to put me down or judge me then so be it. More power to them. | |
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paintedlady said: Mach said: More so then not it's female voodoo against female voodoo - most of the comments in this thread alone show that It's kinda sad we treat each other with such disrespect sometimes You hit the nail on the head. I've have a very thin friend who gets cracked on for being too thin all of the time... she 's beautiful but she too insecure to know it. Meanwhile she's always shocked at the way I get attention from men, and complains about it. Me, I am fat, and I'm not ashamed of it so I don't project that at my thinner friends. Self confidence goes a long way. I jumped from a size 10 to a size 18, and women don't know how to find looks that flatter body type. You can be a 00 to a 38 and still look good or bad depending on cut and style of the clothing. Not every skinny girl can wear a skinny jean, so Sammi J, don't beat yourself up, find a jean with a cut that works well for your figure. Some people will judge others no matter what size they are, never let that stop you from feeling your best. Self image is everything, when you walk around feeling like your happy at the size you are, people gravitate towards you because people enjoy confident, positive women. I personally wouldn't be a friend to a person like that. And you are exactly right about everything else. | |
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gemini13 said: paintedlady said: You hit the nail on the head. I've have a very thin friend who gets cracked on for being too thin all of the time... she 's beautiful but she too insecure to know it. Meanwhile she's always shocked at the way I get attention from men, and complains about it. Me, I am fat, and I'm not ashamed of it so I don't project that at my thinner friends. Self confidence goes a long way. I jumped from a size 10 to a size 18, and women don't know how to find looks that flatter body type. You can be a 00 to a 38 and still look good or bad depending on cut and style of the clothing. Not every skinny girl can wear a skinny jean, so Sammi J, don't beat yourself up, find a jean with a cut that works well for your figure. Some people will judge others no matter what size they are, never let that stop you from feeling your best. Self image is everything, when you walk around feeling like your happy at the size you are, people gravitate towards you because people enjoy confident, positive women. I personally wouldn't be a friend to a person like that. And you are exactly right about everything else. Because my weight gain, she feels uncomfortable, because when I was thin she felt like I understood her. I knew her for over 20 years so, its like we are practically family. | |
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paintedlady said: Mach said: More so then not it's female voodoo against female voodoo - most of the comments in this thread alone show that It's kinda sad we treat each other with such disrespect sometimes You hit the nail on the head. I've have a very thin friend who gets cracked on for being too thin all of the time... she 's beautiful but she too insecure to know it. Meanwhile she's always shocked at the way I get attention from men, and complains about it. Me, I am fat, and I'm not ashamed of it so I don't project that at my thinner friends. Self confidence goes a long way. I jumped from a size 10 to a size 18, and women don't know how to find looks that flatter body type. You can be a 00 to a 38 and still look good or bad depending on cut and style of the clothing. Not every skinny girl can wear a skinny jean, so Sammi J, don't beat yourself up, find a jean with a cut that works well for your figure. Some people will judge others no matter what size they are, never let that stop you from feeling your best. Self image is everything, when you walk around feeling like your happy at the size you are, people gravitate towards you because people enjoy confident, positive women. thanks  .[...i think i can, i think i can, i think i can...] | |
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gemini13 said: shanti0608 said: I had that happen when we were taking this pic:
The one to the far left was by me but moved because I would make her look fat.
I will not say what I wanted to say to her when she made her comment. I am the one second to the end on the right and the one next to me with the glasses also was my boss that was called an anorexic by our patient. She moved because she thought that YOU would make her look fat? HAHAHAHA SORRY, THAT'S HILARIOUS! This thread goes back to my original point in another thread: WHO GIVES A SHIT WHAT OTHER PEOPLE SAY?!! JUST REFUSE TO CARE, IT'S EASY for YOU. [...i think i can, i think i can, i think i can...] | |
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Curvy and voluptuous without being overweight - that's probably what 95% of all men like. The stick thin look seems to have been encouraged and promoted by designers who wanted a shape they could easily make clothes for. | |
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sammij said: gemini13 said: She moved because she thought that YOU would make her look fat? HAHAHAHA SORRY, THAT'S HILARIOUS! This thread goes back to my original point in another thread: WHO GIVES A SHIT WHAT OTHER PEOPLE SAY?!! JUST REFUSE TO CARE, IT'S EASY for YOU. I think for some ppl comments like that from others roll right off of them and they can just laugh it off. I try not to be bothered when ppl say they hate me because I am thin. I just dislike the word hate. I tend to feel sorry for those types of ppl that find it necessary to say those things to make themselves feel better. There are many things about me that I do not like and wish to change but I do not feel like it is necessary to put others down to make myself feel better.  | |
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shanti0608 said: sammij said: for YOU. I think for some ppl comments like that from others roll right off of them and they can just laugh it off. I try not to be bothered when ppl say they hate me because I am thin. I just dislike the word hate. I tend to feel sorry for those types of ppl that find it necessary to say those things to make themselves feel better. There are many things about me that I do not like and wish to change but I do not feel like it is necessary to put others down to make myself feel better. Envy can be very ugly indeed. It is a good thing that you don't take those ignorant comments personally. There is always one of those women in every crowd. | |
