mdiver said:

I just made a chocolate mousse and english toffe bar pie...I'd take THAT over sex most days. I only really enjoy sex if I've been drinking. Sober sex sucks



Smooches;)
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MsMisha319 said:

Maybe sober sex sucks for you because of your inhibitions. Being drunk seems to take those away...for most anyway.

I guess I have a hard time understanding how something so very pleasurable can be looked at as overrated.

I'm not inhibited at all, just tired because I work my ass of all week and sex is the last thing on my mind at the end of the day. After a few drinks, I can forget about the work week and relax.....


Thanks Dr. Phil for your input though



Smooches;)
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MsMisha319 said:

really? you can't feel as much if you're drunk, though!

evenstar said:

Pfft you haven't even fucking done it.

benyamin said:

Exactly!


Smooches;)

benyamin said:

so am i wrong, then?

evenstar said:

I would say that alcohol ENHANCES the pleasure. My personal opinion.


Smooches;)

MsMisha319 said:

MsMisha319 said:

Oh good God.

A great fuck after a long, hard day is the best.

This question is a good example of how spoiled this current generation is.
Kids,
if you can get the sex,
then it's never really over-rated.
And if it feels like it is,
then that's more of a result of your lack of appreciation of it than anything else.

Hell, back in my day,
if we wanted sex, we had to do it barefoot, in six-feet of snow, uphill, both ways.
And the only marital aids that we had available to us was either a stick or, if we were lucky enough to find one, a weather-worn polished, fist-sized rock.
And we loved it.

So quit trying to evaluate it,
get out there, take off your clothes,
strap-on your favorite accessory,
& go fuck yourselves,
ya ungrateful bunch of pimple-faced bastards & bitches.

MsMisha319 said:

same here!

JustErin said:

I understand where you're coming from and I think I used to feel that way. But nowadays, I prefer a hot bath and a magazine on most nights. If I'm too tired, he won't enjoy it either.


Smooches;)

This thread is still here?



NO! No, no, a cuzillion times no. No.

It's possibly underrated.

HereToRockYourWorld said:

No no no. There's no possible way it's underrated in this country.

I guess I go through my phases but there are times I get sick TO DEATH of seeing/hearing about sex. And other times I can't get enough, I suppose. But jesus, there IS more to life.

sex is boring

for me perosnally, it's the type of sex. I had to find that out the hard way. See, I just can't understand what's so great about casual sex. The one-nighters, booty calls, body buddies, etc. If there is no love behind it, I can't do it. Can't feel it, don't want it.

Now sex with someone you love....mmmmm good stuff. Sweet cuppin' cakes kinda stuff. You can kiss them good night, cuddle, and in my case, giggle like shy lil' school kids in bed during the cool down session. But that's just me. Just because I don't get/want sans-love sex doesnt mean I'd look down on those who do. It's all about choice and comfort. For me personally, it's no something I'm cool with. (which singles me out in an instant with peers and elders as strange because I'm so young and so sure.... but this gal knows what she wants and it won't change as age progresses.)

Sure, I could play the age thing. I'm young. It feels hella good. However to my mate and I, it means much more than bumping uglies and exchanging animal noises. It's physical expression, pleasure, connection. I don't think it will bore me. I'm a dirty minded person with a HUGE caliber of curiosity. But also I'm a feelings type of person. Feelings and such play a big role in life situations with me. Is sex overrated? Nah. Not so much.

Wow.....when all is said and done.....sex is NOT over rated.











However i am opening myself up for Shanti to come on and tell you all that I am

mdiver said:

What that you are overrated?

or that sex is overrated...

shanti0608 said:

me

mdiver said:

In general or when it comes to sex ?

Serious said:

I am gonna walk away slowly

mdiver said:

You are not answering my question .

I would rather have sex than talk about it really.

Serious said:

Either one

mdiver said:

Serious said: