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PrintableJanfriend said: CalhounSq said: Then what were you talking about?  It doesn't have to be an argument btw  I made a comment, just like everyone else and I don't need to explain it. Someone else said they were going to say the same thing. Every woman has hips and breasts, that doesn't make her curvy or at least what I call curvy. That's my opinion. I wasn't talking "The Hood." I was talking about my neighborhood and I wasn't talking about extremes either But you know what she was (I think) alluding to, right? 'Cause we all know there are black women who will always be on hand to say 'what curves?' (among other things) when a picture of a white girl is put up and people talk about her body shape, especially if it's in a positive light. Now I'm not saying you were doing this, but I know you're surely aware of that 'practice' by some. I'd actually like to know what that's all about, but I guess that's for another thread and another time. | |
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Fauxie said: Janfriend said: I made a comment, just like everyone else and I don't need to explain it. Someone else said they were going to say the same thing. Every woman has hips and breasts, that doesn't make her curvy or at least what I call curvy. That's my opinion. I wasn't talking "The Hood." I was talking about my neighborhood and I wasn't talking about extremes either But you know what she was (I think) alluding to, right? 'Cause we all know there are black women who will always be on hand to say 'what curves?' (among other things) when a picture of a white girl is put up and people talk about her body shape, especially if it's in a positive light. Now I'm not saying you were doing this, but I know you're surely aware of that 'practice' by some. I'd actually like to know what that's all about, but I guess that's for another thread and another time. I don't know what you're talking about. Maybe that's just your perception | |
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ButterscotchPimp said: I wouldn't fuck Paris or Nicole with a body condom.
I wouldn't do it at gunpoint. | |
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uPtoWnNY said: ButterscotchPimp said: I wouldn't fuck Paris or Nicole with a body condom.
I wouldn't do it at gunpoint. Again, it would be safer to stick it in battery acid. http://www.facebook.com/p...111?ref=ts
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I think she looks beautiful. I think the "problem" here is that the pics were not airbrushed. I'm sure more stars look like this than we realize. | |
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applekisses said: I'm sure more stars look like this than we realize.
They all do, once you take away the makeup, hairdos & expensive clothes. | |
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applekisses said: I think she looks beautiful. I think the "problem" here is that the pics were not airbrushed. I'm sure more stars look like this than we realize.
 it's done to all promo shots, then as soon as an unflattering paparazzi shot is published, then it's all "my! she HAS let herself go!"  | |
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I think that she's one of the hottest sweet Hollywood Girls one can find, to put it quite firmly. The one of her posterior and legs isn't the "MOST" flattering. But, her face is all the same. I always thought she was cute. I don't know. I just know that "SHE" isn't fat....."AT ALL!!!" | |
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Janfriend said: CalhounSq said: Then what were you talking about? It doesn't have to be an argument btw I made a comment, just like everyone else and I don't need to explain it. Someone else said they were going to say the same thing. Every woman has hips and breasts, that doesn't make her curvy or at least what I call curvy. That's my opinion. I wasn't talking "The Hood." I was talking about my neighborhood and I wasn't talking about extremes either Well then what DOES make someone "curvy" if not her CURVES Jan? Fine, you're not talking about "THE hood" - what's so different about the women in your neighborhood then?
I just don't get it. & why is it so hard to explain your comment  No, you don't NEED to but it'd be nice if you DID. 
Just make it real simple: what do you call "curvy"?    I never met you, but I LOVE you & I will forever!! Thank you for being YOU - my little Princey, the best to EVER do it | |
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Janfriend said: Fauxie said: But you know what she was (I think) alluding to, right? 'Cause we all know there are black women who will always be on hand to say 'what curves?' (among other things) when a picture of a white girl is put up and people talk about her body shape, especially if it's in a positive light. Now I'm not saying you were doing this, but I know you're surely aware of that 'practice' by some. I'd actually like to know what that's all about, but I guess that's for another thread and another time. I don't know what you're talking about. Maybe that's just your perception That's not even clever Do you really not know how obvious you're being here? Really?  Don't join the Debate Team w/ this shit
Seriously though Jan, what a thin response. Just be honest here... & so you don't think you're being unfairly targeted (though I love our exchanges  ) I'll pose the same question to the other person who doesn't see her "curves" I never met you, but I LOVE you & I will forever!! Thank you for being YOU - my little Princey, the best to EVER do it | |
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SexyBeautifulOne said: Janfriend said: What curves?  That's what I was thinking!So what IS "curvy" to you? How is she not curvy? Can you explain? I never met you, but I LOVE you & I will forever!! Thank you for being YOU - my little Princey, the best to EVER do it | |
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NDRU said: Rhondab said: They look nasty and sick.
