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Printablethekidsgirl said: evenstar said: me too!!  i get way too nervous & want to run away and hide. you think there's any chance he might already have guessed how you feel about him?Then you feel my pain as I read all these "tell him how you feel" replies!  I know it's the mature and right thing to do, but damn, do I have to?
and I don't know if he knows how I feel already? We have such a close, quasi-flirtatious relationship already, I think it would be hard to tell what was sincere and what wasn't. Most of my friends have asked me if we were dating and alot of complete strangers have too. Do you have to? NO. Give me his phone number and I'll do it!  2010: Healing the Wounds of the Past.... http://prince.org/msg/8/325740 | |
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SupaFunkyOrgangrinderSexy said: thekidsgirl said: Then you feel my pain as I read all these "tell him how you feel" replies! I know it's the mature and right thing to do, but damn, do I have to?
and I don't know if he knows how I feel already? We have such a close, quasi-flirtatious relationship already, I think it would be hard to tell what was sincere and what wasn't. Most of my friends have asked me if we were dating and alot of complete strangers have too. Do you have to? NO. Give me his phone number and I'll do it! OH GAWD!!
that would be something awkward to explain...uh...I'll think about it If you will, so will I | |
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thekidsgirl said: SupaFunkyOrgangrinderSexy said: Do you have to? NO. Give me his phone number and I'll do it! OH GAWD!!
that would be something awkward to explain...uh...I'll think about it Hello? Hi, is this The KidsGirl's best friend? Yeah, who's this? This is her music loving concert sharing friend from the org..... 
WHY THE HELL ARE YOU WILDING OUT! 
I think he'd get the picture  2010: Healing the Wounds of the Past.... http://prince.org/msg/8/325740 | |
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SupaFunkyOrgangrinderSexy said: thekidsgirl said: OH GAWD!!
that would be something awkward to explain...uh...I'll think about it Hello? Hi, is this The KidsGirl's best friend? Yeah, who's this? This is her music loving concert sharing friend from the org.....
WHY THE HELL ARE YOU WILDING OUT!
I think he'd get the picture
Can you please call my bank, Supa? I'm not mad at you, I'm mad at the dirt. | |
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rushing07 said: SupaFunkyOrgangrinderSexy said: Hello? Hi, is this The KidsGirl's best friend? Yeah, who's this? This is her music loving concert sharing friend from the org.....
WHY THE HELL ARE YOU WILDING OUT!
I think he'd get the picture
Can you please call my bank, Supa? I'm on it! 
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girl you ARE me 4 years ago. I was really close friends with a guy friend of mine, and he had a girlfriend. It as his birthday and he invited me to meet him at a restaurant with friends, so I rushed from my class (i was in college at the time) got him and gift and got to the restaurant, and his friends weren't there, it was him, his girlfriend, and a friend of HERS and her boyfriend. Needless to say, I felt EXACTLY as you described. I had a hard crush on him, but the difference in this situation is, a few weeks before his birthday, he had told me that he was attracted to me and didn't know how to get rid of his "feelings"...I actually lied and told him that I didn't feel the same because I didn't want to get caught up in a web with him. I know if my boyfriend told one of his female friends that he was attracted to her, I would be hurt. But anyway back to the story, I was sitting there and it was as if it was just me and him talking and having a real conversation, while his girlfriend and her friends were talking.
I was so nervous I ordered an apple martini!!! I didn't know what else to do to calm my nerves. So how did I deal with it....well he's my current boyfriend now. On to you, I think you should go out on a limb and tell him how you feel...what do you have to lose??? You are single and you can do as you please. You may never know, he just might feel the same way about you too. But if he doesn't then just hold you head up high, and take a break from him, because you will need time to get over him. Now to answer you question can mean and women every just "be friends"? Well judging from my experiences, no. If a man and a woman are friends there is almost always some kind of connection there. With every guy that i've been close to on a "friendly" level, there was ALWAYS an attraction there between us. I haven't been friends with a guy till this day that I didn't some kind of attraction for. Just being honest. I will forever love and miss you...my sweet Prince. | |
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SupaFunkyOrgangrinderSexy said: thekidsgirl said: OH GAWD!!
that would be something awkward to explain...uh...I'll think about it Hello? Hi, is this The KidsGirl's best friend? Yeah, who's this? This is her music loving concert sharing friend from the org.....
WHY THE HELL ARE YOU WILDING OUT!
I think he'd get the picture HELL YEAH!!
now thats what I'm talking about! I need to just fly your ass out here so you can tell him that in person! Thanxxx Supa  x 10000!If you will, so will I | |
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thekidsgirl said: SupaFunkyOrgangrinderSexy said: Hello? Hi, is this The KidsGirl's best friend? Yeah, who's this? This is her music loving concert sharing friend from the org.....
WHY THE HELL ARE YOU WILDING OUT!
I think he'd get the picture HELL YEAH!!
now thats what I'm talking about! I need to just fly your ass out here so you can tell him that in person! Thanxxx Supa x 10000!I'd go a few rounds for you
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missfee said: girl you ARE me 4 years ago. I was really close friends with a guy friend of mine, and he had a girlfriend. It as his birthday and he invited me to meet him at a restaurant with friends, so I rushed from my class (i was in college at the time) got him and gift and got to the restaurant, and his friends weren't there, it was him, his girlfriend, and a friend of HERS and her boyfriend. Needless to say, I felt EXACTLY as you described. I had a hard crush on him, but the difference in this situation is, a few weeks before his birthday, he had told me that he was attracted to me and didn't know how to get rid of his "feelings"...I actually lied and told him that I didn't feel the same because I didn't want to get caught up in a web with him. I know if my boyfriend told one of his female friends that he was attracted to her, I would be hurt. But anyway back to the story, I was sitting there and it was as if it was just me and him talking and having a real conversation, while his girlfriend and her friends were talking.
I was so nervous I ordered an apple martini!!! I didn't know what else to do to calm my nerves. So how did I deal with it....well he's my current boyfriend now. On to you, I think you should go out on a limb and tell him how you feel...what do you have to lose??? You are single and you can do as you please. You may never know, he just might feel the same way about you too. But if he doesn't then just hold you head up high, and take a break from him, because you will need time to get over him. Now to answer you question can mean and women every just "be friends"? Well judging from my experiences, no. If a man and a woman are friends there is almost always some kind of connection there. With every guy that i've been close to on a "friendly" level, there was ALWAYS an attraction there between us. I haven't been friends with a guy till this day that I didn't some kind of attraction for. Just being honest. I have only one male friend that a mutual NON-attraction exists. It's a wicked friendship. As for all my other male friends...I've slept with them. [Edited 11/6/07 16:28pm] | |
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missfee said: girl you ARE me 4 years ago. I was really close friends with a guy friend of mine, and he had a girlfriend. It as his birthday and he invited me to meet him at a restaurant with friends, so I rushed from my class (i was in college at the time) got him and gift and got to the restaurant, and his friends weren't there, it was him, his girlfriend, and a friend of HERS and her boyfriend. Needless to say, I felt EXACTLY as you described. I had a hard crush on him, but the difference in this situation is, a few weeks before his birthday, he had told me that he was attracted to me and didn't know how to get rid of his "feelings"...I actually lied and told him that I didn't feel the same because I didn't want to get caught up in a web with him. I know if my boyfriend told one of his female friends that he was attracted to her, I would be hurt. But anyway back to the story, I was sitting there and it was as if it was just me and him talking and having a real conversation, while his girlfriend and her friends were talking.
