Janfriend said:

Well then what DOES make someone "curvy" if not her CURVES Jan? Fine, you're not talking about "THE hood" - what's so different about the women in your neighborhood then?

I just don't get it. & why is it so hard to explain your comment No, you don't NEED to but it'd be nice if you DID.

Just make it real simple: what do you call "curvy"?

NDRU said:

Oh give me a breka...really. Most of the time the skinny chicks get NOTHING but love. I don't care if they look close to death.

10 pounds over weight isn't extreme.....


Nicole is extreme...thus to me yeah...nasty and sick.


If Jennifer blew up 70lbs or something...i would go to that too.


and to Jan's saying every woman has hips and breasts...ummmm..nope.

My mother didn't have hips AT ALL...lol. She had a little booty and no hips.

Jennifer has curves.

But I guess this is what Jan is talking about:

Janfriend said:

That's not even clever Do you really not know how obvious you're being here? Really? Don't join the Debate Team w/ this shit

Seriously though Jan, what a thin response. Just be honest here... & so you don't think you're being unfairly targeted (though I love our exchanges ) I'll pose the same question to the other person who doesn't see her "curves"

CalhounSq said:

Learn to read. I said SINCE pregnancy!!!!

The bottom line is people seem to think that they have the right to comment, and cruelly I must add, about someone's weight, or lack there of.

Just because someone is in the public eye doesn't mean that hearing/reading all the extremely nasty, very hurtful comments doesn't have a profound effect on them...that it doesn't hurt them. So they're rich, so they're famous, who fucking cares? Shit like this still hurts no matter who you are.

The reason someone like Nicole is so thin is because she has an illness that was most likely brought on by all the comments about her being fat. The same goes for Lindsey Lohan.

It always amazes me how cruel people can be to each other. I've said it time and time again on here. It doesn't matter if it stems from envy or out of genuine concern for someone, whatever the reason - the cruel comments that some people say will always say much more about them then the person they are talking about. That they are cruel and it makes them despicable people in my eyes.

We live in an age where people take no accountability for the things they say.

CalhounSq said:

I can't put it into words. It's more about people in person or images and I'm not taking the time to post any

CalhounSq said:

I really don't know what you're talking about

Janfriend said:

Dammit Jan, you're gonna make me dig up the Wonder Woman pic again

Just admit it - you can't defend your statement b/c in doing so you'd have to admit that I'm right (& others who understood your comment perfectly as you dodge the obvious). & you can't stand do be wrong, or to be called out on your bullshit. I can't believe you don't know how transparent your shit is

Janfriend said:

RIIIIIGHT...

ButterscotchPimp said:

Let's do keep it real.

A little extra weight on your hips and thighs does NOT make you unhealthy. It does not shorten your lifespan. If you're going to talk about this at least get your facts straight. The extra weight that puts you at risk is called vicseral fat and it only gathers on your belly.

A women with a little meat on her ass and thighs and with "grandma legs" is not risking her health.

And yes, women are naturally carriers of more fat then men, it's in our biology. You can fight it for sure, by starving yourself, working out to an extreme but that doesn't mean that the end result is "natural". The second you stop fighting it, you go back to what your body is supposed to look like.

But you go right ahead and live in your fantasy land.

I've always thought Jennifer Love was fine. So she don't look bad to me, I'd hit it.

purplesweat said:

It's as if your congratulating her for doing what's right for the baby. If she weren't pregnant, she'd still be a stick. So what the fuck is your point?

CalhounSq said:

Why do you have a problem excepting my responses? In words, off the top of my head, just to make YOU happy, I will say Salma Hayek, Rose McGowan, and Kate Winslet are curvy Hewitt is just average. Are you fucking happy now????

Rhondab said:

That's disgusting and technically, your mother had hips. Everyone has hips. Therefore everyone has those basic curves

Rhondab said:

it's one thing to think that, but to criticize other people's natural body types (not saying that most of the women in the media are naturally that thin ), is kinda shitty. you'd probably think my little sister's disgustingly thin, but that's just her body type. she has gotten SO much shit her entire life from other girls criticizing her/making fun of how thin she is. why is okay to say someone looks 'nasty' if they're built that way?

Janfriend said:

Actually Hewitt's tits are much bigger than Winslet's. Just sayin' ...

Janfriend said:

When did you see my mother? Tell her hello.

Jan, there are women with NO CURVES. My mother had big ole boobs but she had no hips. My mother was seamstress and would make most of her pants because women's pants would have extra room.

so now you're saying that Jennifer HAS curves?

I'm confused.


Calhoun...where is that wonder woman pic pleaseeeee...

FarrahMoan said:

Dude, that chick was ridiculed on the net for being too fat.

I for one am sure as hell not saying the girl was ever fat...but I remember all the nasty comments about her at one time.

JustErin said:

Sorry, but that reminds me of Katt Williams recent skit:

"You've ruined my self esteem"

"Bitch, it's called SELF esteem"

Continue.

JustErin said:

Sorry, but that reminds me of Katt Williams recent skit:

"You've ruined my self esteem"

"Bitch, it's called SELF esteem"

Continue.

Ottensen said:

I'm not talking about tits

JustErin said:

Sorry, but that reminds me of Katt Williams recent skit:

"You've ruined my self esteem"

"Bitch, it's called SELF esteem"

Continue.

gemini13 said:

that's a great line, but does anyone really think that self esteem isn't affected by other people?

gemini13 said:

that's a great line, but does anyone really think that self esteem isn't affected by other people?

NDRU said:

Depends on how impressionable some people really are. I can tend to be one of those people....quite often in fact. But, still I maintain....somewhat. *Clears Throat*

NDRU said:

I don't think that it should be. Honestly, if you are so worried about what other people think, then there's something wrong with the you, not the person saying things about you.

CalhounSq said:

I don't know what you're talking about

Rhondab said:

I never said I saw your mother. Everyone has hip bones. That's all I'm saying

I'm sorry you misunderstood me about Jennifer. To me, when I say someone is curvy, to me, it means they are above the average women in regards to curves, to me

CalhounSq said:

Why do you have a problem excepting my responses? In words, off the top of my head, just to make YOU happy, I will say Salma Hayek, Rose McGowan, and Kate Winslet are curvy Hewitt is just average. Are you fucking happy now????