SupaFunkyOrgangrinderSexy said:

Not all women are evil sociopaths whose sole purpose in life is to manipulate men to get what they want. I don't know what kind of women you surround yourself with but the ones that I know (myself included) are actual human beings who have feelings, just like men.

I'm a woman and I know that if I was in a situation like hers I would feel all of the following:

Abandoned
Scared
Hurt
Heartbroken
Angry
Distressed
In denial

I would want me husband to stay with me because he loves me and loves his unborn child, not because I want to manipulate him and play head games with him and I'm sure that many, if not virtually all, women feel the same way.

I feel bad for this woman. She must be going through hell right now.

JasmineFire said:

Again, you are projecting your feelings on her. She is entertaining staying with an out gay man who fucks on video for the world to see! Either she is playing massive games or she is delusional.

SupaFunkyOrgangrinderSexy said:

Of course I'm projecting my feelings on her...all of us are. Unless anyone here is her, that's all anyone can do.

From reading the original post that started this thread, it seems like she just found out about her husband being gay and having sex on video and she's probably still in a bit of shock. She's a normal person who is in a horrible situation and I think that she's reacting in a normal way. Now if one year down the road she's still trying to hold this marriage together then she probablyis delusional but for right now I thinks she acting the way any woman who found out that her husband is cheating on her would act.

She needs to leave him, figure out a way to co-parent the kid (if that's even an option), and never look back. I wish her luck.

JasmineFire said:

This I agree with!

SupaFunkyOrgangrinderSexy said:

cool, because, really, that's the bottom line.

SupaFunkyOrgangrinderSexy said:

and men are great manipulators and liars who will tell a woman anything she wants to hear in order to get what he wants out of it, whether it's just sex or a sham marriage

The gay men who marry the opposite gender do not believe they are gay at the time of union. I wouldn't call it a "sham"

Cinnie said:

That's not a general truth

Janfriend said:

I would say in most cases it would be something to consider

Damn this topic is deep!

Janfriend said:

oh come ON, you know women lie and manipulate too.

evenstar said:

Right, right.

evenstar said:

You missed my point

Janfriend said:

which was? i'm sorry, i just get so sick of people going on about 'all men do this, all women do that'.

We can all have hellish, vindictive, and deviant agendas that need to be fulfilled, sometimes. It's just human nature. Some of which, I don't concur with.....

evenstar said:

Then why did you jump on my post? I didn't see you jump on Supa's woman-hating post. Mine countered his, which was to say "do not generalize all women because I will turn around and generalize all men" Why do I need to explain that?

FarrahMoan said:

We all can. but not all of us do
[Edited 11/30/07 23:31pm]

People, people. Let's try to cut the tension, here. Why don't we all just keep it peaceful? I'm nervous in the middle of conflicts.....
[Edited 11/30/07 23:27pm]

Janfriend said:

i didn't read supa's, i just skipped to the bottom of the thread. that does make sense, i'm sorry.

Janfriend said:

Agreed.

evenstar said:

VoicesCarry said:

You're right, I should have worded it different.
I meant it to be like to decide to let everyone know?

I knew what I meant but re reading it, it doesn't say what I meant.
Sorry, let me fix that!