that's a little harsh. We get all upset when someone bashes a woman who is ten pounds overweight, but for some reason it's okay to say a thin woman looks nasty & sick? Paris isn't my type, but she doesn't exactly look like she's starving to death. Oh give me a breka...really. Most of the time the skinny chicks get NOTHING but love. I don't care if they look close to death. 10 pounds over weight isn't extreme..... Nicole is extreme...thus to me yeah...nasty and sick. If Jennifer blew up 70lbs or something...i would go  to that too.
and to Jan's saying every woman has hips and breasts...ummmm..nope. My mother didn't have hips AT ALL...lol. She had a little booty and no hips. Jennifer has curves. But I guess this is what Jan is talking about:  | |
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Rhondab said: NDRU said: that's a little harsh. We get all upset when someone bashes a woman who is ten pounds overweight, but for some reason it's okay to say a thin woman looks nasty & sick? Paris isn't my type, but she doesn't exactly look like she's starving to death. Oh give me a breka...really. Most of the time the skinny chicks get NOTHING but love. I don't care if they look close to death. TRUE... and to Jan's saying every woman has hips and breasts...ummmm..nope.
My mother didn't have hips AT ALL...lol. She had a little booty and no hips. Jennifer has curves. But I guess this is what Jan is talking about: That's what I'm guessing too. Wouldn't be so much easier if Jan would simply explain?
& dammit Rhonda, that pic is terrible!!
. [Edited 12/5/07 4:06am] I never met you, but I LOVE you & I will forever!! Thank you for being YOU - my little Princey, the best to EVER do it | |
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Nicole is looking a lot healthier since pregnancy, people :
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purplesweat said: Nicole is looking a lot healthier since pregnancy, people :
Are you on crack?? She's looking healthier BECAUSE she's pregnant!! As if she gained a decent amount of weight FIRST & then got pregnant, please Good Lord... I never met you, but I LOVE you & I will forever!! Thank you for being YOU - my little Princey, the best to EVER do it | |
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CalhounSq said: purplesweat said: Nicole is looking a lot healthier since pregnancy, people :
Are you on crack?? She's looking healthier BECAUSE she's pregnant!! As if she gained a decent amount of weight FIRST & then got pregnant, please Good Lord... | |
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NDRU said: Rhondab said: They look nasty and sick.
that's a little harsh. We get all upset when someone bashes a woman who is ten pounds overweight, but for some reason it's okay to say a thin woman looks nasty & sick? Paris isn't my type, but she doesn't exactly look like she's starving to death. I agree  .
Why are women of all sizes and shapes are judged on their looks so much more than men .With a very special thank you to Tina: Is hammer already absolute, how much some people verändern...ICH hope is never so I will be! And if, then I hope that I would then have wen in my environment who joins me in the A.... | |
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Serious said: NDRU said: that's a little harsh. We get all upset when someone bashes a woman who is ten pounds overweight, but for some reason it's okay to say a thin woman looks nasty & sick? Paris isn't my type, but she doesn't exactly look like she's starving to death. I agree .
Why are women of all sizes and shapes are judged on their looks so much more than men .Yeah!?! I'm a man and I actually often wonder that, myself. But, I feel just as obligated to keep in shape. I mean, sometimes I eat responsibly and, other times I don't. But, I try to maintain my weight, either way because, even at 6'0 and weighing around two-hundred seventy pounds, I always felt as if "MY" weight had actually mattered when it came down to how accessible women found me and vice versa (In terms of tangibility.). Now, I'm down at between 175-185lbs, but I "STILL" don't know what the problem. Otherwise, when it comes to the male outlook, no one really bothers to look at how "FRUMPY" the likes of "Nick Lachet" might be. At least, not as much as they do with the likes of Vanessa Minillo (Neither of which look bad enough to point a finger at. I mean, that's not to say that I condone finger-pointing, period. But, if you're going to do it, do it to someone who actually has "HEALTH PROBLEMS" because of the maintenance or "LACK THEROF" of their weight.). But, I've always wondered that, myself. | |
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FarrahMoan said: Serious said: I agree .
