Have u ever been in a long distance relationship and if so how did it work out?

yes and it worked until he cheated on me during the summer break while we were in college...bastard... and yes I am still bitter over the whole thing with him.

Paisley said:

He was in NYC and I was in Rochester NY--about 400 miles apart, I think.

ANYway, I managed 2 get him 2 drive his NEW car up here, put ALL that mileage on it, just so we could c a movie 2gether. He left the next day because of some emergency with his friend who came along with him.


My theory? They ran out of money.

Nep2nes said:

My theory?

Ugh, nevermind. It's just too easy. I'll just continue trying to figure out how he could stand a day's worth of you...

I was in Fremont, he was in Richmond. It lasted almost a year... crazy shit. I'm having trouble remembering because it was so many years ago.

With some people a long distance relationship is ok because the time that you spend togther is worth it. I myself have never been in a long distance relationship. I just could not do it because it would be unfair to the person that I'm with because I would never be faithful.

Yes, I been in many long distance before, and I won't ever again to hard to manage in my opinion.

Yes. It sucked at the time. But it turned out ok. I married him.

Doves,
Mel!ssa

yes. i'm in one now. but, he's moving here, so i won't be for long! :wOOt:

BattierBeMyDaddy said:

Umm...when some1 comes 400 miles 2 c u, u must have *some* thing goin' on.

[Snip. Flame removed. Ian]

most all my relationships have been LONG DISTANCE.
i was reared all over the country, and it was impossible
not to have one. good thing though, because it taught me
to be honest in all my relations.
it's hard to stay without, even for love.

Nep2nes said:

You keep telling yourself that. Whatever will make you feel good, dear.

Paisley said:

Yup, Tokyo - Dublin It was pretty rough at times but we're now married. And living in the same country, which is nice

I would never travel 400 miles to see Alanis Morrisette.

bkw said:

Apparently, Alanis was whoring herself out for the weekend. Of course, we can only imagine the fellow who drove to meet her.

Is 40-50 miles apart long distance?

Working out very well!!!

Like anything else in life.It will depend on the people.
People will always be the "exception" to every rule.
If it moves you,think it out and if it seems ok,go for it.
Nothing ventured,nothing gained.But if you feel really unsafe then don't do it.Nothing ventured,nothing lost.
In the end it's up to you.They can only give advice.You will have to live with the decision.

Paisley said:

Long term long distance relationsships...
That dipends on the level and situation of that relationship and if there's the need for bodytouch or not.
I think, yes.

I've been in a number. I'm in one now. The others didn't last, for a number of reasons. I believe this one will, because of our maturity levels, communication & prayer, and love.