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roodboi said: evenstar said: whatever, dude, just wait 'til it happens to you.  irritable bowel syndrome or love???  Being the Scrooge that I am, I'd probably rather experience IBS.... | |
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roodboi said: evenstar said: whatever, dude, just wait 'til it happens to you. irritable bowel syndrome or love???  | |
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FarrahMoan said: roodboi said: irritable bowel syndrome or love??? Being the Scrooge that I am, I'd probably rather experience IBS....  | |
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FarrahMoan said: roodboi said: irritable bowel syndrome or love??? Being the Scrooge that I am, I'd probably rather experience IBS.... IBS is way less painful then love  [Edited 11/20/07 22:17pm] | |
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evenstar said: FarrahMoan said: Being the Scrooge that I am, I'd probably rather experience IBS.... Bye, Bye, Bye! What am I? N-Stank? Hataz. I'd rather live a full and single life, "NAH-MEAN"....."SON!?!"  Yeap, quotation-mark man's to the rescue. No, but seriously. Why the stubbornness?  The reason you don't understand is because you are "IN LOVE"! I'm not getting married so that already scratches off half the women in the world that I could have possibly met up to the age of thirty, dude! | |
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FarrahMoan said: evenstar said: Bye, Bye, Bye! What am I? N-Stank? Hataz. I'd rather live a full and single life, "NAH-MEAN"....."SON!?!" Yeap, quotation-mark man's to the rescue. No, but seriously. Why the stubbornness? The reason you don't understand is because you are "IN LOVE"! I'm not getting married so that already scratches off half the women in the world that I could have possibly met up to the age of thirty, dude!dude, you're way too young to be making definate decisions like that.... | |
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roodboi said: FarrahMoan said: Bye, Bye, Bye! What am I? N-Stank? Hataz. I'd rather live a full and single life, "NAH-MEAN"....."SON!?!" Yeap, quotation-mark man's to the rescue. No, but seriously. Why the stubbornness? The reason you don't understand is because you are "IN LOVE"! I'm not getting married so that already scratches off half the women in the world that I could have possibly met up to the age of thirty, dude!dude, you're way too young to be making definate decisions like that.... seriously. i'm not saying you can't be single and happy, that's totally cool, but to swear off romantic attachments forever is pretty silly. | |
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roodboi said: FarrahMoan said: Bye, Bye, Bye! What am I? N-Stank? Hataz. I'd rather live a full and single life, "NAH-MEAN"....."SON!?!" Yeap, quotation-mark man's to the rescue. No, but seriously. Why the stubbornness? The reason you don't understand is because you are "IN LOVE"! I'm not getting married so that already scratches off half the women in the world that I could have possibly met up to the age of thirty, dude!dude, you're way too young to be making definate decisions like that.... Seriously, though. I respect yours ("AND MANY OTHERS'!!!") decision to get married. I really, truly do. But, the way I've grown up, watching my mother go through a divorce with a marriage that was troubled from the get-go and leaving her to struggle while the adulterer of whom she was with years ago live in fair lavish (Compared to us.). Not only that, but I don't know of one important marriage that I have witnessed that has ever been sacred. They all might as well get hitched (My many secondary family members). Uncles and aunts. They all fail. And, not to mention that it is all torture.  Celebrities' marriages fails, but that's common. But, you get so many of these burden-full marriages that never work through tons of imagery. I lost hope in that whole gig by the time I was twelve.