Why are women of all sizes and shapes are judged on their looks so much more than men .Yeah!?! I'm a man and I actually often wonder that, myself. But, I feel just as obligated to keep in shape. I mean, sometimes I eat responsibly and, other times I don't. But, I try to maintain my weight, either way because, even at 6'0 and weighing around two-hundred seventy pounds, I always felt as if "MY" weight had actually mattered when it came down to how accessible women found me and vice versa (In terms of tangibility.). Now, I'm down at between 175-185lbs, but I "STILL" don't know what the problem. Otherwise, when it comes to the male outlook, no one really bothers to look at how "FRUMPY" the likes of "Nick Lachet" might be. At least, not as much as they do with the likes of Vanessa Minillo (Neither of which look bad enough to point a finger at. I mean, that's not to say that I condone finger-pointing, period. But, if you're going to do it, do it to someone who actually has "HEALTH PROBLEMS" because of the maintenance or "LACK THEROF" of their weight.). But, I've always wondered that, myself.  With a very special thank you to Tina: Is hammer already absolute, how much some people verändern...ICH hope is never so I will be! And if, then I hope that I would then have wen in my environment who joins me in the A.... | |
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Serious said: FarrahMoan said: Yeah!?! I'm a man and I actually often wonder that, myself. But, I feel just as obligated to keep in shape. I mean, sometimes I eat responsibly and, other times I don't. But, I try to maintain my weight, either way because, even at 6'0 and weighing around two-hundred seventy pounds, I always felt as if "MY" weight had actually mattered when it came down to how accessible women found me and vice versa (In terms of tangibility.). Now, I'm down at between 175-185lbs, but I "STILL" don't know what the problem. Otherwise, when it comes to the male outlook, no one really bothers to look at how "FRUMPY" the likes of "Nick Lachet" might be. At least, not as much as they do with the likes of Vanessa Minillo (Neither of which look bad enough to point a finger at. I mean, that's not to say that I condone finger-pointing, period. But, if you're going to do it, do it to someone who actually has "HEALTH PROBLEMS" because of the maintenance or "LACK THEROF" of their weight.). But, I've always wondered that, myself.
"Are you feeling me, now!" Seriously, though. The irony about the whole mention of Ms. Minillo is that she isn't even as bad as Nick Lacet, if bad at all. Also, take Christopher Wallace as another example. He didn't change his whole outlook after getting the money, either. Nor was it really pressured onto him.... | |
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CalhounSq said:[quote] Rhondab said: TRUE... and to Jan's saying every woman has hips and breasts...ummmm..nope.
My mother didn't have hips AT ALL...lol. She had a little booty and no hips. Jennifer has curves. But I guess this is what Jan is talking about: That's what I'm guessing too. Wouldn't be so much easier if Jan would simply explain?
& dammit Rhonda, that pic is terrible!!
. [Edited 12/5/07 4:06am] my pic is gone at least I don't see it.
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Rhondab said: CalhounSq said: That's what I'm guessing too. Wouldn't be so much easier if Jan would simply explain?
& dammit Rhonda, that pic is terrible!!
. [Edited 12/5/07 4:06am] No, she's talking about that pic above that you posted of that chick with the dimply asscheeks..... [Edited 12/5/07 5:55am] | |
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applekisses said: I think she looks beautiful. I think the "problem" here is that the pics were not airbrushed. I'm sure more stars look like this than we realize.
You are absolutely right, applekisses. Because I am one in an army of many who for a living makes the calls on where and how much they're airbrushed  | |
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FarrahMoan said: Rhondab said: No, she's talking about that pic above that you posted of that chick with the dimply asscheeks..... [Edited 12/5/07 5:55am] oh I know....I don't see it. | |
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FarrahMoan said: Serious said: I agree .