I was so nervous I ordered an apple martini!!! I didn't know what else to do to calm my nerves. So how did I deal with it....well he's my current boyfriend now. On to you, I think you should go out on a limb and tell him how you feel...what do you have to lose??? You are single and you can do as you please. You may never know, he just might feel the same way about you too. But if he doesn't then just hold you head up high, and take a break from him, because you will need time to get over him. Now to answer you question can mean and women every just "be friends"? Well judging from my experiences, no. If a man and a woman are friends there is almost always some kind of connection there. With every guy that i've been close to on a "friendly" level, there was ALWAYS an attraction there between us. I haven't been friends with a guy till this day that I didn't some kind of attraction for. Just being honest. Wow, yeah that was the same situation! I was feeling so out of place I didn't even eat, I just kinda stared off into space and drank alot of water I'm so glad that yours had a happy ending. Reading your post is making me feel like such a punk for not wanting to be upfront,but I just feel like if I say something things are gonna get hella uncomfortable
But trust me, I hear what everybody's saying, I just have to work upp the nerve If you will, so will I | |
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JustErin said: missfee said: girl you ARE me 4 years ago. I was really close friends with a guy friend of mine, and he had a girlfriend. It as his birthday and he invited me to meet him at a restaurant with friends, so I rushed from my class (i was in college at the time) got him and gift and got to the restaurant, and his friends weren't there, it was him, his girlfriend, and a friend of HERS and her boyfriend. Needless to say, I felt EXACTLY as you described. I had a hard crush on him, but the difference in this situation is, a few weeks before his birthday, he had told me that he was attracted to me and didn't know how to get rid of his "feelings"...I actually lied and told him that I didn't feel the same because I didn't want to get caught up in a web with him. I know if my boyfriend told one of his female friends that he was attracted to her, I would be hurt. But anyway back to the story, I was sitting there and it was as if it was just me and him talking and having a real conversation, while his girlfriend and her friends were talking.
I was so nervous I ordered an apple martini!!! I didn't know what else to do to calm my nerves. So how did I deal with it....well he's my current boyfriend now. On to you, I think you should go out on a limb and tell him how you feel...what do you have to lose??? You are single and you can do as you please. You may never know, he just might feel the same way about you too. But if he doesn't then just hold you head up high, and take a break from him, because you will need time to get over him. Now to answer you question can mean and women every just "be friends"? Well judging from my experiences, no. If a man and a woman are friends there is almost always some kind of connection there. With every guy that i've been close to on a "friendly" level, there was ALWAYS an attraction there between us. I haven't been friends with a guy till this day that I didn't some kind of attraction for. Just being honest. I have only one male friend that a mutual NON-attraction exists. It's a wicked friendship. As for all my other male friends...I've slept with them.
[Edited 11/6/07 16:28pm] There is just something so beautiful about people that keep it that damn real!  If you will, so will I | |
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as some say if you try something with him this could be the end of the friendship but who are these that say that and who says they're right you never know what you might be missing and are you completely sure that dude may like you more than you percieve and might be too shy to make a move? To Sir, with Love | |
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PEJ said: as some say if you try something with him this could be the end of the friendship but who are these that say that and who says they're right you never know what you might be missing and are you completely sure that dude may like you more than you percieve and might be too shy to make a move?
This is true, and I am always beating myself up for not taking more chances  If you will, so will I | |
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JustErin said: pardonme4livin said: 
Whatever!!!.....
And to answer the initial question.....no I don't think so.....  Ew, so you're saying you bone people you are not sexually attracted to?? I bone people based on what's in their hearts. Because in God's eyes, we're all beautiful. And in my eyes, a piece of ass is still a piece of ass. [Edited 11/6/07 16:55pm] | |
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I think you should tell him how you feel. At this point, you don't have anything to lose because his girlfriend is putting a damper on your friendship anyway.
I wish I could take my own advice.  Shake it til ya make it  | |
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For me, most women I know I've either had sex with or want to. Now after that happens, I have been able to have very strong friendships. But they're always teetering on the edge of fucking. Sometimes you can push sex to the back and focus on the other things that per-....
