the mf ended our relationship because he still had feeling for the guy he was with for 6 years!

I just came to the conclusion that women and men are all scum. They end up ditching me!
my first 2 girlfriend left. One because I wasn't sexual enough (she's a nymphomaniac), the other because she was in debt and she needed money and I couldn't pay for the shit she did over the years!

That sucks, especially before the holidays.

I've had relationship breakups where it took me a couple of months to shake the urge to drive by and check up on the person. It was worse than trying not to log on to the org, and probably a combination of ego, loneliness, heartbreak, and denial.

I'm resisting no phoning him...it's like kicking a drug out of ones system. I really cared for him.

MikeMatronik said:

yup. It's very difficult.

You always want to see if there is something you can say to convince them that this is the wrong thing to do (breaking up that is).


I can't tell you what to do--I can just say I know what you're going through.

aw poor mike

i just gave up on dating completely and it's strangely tranquil.

my new headline on gayromeo is:

"no chat, no sex, no dates, no friends. in fact, no you"

it works wonders. people don't even dare to visit my profile now

MikeMatronik said:

I am really sorry to hear this! And I feel your pain! My bf just dumped me last Wednesday because I wasn't Asian, and didn't meet the requirements his parents would have wanted in a woman for him.

But if you need to talk, and maybe we could help each other get over the men who broke our hearts, you can always orgnote me!

IstenSzek said:

Yeah, I "gave up" over a year ago.
I go through phases where I'm completely and utterly happy being single and phases of being sadly, desperately lonely.
But I don't take heart break well. And that's part of what keeps me from persuing much of anything. Interestingly, when I went through my drug experimentation phase in my late teens and early 20's I'd try new things for a while and have a BLAST but would always quit whatever it was when I could no longer take the come-down, the hangover, the horrible feeling of getting over whatever I'd just done to my mind and body.
That's pretty much what I've done with relationships too.

MikeMatronik said:

This, too, shall pass.

Keep yourself busy. Spend time talking to family and friends. Spoil yourself. Workout and eat well. Be thankful for your health and freedom. Read The Philosophy of Andy Warhol (From A to B and Back Again). Listen to Cake's version of "I Will Survive" and Bob Dylan's "She's Your Lover Now". Org.

P.S. Feel free to orgNote, if you need someone to talk to.

P.P.S. I know you're a Madonna fan, so throw in "Bye-bye, Baby".

Ace said:

That is a must for sure.
Sorry to hear that you are suffering Mike. I hope you feel better soon.

MikeMatronik said:

I'm confused...are you male or female?, or do you flip over both ways?

so sorry to hear that mike
Don't be sad you don't need that loser anyhow

Sorry to hear that Mike. Use this time to just do you for a change. I was talking to this guy and I really liked him but he was a snake so I had to drop him. I realized that I need to just enjoy me and not look for a man so hard. If he comes, then he comes, no pun intended. It's easier said then done, but you can and you will make it through this.

sorry to hear that.

one of my heros in life told me once several years ago all you need is:

Some really good friends

A couple of good fuck buddies

and one good cuddle buddy to sleep next too.

ehuffnsd said:

I'm of the firm belief that all one needs to be happy is food in your belly, a roof over your head and a high-speed Internet connection.

But maybe that's just me.

Ace said:

I'm with ya on that!

thekidsgirl said:

liberation said:

I am this:




I freelance in both fields

Ace said:

I have to agree with all of u on that.

Thanks 4 the support guys & gals!

MikeMatronik said:

There are plenty of dicks to swordfight with!!

or

You can go have that confused breakup swordfighting.....

This is what happens when you diss PJ Harvey. I talked to him and he's a fan

Sorry to hear this MMb You're young and hot so another one will come along. In the meantimes take care of your heart

I am so sorry, Miguel . If you wanna talk, please let me know .

Breaking up is never easy, I know, but he had to go
Knowing him, knowing you, it's the best he could do

DexMSR said:

NO! confused breakup swordfighting only makes htings worse. it lenghted my relationship an extra two years.

If it makes you feel better, I was dumped by two guys I wasn't even dating.



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Rhondab said:

IstenSzek said:

u tease, u.

Rhondab said:

You haven't been reading my manual have you?

SupaFunkyOrgangrinderSexy said:

NOPE!!