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i think it's more of an added bonus for me than something that can instantly make someone more attractive. intelligence is closer to something that does that. i'm weird.  | |
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A man with a great sense of humor and fast wits is a complete turn on. | |
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on the opposite end of the spectrum, a person without a sense of humor is useless.
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JerseyKRS said: on the opposite end of the spectrum, a person without a sense of humor is useless.
IMO of course. who are you again? a washed up ex-boo of the week or something?  | |
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Imago said: Have you ever fallen for someone just cause they made you feel warm and fuzzy. Where at one time they were just someone you knew as a great person, but then their humor won you over and you ended up wanting to do the nasty with them? 
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jess555ja said: Sense of humor is a major thing with me. I can't resist an attractive man that can make me laugh.
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evenstar said: JerseyKRS said: on the opposite end of the spectrum, a person without a sense of humor is useless.
IMO of course. who are you again? a washed up ex-boo of the week or something? um, that's an ACCOMPLISHMENT, durrrrr.  | |
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LittleSmedley said: jess555ja said: Sense of humor is a major thing with me. I can't resist an attractive man that can make me laugh.
i'm here
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JerseyKRS said: evenstar said: who are you again? a washed up ex-boo of the week or something? um, that's an ACCOMPLISHMENT, durrrrr. You. evil. hooker.  | |
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LittleSmedley said: jess555ja said: Sense of humor is a major thing with me. I can't resist an attractive man that can make me laugh.
i'm here
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Although, I've never fallen for someone just cuz of their sense of humor, it still is sexy
sense of humor doesnt comfort me in the middle of the night  [Edited 11/16/07 5:38am] | |
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LittleSmedley said: jess555ja said: Sense of humor is a major thing with me. I can't resist an attractive man that can make me laugh.
i'm here
The great one has returned... Oops. I was so shocked to see Mr. Smedley I forgot to answer the question... Whether people want to admit it or not the physical is the first thing you notice in someone. You don't know them, so that's all you have to go on. OK, I'm just waiting for people to say that this is shallow.
There has to be a physical attraction, but after that a sense of humor goes a looooong way. I don't think I could be attracted to someone without the physical though.  [Edited 11/16/07 6:33am] | |
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hokie1 said: LittleSmedley said: i'm here
The great one has returned... Oops. I was so shocked to see Mr. Smedley I forgot to answer the question... Whether people want to admit it or not the physical is the first thing you notice in someone. You don't know them, so that's all you have to go on. OK, I'm just waiting for people to say that this is shallow.
There has to be a physical attraction, but after that a sense of humor goes a looooong way. I don't think I could be attracted to someone without the physical though.
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jess555ja said: hokie1 said:
The great one has returned... Oops. I was so shocked to see Mr. Smedley I forgot to answer the question... Whether people want to admit it or not the physical is the first thing you notice in someone. You don't know them, so that's all you have to go on. OK, I'm just waiting for people to say that this is shallow.
There has to be a physical attraction, but after that a sense of humor goes a looooong way. I don't think I could be attracted to someone without the physical though.
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Smedley . . . . One post? 
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hokie1 said: LittleSmedley said: i'm here
The great one has returned... Oops. I was so shocked to see Mr. Smedley I forgot to answer the question... Whether people want to admit it or not the physical is the first thing you notice in someone. You don't know them, so that's all you have to go on. OK, I'm just waiting for people to say that this is shallow.
There has to be a physical attraction, but after that a sense of humor goes a looooong way. I don't think I could be attracted to someone without the physical though.
[Edited 11/16/07 6:33am] It's the first thing you notice, sure. But have you ever found yourself becoming attracted to someone you maybe weren't so much before you got to know them? That happens to me quite often. In fact, it's rare I'm serisouly attracted to someone without talking to them a bit, getting to know them a little, hearing them speak, finding out their taste in things, etc. When out and about with friends, they are forever pointing out hot guys to me. I'm usually kind of "eh" about most of them and I realize it's just not something I do. I almost never notice even the ones I would fall down and drool over. And they're few and far between anyway. I need more than that for attraction. I swoon over the guys that make me laugh, that are smart, that have good taste, that look at me in a certain way. You can't make me swoon if I don't talk to you a bit first. |
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CarrieMpls said: hokie1 said:
The great one has returned... Oops. I was so shocked to see Mr. Smedley I forgot to answer the question... Whether people want to admit it or not the physical is the first thing you notice in someone. You don't know them, so that's all you have to go on. OK, I'm just waiting for people to say that this is shallow.