Believe me. I know what I'm doing. I can't even keep my head on straight for myself. So, having to deal with "ONE" women through a contract that only makes matter worst for the very likely hypothetics that the shit won't work out. I model relationships that I have personally witnessed after what my own could turn out to be. I've got tons of cousins getting pregnant and impregnating, right and left. Then, they get married, early-on after the birthing of their children. Young lovebirds? I think not. This is why I feel how I feel..... | |
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FarrahMoan said: roodboi said: dude, you're way too young to be making definate decisions like that.... Seriously, though. I respect yours ("AND MANY OTHERS'!!!") decision to get married. I really, truly do. But, the way I've grown up, watching my mother go through a divorce with a marriage that was troubled from the get-go and leaving her to struggle while the adulterer of whom she was with years ago live in fair lavish (Compared to us.). Not only that, but I don't know of one important marriage that I have witnessed that has ever been sacred. They all might as well get hitched (My many secondary family members). Uncles and aunts. They all fail. And, not to mention that it is all torture. Celebrities' marriages fails, but that's common. But, you get so many of these burden-full marriages that never work through tons of imagery. I lost hope in that whole gig by the time I was twelve.
Believe me. I know what I'm doing. I can't even keep my head on straight for myself. So, having to deal with "ONE" women through a contract that only makes matter worst for the very likely hypothetics that the shit won't work out. I model relationships that I have personally witnessed after what my own could turn out to be. I've got tons of cousins getting pregnant and impregnating, right and left. Then, they get married, early-on after the birthing of their children. Young lovebirds? I think not. This is why I feel how I feel.....  | |
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EverSoulicious said: FarrahMoan said: Seriously, though. I respect yours ("AND MANY OTHERS'!!!") decision to get married. I really, truly do. But, the way I've grown up, watching my mother go through a divorce with a marriage that was troubled from the get-go and leaving her to struggle while the adulterer of whom she was with years ago live in fair lavish (Compared to us.). Not only that, but I don't know of one important marriage that I have witnessed that has ever been sacred. They all might as well get hitched (My many secondary family members). Uncles and aunts. They all fail. And, not to mention that it is all torture. Celebrities' marriages fails, but that's common. But, you get so many of these burden-full marriages that never work through tons of imagery. I lost hope in that whole gig by the time I was twelve.
Believe me. I know what I'm doing. I can't even keep my head on straight for myself. So, having to deal with "ONE" women through a contract that only makes matter worst for the very likely hypothetics that the shit won't work out. I model relationships that I have personally witnessed after what my own could turn out to be. I've got tons of cousins getting pregnant and impregnating, right and left. Then, they get married, early-on after the birthing of their children. Young lovebirds? I think not. This is why I feel how I feel..... Thank you. Glad that you understand. Even if you don't agree with my choices. | |
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FarrahMoan said: EverSoulicious said: You can take from what you have seen growing up as an example of what NOT to do. But not all marriages turn out bad. But if you feel this how things are and will be..I am truly sorry
Thank you. Glad that you understand. Even if you don't agree with my choices. I got married at 18, had my first son at 20 and then another and another and another lol. My marriages has been through break ups, Highs and lows. It's been WORK After years and years of growing up on both our parts we are both starting to "get it". There is no fairy tale ending, and to quote Parenthood "there is no touch down, there is no home run, it is what it is". I do hope that you change your mind, down the road.  | |
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FarrahMoan said: roodboi said: dude, you're way too young to be making definate decisions like that.... Seriously, though. I respect yours ("AND MANY OTHERS'!!!") decision to get married. I really, truly do. But, the way I've grown up, watching my mother go through a divorce with a marriage that was troubled from the get-go and leaving her to struggle while the adulterer of whom she was with years ago live in fair lavish (Compared to us.). Not only that, but I don't know of one important marriage that I have witnessed that has ever been sacred. They all might as well get hitched (My many secondary family members). Uncles and aunts. They all fail. And, not to mention that it is all torture. Celebrities' marriages fails, but that's common. But, you get so many of these burden-full marriages that never work through tons of imagery. I lost hope in that whole gig by the time I was twelve.
