you meet this great person...he likes golden girls, has nice window treatments and gets his feet scrubbed...but swears that he's a pussy hound.has gay friends, because he's not judgmental.just curious, could you really deal with the hassle from friends and strangers constantly questioning your partners sexuality to your face and behind your back?

As long as she was feminine I wouldn't care. I'd be curious what made people think she was gay though.

Yes i could. I've dealt with it before. Just because he dressed his ass off, smelled good, and kept his nails cleaned(unlike some men ), my friends always asked if he was gay. I dont think he liked the golden girls tho

But trust me, he loooooved pussy

retina said:

I was just thinking that. But whilst I was thinking it you typed it so you beat me to it

Sure could..that is what I am dealing with right now!

jami0mckay said:

let's say she has that 1990's queen latifah/da brat thing going on..you know, always in pants/sweats, hair ain't never fly, real basic makeup job, genrally uninterested in the usual female stuff. basically, if you were dating a WNBA player, since some of them are gay, but practically all of them are labeled that way

basically, could you date prince, but without the money, fame, guitar skills and he worked at the Radisson Hotel?

Fury said:

Fury said:

as long as he still looks the same, I would.
And I would go visit him on his lunch breaks and we could run right upstairs to a room and bang bang bang.

Ok let me stop..its to early for this

If the person is dating someone of the opposite sex (i.e., you), doesn't that make the sexuality question moot?

RodeoSchro said:

Not necessarily cuz I know a guy who is married to a woman and is sleeping with men.

DanceWme said:

Fury said:

Well if she wasn't feminine at all then it's likely that I wouldn't be attracted to her in the first place, so it's kind of hard to imagine being together with a woman that people think is gay just because she's so butch. But I guess it's possible that they thought she was butch but I didn't, in which case I'd be okay with it.

Either way, I guess it would bother me a bit if they really thought she was gay gay, i.e. had no interest in men whatsoever, since that would mean that they thought she was not interested in me at all and that our relationship was just one big pretend act (alternatively that I had been duped by her, and that she had ulterior motives for being with me). That's the only scenario that might possibly bother me though.

If everyone thought she was a lipstick lesbian, sure. If they thought she was a bull dyke, I'd be a little weary.


I mean, my girlfriends have had to extend me the favor....like all the time. I love the golden girls btw.

If she puts up,
she pretty much covers the qualifications
that I require in a soul-mate.
All that other shit that I listed over in my eHarmony profile page is just filler.

labels suck.

Fury said:

Sounds like he's part of what Artie Lange refers to as the "Seems-gay Community".

Depends on what makes him seem gay. If it's cause he's got style, cares about his home, takes care of himself, etc, then I'd have no problems with it.
If it's cause he's always sucking dick, then there would be a problem.

CarrieMpls said:

CarrieMpls said:

CarrieMpls said:

have you ever seen one of those cuckold films, where the wife gets fucked by some guy and then the husband sucks the jizz out of her snatch?
i was like...whoa....he's got that guy's nutt on his lips.

Fury said:

ok that's kind of hot.

























I don't watch such films.

I have. but I didn't care because he loved to eat out

DanceWme said:

CarrieMpls said:

Best


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ever

YES as long as there clean an they are not gay now.

yes

CarrieMpls said:

Yes. Totally. So long as he was straight and straight with me. No lies.

Absolutely. The girl I'm seeing right now is bi-sexual. And although I wouldn't say that everybody thinks she's gay, it has been mentioned by a couple of people who noticed that she works out and has a bit of a hardbody. She's still a very feminine looking, beautiful girl. So even if more people thought it about her, it wouldn't bother me one iota.