Why are women of all sizes and shapes are judged on their looks so much more than men .Yeah!?! I'm a man and I actually often wonder that, myself. But, I feel just as obligated to keep in shape. I mean, sometimes I eat responsibly and, other times I don't. But, I try to maintain my weight, either way because, even at 6'0 and weighing around two-hundred seventy pounds, I always felt as if "MY" weight had actually mattered when it came down to how accessible women found me and vice versa (In terms of tangibility.). Now, I'm down at between 175-185lbs, but I "STILL" don't know what the problem. Otherwise, when it comes to the male outlook, no one really bothers to look at how "FRUMPY" the likes of "Nick Lachet" might be. At least, not as much as they do with the likes of Vanessa Minillo (Neither of which look bad enough to point a finger at. I mean, that's not to say that I condone finger-pointing, period. But, if you're going to do it, do it to someone who actually has "HEALTH PROBLEMS" because of the maintenance or "LACK THEROF" of their weight.). But, I've always wondered that, myself. Oh, cut the crap. It's not just women that get judged on appearance and weight. I remember my "chubby phase" coming out of middle school going into high school, and girls that would actually laugh at me. Right up until i learned how to swim and dropped 60 lbs and then the SAME girls were asking me out. Women do the same shit. You know ya'll do. http://www.facebook.com/p...111?ref=ts
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ButterscotchPimp said: FarrahMoan said: Yeah!?! I'm a man and I actually often wonder that, myself. But, I feel just as obligated to keep in shape. I mean, sometimes I eat responsibly and, other times I don't. But, I try to maintain my weight, either way because, even at 6'0 and weighing around two-hundred seventy pounds, I always felt as if "MY" weight had actually mattered when it came down to how accessible women found me and vice versa (In terms of tangibility.). Now, I'm down at between 175-185lbs, but I "STILL" don't know what the problem. Otherwise, when it comes to the male outlook, no one really bothers to look at how "FRUMPY" the likes of "Nick Lachet" might be. At least, not as much as they do with the likes of Vanessa Minillo (Neither of which look bad enough to point a finger at. I mean, that's not to say that I condone finger-pointing, period. But, if you're going to do it, do it to someone who actually has "HEALTH PROBLEMS" because of the maintenance or "LACK THEROF" of their weight.). But, I've always wondered that, myself. Oh, cut the crap. It's not just women that get judged on appearance and weight. I remember my "chubby phase" coming out of middle school going into high school, and girls that would actually laugh at me. Right up until i learned how to swim and dropped 60 lbs and then the SAME girls were asking me out. Women do the same shit. You know ya'll do.  Women have it far worse than men when it comes to being judged on looks. Sure to a certain degree men are judged as well, but no way near as much as women.With a very special thank you to Tina: Is hammer already absolute, how much some people verändern...ICH hope is never so I will be! And if, then I hope that I would then have wen in my environment who joins me in the A.... | |
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Serious said: ButterscotchPimp said: Oh, cut the crap. It's not just women that get judged on appearance and weight. I remember my "chubby phase" coming out of middle school going into high school, and girls that would actually laugh at me. Right up until i learned how to swim and dropped 60 lbs and then the SAME girls were asking me out. Women do the same shit. You know ya'll do. Women have it far worse than men when it comes to being judged on looks. Sure to a certain degree men are judged as well, but no way near as much as women.That's what I meant. I mean, it sucked for me because I had a few schoolboy crushes for girls that were cute, but I began getting frumpy and chubby around the second grade and stayed that way up until I was sixteen years old and now I maintain. I actually used to be thin from the times I was born to the time I was eight. So thin that my head was like that my head stood out like that animated martian character would always ask, "WHERE IS THE MODULATOR??!!!?" I ad the pencilneck to go with it and everything. But, I never received the type of pointing and staring treatment that a lot of women have that I would see receiving it. Women are pressured "MORE" than men to keep their weight. Common knowledge, dude! Just look at Christopher Wallace, man! I mean, sure. He might be deceased. But, while he was alive, he got around. Big Pun. Ya think he didn't get the ladies (Married or not.)? If so, think again! Dudes can have it bad. But, not as bad as the women..... [Edited 12/5/07 7:18am] | |
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Rhondab said: I'm 5'9" and I remember getting down to a 7/8 in college. My mother was going to take me to the doctor. I looked ill. Beyonce is curvy. JLo is curvy....and Jennifer is curvy....I say much love to her for NOT looking like Paris and Nicole. They look nasty and sick. Such hypocrisy. So it's ok to be judgmental towards women who are either in shape or thin, but how dare anybody judge a woman who is overweight??
Oh, and by the way, these pictures are NOT the same thing as Jennifer Love Hewitt 's out of shape body!!! 
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truefunksoldier said: Rhondab said: I'm 5'9" and I remember getting down to a 7/8 in college. My mother was going to take me to the doctor. I looked ill. Beyonce is curvy. JLo is curvy....and Jennifer is curvy....I say much love to her for NOT looking like Paris and Nicole. They look nasty and sick. Such hypocrisy. So it's ok to be judgmental towards women who are either in shape or thin, but how dare anybody judge a woman who is overweight??
Oh, and by the way, these pictures are NOT the same thing as Jennifer Love Hewitt 's out of shape body!!! I can't see their unretouched butts in those pics so for all I know, they could be the same. | |
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