Ummm, the answer is no. | |
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JuliePurplehead said: I think you should tell him how you feel. At this point, you don't have anything to lose because his girlfriend is putting a damper on your friendship anyway.
I wish I could take my own advice. yeah don't we all! I hate knowing the right thing to do, but feeling like "I can't do this!"  If you will, so will I | |
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violator said: For me, most women I know I've either had sex with or want to. Now after that happens, I have been able to have very strong friendships. But they're always teetering on the edge of fucking. Sometimes you can push sex to the back and focus on the other things that per-....
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thekidsgirl said: JuliePurplehead said: I think you should tell him how you feel. At this point, you don't have anything to lose because his girlfriend is putting a damper on your friendship anyway.
I wish I could take my own advice. yeah don't we all! I hate knowing the right thing to do, but feeling like "I can't do this!" I made almost this exact thread last week. | |
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thekidsgirl said: JuliePurplehead said: I think you should tell him how you feel. At this point, you don't have anything to lose because his girlfriend is putting a damper on your friendship anyway.
I wish I could take my own advice. yeah don't we all! I hate knowing the right thing to do, but feeling like "I can't do this!" Just pretend like you're an actor or just someone else and do it! 2010: Healing the Wounds of the Past.... http://prince.org/msg/8/325740 | |
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violator said: For me, most women I know I've either had sex with or want to. Now after that happens, I have been able to have very strong friendships. But they're always teetering on the edge of fucking. Sometimes you can push sex to the back and focus on the other things that per-....
Ummm, the answer is no.
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violator said: For me, most women I know I've either had sex with or want to. Now after that happens, I have been able to have very strong friendships. But they're always teetering on the edge of fucking. Sometimes you can push sex to the back and focus on the other things that per-....
Ummm, the answer is no. wow! thanks for being honest! If you will, so will I | |
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JustErin said: thekidsgirl said: yeah don't we all! I hate knowing the right thing to do, but feeling like "I can't do this!" I made almost this exact thread last week. Well.....what did you do? you chickened out didn't you? 2010: Healing the Wounds of the Past.... http://prince.org/msg/8/325740 | |
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JustErin said: thekidsgirl said: yeah don't we all! I hate knowing the right thing to do, but feeling like "I can't do this!" I made almost this exact thread last week. I should check out this forum more often, but I feel like such an outsider If you will, so will I | |
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SupaFunkyOrgangrinderSexy said: JustErin said: I made almost this exact thread last week. Well.....what did you do? you chickened out didn't you? I've not seen him or even talked to him since I made that thread. | |
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thekidsgirl said: JustErin said: I made almost this exact thread last week. I should check out this forum more often, but I feel like such an outsider You can't be an outsider as it appears that we are all in the same boat. | |
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SupaFunkyOrgangrinderSexy said: thekidsgirl said: yeah don't we all! I hate knowing the right thing to do, but feeling like "I can't do this!" Just pretend like you're an actor or just someone else and do it! Well reading everybody's replies really is getting me pumped to do something, but I'd never have "the talk" with him while he was dating someone else If you will, so will I | |
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JustErin said: SupaFunkyOrgangrinderSexy said: Well.....what did you do? you chickened out didn't you? I've not seen him or even talked to him since I made that thread. Wait! thats not too inspirational If you will, so will I | |
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thekidsgirl said: SupaFunkyOrgangrinderSexy said: Just pretend like you're an actor or just someone else and do it! Well reading everybody's replies really is getting me pumped to do something, but I'd never have "the talk" with him while he was dating someone else So you're going to put this off until this broad is out of his life? How long have they been together now? 2010: Healing the Wounds of the Past.... http://prince.org/msg/8/325740 | |
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thekidsgirl said: Well reading everybody's replies really is getting me pumped to do something, but I'd never have "the talk" with him while he was dating someone else The time for talking has passed. Go get another hot guy and flaunt him to make him jealous. It's the only option you have, really... | |
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