Imago said:

FuNkeNsteiN said:

Imago said:

You better not be insulting my friend you bitch



I saw this hermaphrodite that was the most beautiful man you ever saw. He had a vagina. I might be able to do that but not sure a lady to fella, although that Hermaphroditic porn start that looks all man from the waist up is pretty hot

JustErin said:

I work with a girl who looks just like a guy, if it wasn't for her voice she would have convinced me

when i worked at an LGBT community center i would see some HOT guys walk in who i would quickly learn were either drag kings or F2Ms. it might have fazed me the first time someone pointed it out, but after a while it got to where i didn't care. cute is cute, shit. anyway, i'm not exactly the target demographic for a transgendered man (though i have heard of exceptions), so it's not really something i've ever had to deal with personally, other than just getting better at identifying what i'm drooling at.

veronikka said:

I'm not so easily fooled. I have an eye for details.

Anxiety said:

I have gotten a ragind hardon over a cute guy walking down the street to find that I was boning out over a dyke

SupaFunkyOrgangrinderSexy said:

and for some reason that's it's own kind of weird turn-on. theoretically, i have no problem with being sexually attracted to a woman, as long as i don't have to be reminded of the fact!

Anxiety said:

What did you think of Hillary Swank in Boys Don't Cry?

Imago said:

she's harsh looking. she's harsh looking even when she's all femmed up. she's just harsh in the face. her acting was good in that movie. but yeah. harsh. those are my thoughts.

Imago said:

!

Other dyklets though

Anxiety said:

That raises an interesting question. Would it be hard for a gay man to admit he's actually straight, as it so often is to do the opposite?

NDRU said:

i've known gay guys who dropped the gay for a while (or even permanently) and had a heterosexual relationship. and i think where my own feelings are concerned, i'm more attracted to qualities than the specific plumbing that we're born with when we come out of the womb. which is to say, if someone who was born female can replicate the masculine qualities i find attractive to the extent that i am turned on by it, then who cares what the "original" gender of the person may be? of course, nobody wants a "crying game" moment and a little bit of warning is due if hanky panky gets involved (that's just good etiquette, i think), but if a person presents themselves in a way that i find attractive, why should i let something arbitrary like birth gender be a cockblocker? does that make me heterosexual? if so...yay?

NDRU said:

Probably. You make a valid point. Mama Headley should be proud. God, she's so fine!

Anxiety said:

WW

I wouldn't marry a heterosexual, much less a transsexual... but that's something different entirely.

Umm... date...? I'm thinking, no...

violator said:

Yeah, marriage is a double drag. Well, that's how I see, anyways.....

Anxiety said:

but if your still attracted to male features and such how would that make you heterosexual? you are still attracted to what a 'man' is (just in general). i think i'm confusing myself because as i type this i am thinking of all other possibilities.

personally I have a hard time with labels and I think that people are into whomever they are into-they just may happen to be the sex that your not normally attracted to.

btw-i don't think that makes you heterosexual

heybaby said:

i don't think it would make me heterosexual either. but then i got to thinking, if people want to think of it that way, why should i give a rat's ass? heterosexual, homosexual, whatever. you could call a pizza "mabel" and i'd still eat the damn thing.

Anxiety said:

true

Anxiety said:

I guess you're kind of answering the question, at least from your own experience. You are attracted to not a man or a woman but a person you are attracted to, and who cares much beyond that?

I ask because it seems like a difficult thing for many people to come out to their straight friends & families for fear of judgement. Do you think there's any fear of judgement from the gay community for, say a woman who decides to date men again?

FarrahMoan said:

she definitely is, it's the freddy mercury part I can't quite embrace

NDRU said:

I think there probably would be, somewhat. But, not as much. I think the homosexual communities could get with that on a level beyond the conservative adults that surround this country, and others.....

NDRU said:

Minus his dental structure, the guy wasn't really half-bad. And, I'm a full-blown hetero-. But, even I can acknowledge when a guy could obviously attract the opposite sex. Mario Lopez and Jason Mamoa, for example. I'm not in the least bit, intimately attracted to those guys, but I do sort of envy them and can appreciate that they are as attractive to the opposite sex ("AND" some of the same sex.).
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Anxiety said:

I've seen some general females that look like very hot regular guys.

NDRU said:

well, i *AM* attracted to masculine characteristics. where those characteristics came from, i'm not so uptight about. as long as it quacks like a duck and walks like a duck and swims like a duck, why should i care that it used to be an iguana?

and i guess i'm speaking more hypothetically than from any great well of experience. i've never dated an F2M transgendered person or a drag king, for that matter. not that i wouldn't have in the past, but the opportunity never happened and i never was so interested in the experience that i ever wanted to seek it out. the idea of it has never seemed unappealing to me, though.

as for your other question, i think there's a lot of cynicism that comes from the gay community when someone "goes back in", so to speak. some people think that the person isn't brave enough to deal with intolerance so they just figure it's "easier" to retreat to heterosexuality. personally, i think when people are honest with themselves, attraction is about something way more complex than just saying "UG. ME LIKE WOMAN. ME LIKE MAN. UG." - and because i feel that way, i tend not to get too shocked when a gay friend ends up in a straight relationship (or vice versa). life happens. good for them.

I've only ever known someone who was Male-to-Female. I think he ("she") might have been just cross-dressing though? What do you call that?

horatio said:

There's a chick at work who is handsome.

Cinnie said:

Oh damn

KidaDynamite said:

Oh, damn is right! I've come to find that some of them are more masculine than me. And that shit scares me.....