There has to be a physical attraction, but after that a sense of humor goes a looooong way. I don't think I could be attracted to someone without the physical though.
[Edited 11/16/07 6:33am] It's the first thing you notice, sure. But have you ever found yourself becoming attracted to someone you maybe weren't so much before you got to know them? That happens to me quite often. In fact, it's rare I'm serisouly attracted to someone without talking to them a bit, getting to know them a little, hearing them speak, finding out their taste in things, etc. When out and about with friends, they are forever pointing out hot guys to me. I'm usually kind of "eh" about most of them and I realize it's just not something I do. I almost never notice even the ones I would fall down and drool over. And they're few and far between anyway. I need more than that for attraction. I swoon over the guys that make me laugh, that are smart, that have good taste, that look at me in a certain way. You can't make me swoon if I don't talk to you a bit first. I agree. I guess I wasn't too clear with my thought. If I were to be introduced to someone I would notice their physical features first. But, that is most definitely not something that could actually carry a relationship. I agree there has to be more there to maintain it. I have found myself attracted to people that I may not have given attention to otherwise. Looks most definitely aren't everything. I do have to have a spark with someone though to keep a relationship. Chemistry. I agree it can happen after talking a bit with them. I guess what I'm really trying to say is that I want/need both the physical and the sense of humor to really have a relationship with someone. Neither of those things alone would do it for me. | |
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hokie1 said: CarrieMpls said: It's the first thing you notice, sure. But have you ever found yourself becoming attracted to someone you maybe weren't so much before you got to know them? That happens to me quite often. In fact, it's rare I'm serisouly attracted to someone without talking to them a bit, getting to know them a little, hearing them speak, finding out their taste in things, etc. When out and about with friends, they are forever pointing out hot guys to me. I'm usually kind of "eh" about most of them and I realize it's just not something I do. I almost never notice even the ones I would fall down and drool over. And they're few and far between anyway. I need more than that for attraction. I swoon over the guys that make me laugh, that are smart, that have good taste, that look at me in a certain way. You can't make me swoon if I don't talk to you a bit first. I agree. I guess I wasn't too clear with my thought. If I were to be introduced to someone I would notice their physical features first. But, that is most definitely not something that could actually carry a relationship. I agree there has to be more there to maintain it. I have found myself attracted to people that I may not have given attention to otherwise. Looks most definitely aren't everything. I do have to have a spark with someone though to keep a relationship. Chemistry. I agree it can happen after talking a bit with them. I guess what I'm really trying to say is that I want/need both the physical and the sense of humor to really have a relationship with someone. Neither of those things alone would do it for me. I see what you're saying and think that's the way it is for most people. Chemistry to me, though, has little to do with physical attraction. It's more emotional, a certain I don't know what, I suppose. I'm not saying it doesn't factor in. It does. But I've actually had how I view someone aesthetically become different because of how I felt about them otherwise. Both ways, either become more or less attractive. I realize, this probably isn't completely common. But somehow my physical tastes morph or change based on my emotions. Perhaps it's bizarre, I don't know, but it's how I work. |
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CarrieMpls said: hokie1 said: I agree. I guess I wasn't too clear with my thought. If I were to be introduced to someone I would notice their physical features first. But, that is most definitely not something that could actually carry a relationship. I agree there has to be more there to maintain it. I have found myself attracted to people that I may not have given attention to otherwise. Looks most definitely aren't everything. I do have to have a spark with someone though to keep a relationship. Chemistry. I agree it can happen after talking a bit with them. I guess what I'm really trying to say is that I want/need both the physical and the sense of humor to really have a relationship with someone. Neither of those things alone would do it for me. I see what you're saying and think that's the way it is for most people. Chemistry to me, though, has little to do with physical attraction. It's more emotional, a certain I don't know what, I suppose. I'm not saying it doesn't factor in. It does. But I've actually had how I view someone aesthetically become different because of how I felt about them otherwise. Both ways, either become more or less attractive. I realize, this probably isn't completely common. But somehow my physical tastes morph or change based on my emotions. Perhaps it's bizarre, I don't know, but it's how I work. I can understand that.  This is all getting too complicated for my tired brain. Let me just say if I like them I like them. If I don't I don't. | |