Believe me. I know what I'm doing. I can't even keep my head on straight for myself. So, having to deal with "ONE" women through a contract that only makes matter worst for the very likely hypothetics that the shit won't work out. I model relationships that I have personally witnessed after what my own could turn out to be. I've got tons of cousins getting pregnant and impregnating, right and left. Then, they get married, early-on after the birthing of their children. Young lovebirds? I think not. This is why I feel how I feel..... you can't project everyone elses relationship issues on yourself...I say this respectfully, thats a cop out. bro... I'm not saying you should or you will get married or beecome seriously involved...but to convince yourself that you never will is a grade A fuck up...instead of relying on what you've seen happen to other peoples relationships, start thinking about what you have to offer someone...if you don't believe that you're of strong enough character to maintain a healthy relationship, you're not only robbing yourself, but possibly robbing somebody else of a chance to appreciate you and to return that appreciation... I'm certainly no relationship expert...my wife would tell you that ...but I have said some of the same things you have only to be proven wrong...love can suck, but it can also be one of the most fulfilling things in the world...it's worth the risk... | |
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roodboi said: FarrahMoan said: Seriously, though. I respect yours ("AND MANY OTHERS'!!!") decision to get married. I really, truly do. But, the way I've grown up, watching my mother go through a divorce with a marriage that was troubled from the get-go and leaving her to struggle while the adulterer of whom she was with years ago live in fair lavish (Compared to us.). Not only that, but I don't know of one important marriage that I have witnessed that has ever been sacred. They all might as well get hitched (My many secondary family members). Uncles and aunts. They all fail. And, not to mention that it is all torture. Celebrities' marriages fails, but that's common. But, you get so many of these burden-full marriages that never work through tons of imagery. I lost hope in that whole gig by the time I was twelve.
Believe me. I know what I'm doing. I can't even keep my head on straight for myself. So, having to deal with "ONE" women through a contract that only makes matter worst for the very likely hypothetics that the shit won't work out. I model relationships that I have personally witnessed after what my own could turn out to be. I've got tons of cousins getting pregnant and impregnating, right and left. Then, they get married, early-on after the birthing of their children. Young lovebirds? I think not. This is why I feel how I feel..... you can't project everyone elses relationship issues on yourself...I say this respectfully, thats a cop out. bro... I'm not saying you should or you will get married or beecome seriously involved...but to convince yourself that you never will is a grade A fuck up...instead of relying on what you've seen happen to other peoples relationships, start thinking about what you have to offer someone...if you don't believe that you're of strong enough character to maintain a healthy relationship, you're not only robbing yourself, but possibly robbing somebody else of a chance to appreciate you and to return that appreciation... I'm certainly no relationship expert...my wife would tell you that ...but I have said some of the same things you have only to be proven wrong...love can suck, but it can also be one of the most fulfilling things in the world...it's worth the risk...I kind of feel you and understand what you are coming from, but commitment was "NEVER" out of the question, as far as I am concerned. Marriage is the shit that scares me. The word alone just makes my blood turn cold. I won't have to model my relationship after others without that Monogomous Contract. I can live someone. Love someone (OUCH!!! That word stings. Unless it's that Mother/Son type of love. That's easy.). Well, loving someone isn't what's hard. It's "FALLING IN LOVE" with someone that hurts and ("SUPPOSEDLY!!!") feels just as good as the pain of it all. I also have to sacrifice my pride. Dude, I'm a poet and everything. So, dedicating one of my strongest pieces of writings to a girl that "QUITE FRANKLY" shat on my presence and everything I had ever done for her. No intimacy was ever involved or anything like that. Just me treating her with shit she didn't deserve only to receive (What I felt at the time.) her beautiful face smile at mine. Amidst it all, she'd be in Match Class, sitting right behind me, talking about intimate relations toward another guy with another pretty chick who sat next to me. Then, the girl would have the audacity to ask me how I felt about that shit in her life. There was another time where/when she would talk to this other chick about getting her naked gluteous maximus groped and masaged by a boyfriend of hers, before. Case of the "Irresistible Bitch" is a bitch to have to go through. I felt sort of raped of my pride, at the time. She still has a copy of what is "STILL" considered to be my best work by some. I want that shit back! | |