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paintedlady said: shanti0608 said: I think for some ppl comments like that from others roll right off of them and they can just laugh it off. I try not to be bothered when ppl say they hate me because I am thin. I just dislike the word hate. I tend to feel sorry for those types of ppl that find it necessary to say those things to make themselves feel better. There are many things about me that I do not like and wish to change but I do not feel like it is necessary to put others down to make myself feel better. Envy can be very ugly indeed. It is a good thing that you don't take those ignorant comments personally. There is always one of those women in every crowd. Well I think it is easy for someone like her to say things like that to me..she knows me and she knows that I am not a bitch and I would not say anything mean back to her. I have learned that some times when you are nice, you become an easy target for those who are unhappy with themselves. | |
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sammij said: gemini13 said: She moved because she thought that YOU would make her look fat? HAHAHAHA SORRY, THAT'S HILARIOUS! This thread goes back to my original point in another thread: WHO GIVES A SHIT WHAT OTHER PEOPLE SAY?!! JUST REFUSE TO CARE, IT'S EASY for YOU. Don't let others have the power over you to define your self worth. I've seen your pics and your artwork, you have absolutely nothing to worry about, to me you're beautiful. The picture of you with the feather mask is so pretty, I can easily see another woman being jealous of you. And besides, beauty is so subjective that nobody can truly be perfect to everyone. | |
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shanti0608 said: paintedlady said: Envy can be very ugly indeed. It is a good thing that you don't take those ignorant comments personally. There is always one of those women in every crowd. Well I think it is easy for someone like her to say things like that to me..she knows me and she knows that I am not a bitch and I would not say anything mean back to her. I have learned that some times when you are nice, you become an easy target for those who are unhappy with themselves. I feel your pain, I tend to be nice and people usually mistake that for weakness, but on occasion when I feel like I've had enough bullshit from someone, I quietly take them aside, and sweetly proceed to tell them exactly how I feel, and I never mince any words. They usually act like it doesn't affect them at first, but time always shows that I get their utmost respect in the end, because I don't kiss ass, I'm not passive aggressive, and if you disrespect me, I let you know that I'm done with you and never pretend to be friends. When you come off serious like that, but still remain respectful and stand firm, then that's when those miserable women change their bad behavior. You just have to tell that miserable woman exactly what you think of her.... even if she is your boss. | |
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paintedlady said: shanti0608 said: Well I think it is easy for someone like her to say things like that to me..she knows me and she knows that I am not a bitch and I would not say anything mean back to her. I have learned that some times when you are nice, you become an easy target for those who are unhappy with themselves. I feel your pain, I tend to be nice and people usually mistake that for weakness, but on occasion when I feel like I've had enough bullshit from someone, I quietly take them aside, and sweetly proceed to tell them exactly how I feel, and I never mince any words. They usually act like it doesn't affect them at first, but time always shows that I get their utmost respect in the end, because I don't kiss ass, I'm not passive aggressive, and if you disrespect me, I let you know that I'm done with you and never pretend to be friends. When you come off serious like that, but still remain respectful and stand firm, then that's when those miserable women change their bad behavior. You just have to tell that miserable woman exactly what you think of her.... even if she is your boss. I really am not bothered by her..it is the principle of it really. The double standard thing. I never have to see her again..I moved 5000 miles away  | |
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shanti0608 said: paintedlady said: I feel your pain, I tend to be nice and people usually mistake that for weakness, but on occasion when I feel like I've had enough bullshit from someone, I quietly take them aside, and sweetly proceed to tell them exactly how I feel, and I never mince any words. They usually act like it doesn't affect them at first, but time always shows that I get their utmost respect in the end, because I don't kiss ass, I'm not passive aggressive, and if you disrespect me, I let you know that I'm done with you and never pretend to be friends. When you come off serious like that, but still remain respectful and stand firm, then that's when those miserable women change their bad behavior. You just have to tell that miserable woman exactly what you think of her.... even if she is your boss. I really am not bothered by her..it is the principle of it really. The double standard thing. I never have to see her again..I moved 5000 miles away You are in a very good place right now so happy for you and your love slave  Living well is the BEST revenge..... you go babydoll!!!  | |
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paintedlady said: shanti0608 said: I really am not bothered by her..it is the principle of it really. The double standard thing. I never have to see her again..I moved 5000 miles away You are in a very good place right now so happy for you and your love slave Living well is the BEST revenge..... you go babydoll!!! Love slave..... 
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shanti0608 said: paintedlady said: You are in a very good place right now so happy for you and your love slave Living well is the BEST revenge..... you go babydoll!!! Love slave.....
Thanks and you are right.
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mdiver said: shanti0608 said: Love slave.....
Thanks and you are right.
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Sweeny79 said: I don't think I've ever heard a man say they liked stick thin women, but they don't like big women either.
I don't think you can measure curves in dress size, I think it's about proportion on the individual woman. This is exactly what my husband said the other day when we were having a similar discussion. I believe it to be true. | |
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shanti0608 said: mdiver said: On your knees then bitch! | |
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