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CarrieMpls said: hokie1 said: I agree. I guess I wasn't too clear with my thought. If I were to be introduced to someone I would notice their physical features first. But, that is most definitely not something that could actually carry a relationship. I agree there has to be more there to maintain it. I have found myself attracted to people that I may not have given attention to otherwise. Looks most definitely aren't everything. I do have to have a spark with someone though to keep a relationship. Chemistry. I agree it can happen after talking a bit with them. I guess what I'm really trying to say is that I want/need both the physical and the sense of humor to really have a relationship with someone. Neither of those things alone would do it for me. I see what you're saying and think that's the way it is for most people. Chemistry to me, though, has little to do with physical attraction. It's more emotional, a certain I don't know what, I suppose. I'm not saying it doesn't factor in. It does. But I've actually had how I view someone aesthetically become different because of how I felt about them otherwise. Both ways, either become more or less attractive. I realize, this probably isn't completely common. But somehow my physical tastes morph or change based on my emotions. Perhaps it's bizarre, I don't know, but it's how I work. I definitely do not become more (or less) physically attracted to someone based on personality. It's all about chemistry for me. It's either there or not from day one. That said, I was once very physically attracted to someone that I did not consider to be very attractive. We just had chemistry and our physical relationship was amazing. Personality wise we didn't even get along that well, but that damn chemistry kept us hooking up. | |
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1) Nice bubble butt
2) Humor 3) Respect In that order..... MyeternalgrattitudetoPhil&Val.Herman said "We want sweaty truckers at the truck stop! We want cigar puffing men that look like they wanna beat the living daylights out of us" Val"sporking is spooning with benefits" | |
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CarrieMpls said: hokie1 said:
The great one has returned... Oops. I was so shocked to see Mr. Smedley I forgot to answer the question... Whether people want to admit it or not the physical is the first thing you notice in someone. You don't know them, so that's all you have to go on. OK, I'm just waiting for people to say that this is shallow.
There has to be a physical attraction, but after that a sense of humor goes a looooong way. I don't think I could be attracted to someone without the physical though.
[Edited 11/16/07 6:33am] It's the first thing you notice, sure. But have you ever found yourself becoming attracted to someone you maybe weren't so much before you got to know them? That happens to me quite often. In fact, it's rare I'm serisouly attracted to someone without talking to them a bit, getting to know them a little, hearing them speak, finding out their taste in things, etc. When out and about with friends, they are forever pointing out hot guys to me. I'm usually kind of "eh" about most of them and I realize it's just not something I do. I almost never notice even the ones I would fall down and drool over. And they're few and far between anyway. I need more than that for attraction. I swoon over the guys that make me laugh, that are smart, that have good taste, that look at me in a certain way. You can't make me swoon if I don't talk to you a bit first. 
You know, a woman's taste in things always tipped me off as to whether we'd get along. Not so much as in attraction, but as far is just getting along. You can tell ALOT from a person by their taste in music, or movies sometimes. | |
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Imago said: OK.
There aren't many folks that will disagree with me on this, but I am totally and utterly attracted to people with a good sense of humor. Even if I don't find them psychically attractive, or I don't really want to do the nasty with them, I'm still strongly drawn to them. There is something spiritually healing about this. Something alluring, and uplifting. In the saddest moments, sometimes humor just picks you up. It certainly never hurts. Does anyone not find humor or funny people attractive? In other words, is it ever NOT a trait you find attractive in someone? Have you ever fallen for someone just cause they made you feel warm and fuzzy. Where at one time they were just someone you knew as a great person, but then their humor won you over and you ended up wanting to do the nasty with them? ,
[Edited 11/15/07 19:05pm] Ummmm.....I'm just.....I'm....."I'M APPAULED!!!!" And, you wanna know something funny. It ain't because you picked the utmost popular human chimpanz in the U.S. It's the fact that "YOU" (A fairly intelligent/silly character.) would find the likes of "George W. Cornbush" funny. You couldn't be serious..... | |
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Imago said: CarrieMpls said: It's the first thing you notice, sure. But have you ever found yourself becoming attracted to someone you maybe weren't so much before you got to know them? That happens to me quite often. In fact, it's rare I'm serisouly attracted to someone without talking to them a bit, getting to know them a little, hearing them speak, finding out their taste in things, etc. When out and about with friends, they are forever pointing out hot guys to me. I'm usually kind of "eh" about most of them and I realize it's just not something I do. I almost never notice even the ones I would fall down and drool over. And they're few and far between anyway. I need more than that for attraction. I swoon over the guys that make me laugh, that are smart, that have good taste, that look at me in a certain way. You can't make me swoon if I don't talk to you a bit first.