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FarrahMoan said: roodboi said: you can't project everyone elses relationship issues on yourself...I say this respectfully, thats a cop out. bro... I'm not saying you should or you will get married or beecome seriously involved...but to convince yourself that you never will is a grade A fuck up...instead of relying on what you've seen happen to other peoples relationships, start thinking about what you have to offer someone...if you don't believe that you're of strong enough character to maintain a healthy relationship, you're not only robbing yourself, but possibly robbing somebody else of a chance to appreciate you and to return that appreciation... I'm certainly no relationship expert...my wife would tell you that ...but I have said some of the same things you have only to be proven wrong...love can suck, but it can also be one of the most fulfilling things in the world...it's worth the risk...I kind of feel you and understand what you are coming from, but commitment was "NEVER" out of the question, as far as I am concerned. Marriage is the shit that scares me. The word alone just makes my blood turn cold. I won't have to model my relationship after others without that Monogomous Contract. I can live someone. Love someone (OUCH!!! That word stings. Unless it's that Mother/Son type of love. That's easy.). Well, loving someone isn't what's hard. It's "FALLING IN LOVE" with someone that hurts and ("SUPPOSEDLY!!!") feels just as good as the pain of it all. I also have to sacrifice my pride. Dude, I'm a poet and everything. So, dedicating one of my strongest pieces of writings to a girl that "QUITE FRANKLY" shat on my presence and everything I had ever done for her. No intimacy was ever involved or anything like that. Just me treating her with shit she didn't deserve only to receive (What I felt at the time.) her beautiful face smile at mine. Amidst it all, she'd be in Match Class, sitting right behind me, talking about intimate relations toward another guy with another pretty chick who sat next to me. Then, the girl would have the audacity to ask me how I felt about that shit in her life. There was another time where/when she would talk to this other chick about getting her naked gluteous maximus groped and masaged by a boyfriend of hers, before. Case of the "Irresistible Bitch" is a bitch to have to go through. I felt sort of raped of my pride, at the time. She still has a copy of what is "STILL" considered to be my best work by some. I want that shit back! true love is born of mutual respect...any marriage, commitment, or relationship will survive as long as the respect is there....look for repesct, you'll be surprised what you'll find... | |
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roodboi said: FarrahMoan said: I kind of feel you and understand what you are coming from, but commitment was "NEVER" out of the question, as far as I am concerned. Marriage is the shit that scares me. The word alone just makes my blood turn cold. I won't have to model my relationship after others without that Monogomous Contract. I can live someone. Love someone (OUCH!!! That word stings. Unless it's that Mother/Son type of love. That's easy.). Well, loving someone isn't what's hard. It's "FALLING IN LOVE" with someone that hurts and ("SUPPOSEDLY!!!") feels just as good as the pain of it all. I also have to sacrifice my pride. Dude, I'm a poet and everything. So, dedicating one of my strongest pieces of writings to a girl that "QUITE FRANKLY" shat on my presence and everything I had ever done for her. No intimacy was ever involved or anything like that. Just me treating her with shit she didn't deserve only to receive (What I felt at the time.) her beautiful face smile at mine. Amidst it all, she'd be in Match Class, sitting right behind me, talking about intimate relations toward another guy with another pretty chick who sat next to me. Then, the girl would have the audacity to ask me how I felt about that shit in her life. There was another time where/when she would talk to this other chick about getting her naked gluteous maximus groped and masaged by a boyfriend of hers, before. Case of the "Irresistible Bitch" is a bitch to have to go through. I felt sort of raped of my pride, at the time. She still has a copy of what is "STILL" considered to be my best work by some. I want that shit back! true love is born of mutual respect...any marriage, commitment, or relationship will survive as long as the respect is there....look for repesct, you'll be surprised what you'll find... Respect. Valuable to some. Just a word to others. Seems just a "LITTLE" pinch of agression is needed for an adjustment to my disposition. But, I get you, "FULLY!!!!" Think about it, indeed.... | |
