purplesweat said:

If I were to put something in your mouth, it wouldn't be "words" Maybe a shoe or something

Let's see if she's a decent weight after the pregnancy, THEN you have yourself an argument. But the pregnancy IS the reason for her current weight, so lets not act like she had a realization & made changes. She's doing it b/c she has to right now...

Rhondab said:

Ottensen said:

Thank you...

gemini13 said:

Totally laughable comment.

Rhondab said:

Who knew THAT would require explanation?

I like Coke...

Byron said:

How about those Red Rocks, eh?

She looks good to me!!!!!

gemini13 said:

I couldn't agree more.

Rhondab said:

roundness, yes, but you can see even a skeleton of a woman has bigger hips than a man. Their pelvis is wider than a man's is so they can give birth.
[Edited 12/6/07 13:12pm]

ButterscotchPimp said:

once you get to a certain age, I agree, it's on you to ignore the stupid shit people say to/about you.

But don't you think that kids minds can get warped by what their parents & teachers say to them?

JustErin said:

And why is that?

gemini13 said:

It's laughable partly based on it being a totally idealistic and completely unrealistic idea and partly based on your some of your previous (albeit maybe older) threads/posts.
[Edited 12/6/07 14:46pm]

JustErin said:

Perhaps unrealistic in your view of things, but considering the source, this is coming from someone who is constantly dealing with self esteem issues, so.....yeah.

Thanks for your input.

NDRU said:

The skeletal make up doesn't necessarily mean a woman will have HIPS. Once the skin, muscle and fat get on the bones...some woman are straight, up and down on the sides (normally referred to as the HIPS).


lawd...are ya'll really serious?

Rhondab said:

oh dear

gemini13 said:

danggggg

Rhondab said:

I guess we have different definitions of hips, because I've never seen a woman who had no hips.

I'd give her a donut and then hit it.

gemini13 said:

At least I am always honest and realistic.

Man, I wish it was easy to dig up old threads, going by some of your threads you're not that far behind me...unless you've had some huge revelation about things...if so, congrats. I consider you a superhuman.

In the meantime, I'll keep things honest and real.

NDRU said:

Of course, that's a different scenario.
We should be teaching our kids to be individuals who can find strength and self-esteem within themselves and to not look to others for validation.

CalhounSq said:

I don't understand. I told you more than once I don't know what you're talking about and now you are determined to tell me what you know I know. That's pretty ridiculous and it's an attack. I don't appreciate you harrassment

JustErin said:

Cool, but I like to think that I'm as honest as you think you are. I'm not trying to single you out, but I have to say that I am much more secure in who I am and what I am than you seem to be. Maybe it's because I'm older than you are, and it has nothing to do with being superhuman. It's about being realistic, and not beating yourself up for what someone might say about you. I mean, really, who gives a shit what other people think? I certainly don't.

I get tired of reading women's posts when weight comes into play. The massive insecurities shine right through their posts.

I couldn't care less whether Jennifer Love Hewitt is upset. Maybe she should move to Tibet along with Prince is they're so goddamned worried about what people say?

OMG that whole posting is sooo funny.

Byron said:

Wow.You still dig after all this time. How about the Vanilla flavor added to it? It isn't to bad. However, I like my coke plain.
[Edited 12/6/07 18:06pm]

gemini13 said:

I don't feel singled out or jumped on or even insulted by what you said because I am extremely candid about my issues and have never said anything but the truth about them. I certainly don't pretend to be anything I am not.

It still doesn't take away from the fact that people who revel in making fun others - especially when it simply comes to their looks have something seriously messed up about them.

A thread much ado about nothing.

MsLegs said:

Like the classic Jay-Z song says, Politics as Usual.....

JustErin said:

Oh, well that's great, because then you can't blame others for what you feel. And I have the opposite view. I think that people who care about what other people say has something seriously messed up about themselves.

gemini13 said:

How about the fam and public figures you look up to, which in actuality would affect a lot of people? Maybe not you, if so, then what's the point of having influences like your guardian around you, teaching you this, that, and the third if you could actually just live life as an orphan? I mean, "SOME" people's words are weapons. This is especially true for those that one wouldn't expect to be so tactless around the receiver of such psychological damage. I'm just saying.....