You know, a woman's taste in things always tipped me off as to whether we'd get along. Not so much as in attraction, but as far is just getting along. You can tell ALOT from a person by their taste in music, or movies sometimes. | |
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FarrahMoan said: Imago said: OK.
There aren't many folks that will disagree with me on this, but I am totally and utterly attracted to people with a good sense of humor. Even if I don't find them psychically attractive, or I don't really want to do the nasty with them, I'm still strongly drawn to them. There is something spiritually healing about this. Something alluring, and uplifting. In the saddest moments, sometimes humor just picks you up. It certainly never hurts. Does anyone not find humor or funny people attractive? In other words, is it ever NOT a trait you find attractive in someone? Have you ever fallen for someone just cause they made you feel warm and fuzzy. Where at one time they were just someone you knew as a great person, but then their humor won you over and you ended up wanting to do the nasty with them? ,
[Edited 11/15/07 19:05pm] Ummmm.....I'm just.....I'm....."I'M APPAULED!!!!" And, you wanna know something funny. It ain't because you picked the utmost popular human chimpanz in the U.S. It's the fact that "YOU" (A fairly intelligent/silly character.) would find the likes of "George W. Cornbush" funny. You couldn't be serious..... That's not a picture of George Bush. I know they look alike, but that's not him. | |
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Muse2NOPharaoh said: Imago said:
You know, a woman's taste in things always tipped me off as to whether we'd get along. Not so much as in attraction, but as far is just getting along. You can tell ALOT from a person by their taste in music, or movies sometimes. I'm making that armpit finger sound and cloking it at my computer screen right after I type these words. | |
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Imago said: FarrahMoan said: Ummmm.....I'm just.....I'm....."I'M APPAULED!!!!" And, you wanna know something funny. It ain't because you picked the utmost popular human chimpanz in the U.S. It's the fact that "YOU" (A fairly intelligent/silly character.) would find the likes of "George W. Cornbush" funny. You couldn't be serious..... That's not a picture of George Bush. I know they look alike, but that's not him. Riiiiight..... | |
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JuliePurplehead said: Anxiety said: i'm the total opposite, seriously. people who don't understand my jokes turn me into mr. sausagepants all the way.
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FarrahMoan said: Imago said: That's not a picture of George Bush. I know they look alike, but that's not him. Riiiiight..... But thanks for calling me fairly intelligent and silly. Most folks don't perceive this in me unfortunately. | |
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Imago said: CarrieMpls said: It's the first thing you notice, sure. But have you ever found yourself becoming attracted to someone you maybe weren't so much before you got to know them? That happens to me quite often. In fact, it's rare I'm serisouly attracted to someone without talking to them a bit, getting to know them a little, hearing them speak, finding out their taste in things, etc. When out and about with friends, they are forever pointing out hot guys to me. I'm usually kind of "eh" about most of them and I realize it's just not something I do. I almost never notice even the ones I would fall down and drool over. And they're few and far between anyway. I need more than that for attraction. I swoon over the guys that make me laugh, that are smart, that have good taste, that look at me in a certain way. You can't make me swoon if I don't talk to you a bit first.
You know, a woman's taste in things always tipped me off as to whether we'd get along. Not so much as in attraction, but as far is just getting along. You can tell ALOT from a person by their taste in music, or movies sometimes.
I've always said I could never date a guy with a completely incompatible taste in music. |
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Imago said: FarrahMoan said: Riiiiight..... But thanks for calling me fairly intelligent and silly. Most folks don't perceive this in me unfortunately. Your sarcasm. All a part of your popularity and wit, eh?  | |
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