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FarrahMoan said: roodboi said: you can't project everyone elses relationship issues on yourself...I say this respectfully, thats a cop out. bro... I'm not saying you should or you will get married or beecome seriously involved...but to convince yourself that you never will is a grade A fuck up...instead of relying on what you've seen happen to other peoples relationships, start thinking about what you have to offer someone...if you don't believe that you're of strong enough character to maintain a healthy relationship, you're not only robbing yourself, but possibly robbing somebody else of a chance to appreciate you and to return that appreciation... I'm certainly no relationship expert...my wife would tell you that ...but I have said some of the same things you have only to be proven wrong...love can suck, but it can also be one of the most fulfilling things in the world...it's worth the risk...I kind of feel you and understand what you are coming from, but commitment was "NEVER" out of the question, as far as I am concerned. Marriage is the shit that scares me. The word alone just makes my blood turn cold. I won't have to model my relationship after others without that Monogomous Contract. I can live someone. Love someone (OUCH!!! That word stings. Unless it's that Mother/Son type of love. That's easy.). Well, loving someone isn't what's hard. It's "FALLING IN LOVE" with someone that hurts and ("SUPPOSEDLY!!!") feels just as good as the pain of it all. I also have to sacrifice my pride. Dude, I'm a poet and everything. So, dedicating one of my strongest pieces of writings to a girl that "QUITE FRANKLY" shat on my presence and everything I had ever done for her. No intimacy was ever involved or anything like that. Just me treating her with shit she didn't deserve only to receive (What I felt at the time.) her beautiful face smile at mine. Amidst it all, she'd be in Match Class, sitting right behind me, talking about intimate relations toward another guy with another pretty chick who sat next to me. Then, the girl would have the audacity to ask me how I felt about that shit in her life. There was another time where/when she would talk to this other chick about getting her naked gluteous maximus groped and masaged by a boyfriend of hers, before. Case of the "Irresistible Bitch" is a bitch to have to go through. I felt sort of raped of my pride, at the time. She still has a copy of what is "STILL" considered to be my best work by some. I want that shit back! it doesn't hurt when you find the right person. it's still nerve wracking and scary, but it doesn't hurt. | |
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evenstar said: FarrahMoan said: I kind of feel you and understand what you are coming from, but commitment was "NEVER" out of the question, as far as I am concerned. Marriage is the shit that scares me. The word alone just makes my blood turn cold. I won't have to model my relationship after others without that Monogomous Contract. I can live someone. Love someone (OUCH!!! That word stings. Unless it's that Mother/Son type of love. That's easy.). Well, loving someone isn't what's hard. It's "FALLING IN LOVE" with someone that hurts and ("SUPPOSEDLY!!!") feels just as good as the pain of it all. I also have to sacrifice my pride. Dude, I'm a poet and everything. So, dedicating one of my strongest pieces of writings to a girl that "QUITE FRANKLY" shat on my presence and everything I had ever done for her. No intimacy was ever involved or anything like that. Just me treating her with shit she didn't deserve only to receive (What I felt at the time.) her beautiful face smile at mine. Amidst it all, she'd be in Match Class, sitting right behind me, talking about intimate relations toward another guy with another pretty chick who sat next to me. Then, the girl would have the audacity to ask me how I felt about that shit in her life. There was another time where/when she would talk to this other chick about getting her naked gluteous maximus groped and masaged by a boyfriend of hers, before. Case of the "Irresistible Bitch" is a bitch to have to go through. I felt sort of raped of my pride, at the time. She still has a copy of what is "STILL" considered to be my best work by some. I want that shit back! it doesn't hurt when you find the right person. it's still nerve wracking and scary, but it doesn't hurt. Unfortunately, I just may see what you are talking about. But, I'm not looking for love. Then again, in most cases, when you "FALL" in that pit; it's never really planned. Just ironic, I guess.... | |
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