'Friends with benefits/Fuck buddies'.Anyone have one?

if so, can i have her number?

Anyone have one?...if so, can i have her number?

I had one true fuck buddy in the early 90's...she was a cool chick...she was divorced...2 kids...didn't wanna play games or have any sort of emotional attachment...it's hard to find a person, male or female, that will keep their emotions and feelings separate from a sexual relationship...I eventually met a girl I started dating exclusively and the f-buddy was completely cool...I still see her from time to time and it's always very comfortable and not awkward...
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liberation said:

NO!!


Fuck buddies are NEVER a good idea

I had one true fuck buddy in the early 90's...she was a cool chick...she was divorced...2 kids...didn't wanna play games or have any sort of emotional attachment...it's hard to find a person, male or female, that will keep their emotions and feelings separate from a sexual relationship...I eventually met a girl I started dating exclusively and the f-buddy was completely cool...I still see her from time to time and it's always very comfortable and not awkward...
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I have one but I've been trying not to go there 'cause he has a boyfriend and I'm working on my Karma.

I've always had a few on the go at the same time in the past and it always worked out well since we never really became close. Those all ended because they are now in serious relationships or married.

I am in a FWB situation at the moment and I don't like it at all.

JustErin said:

Did you ever decide whether to tell him or not about how you feel? If so, how did it go?

RodeoSchro said:

I've had zero contact with him since I made that thread.

JustErin said:

Wow, I hope we didn't jinx you!

I had one true fuck buddy in the early 90's...she was a cool chick...she was divorced...2 kids...didn't wanna play games or have any sort of emotional attachment...it's hard to find a person, male or female, that will keep their emotions and feelings separate from a sexual relationship...I eventually met a girl I started dating exclusively and the f-buddy was completely cool...I still see her from time to time and it's always very comfortable and not awkward...

roodboi said:

I guess Im one of those that doesnt know how to keep those two seperate

I just wouldn't want to rot the legs of any moral framework I'm comfortable with. I've realised I'm not a mad shagger, I'm a frustrated Christian. I loathe this mindless hedonism with which we've grown too comfortable. It seems to only make us miserable in the end. I see Homer Simpson getting shocked each time while reaching for the donut in the electrified cage. Bzzz. Bzzz. Bzzz. Bzzz.

I had one in the mid 80's - wasn't so much about the "fuck" part though - matter of fact we never went there. Other places yes but not there

Number23 said:

Have you noticed that this post is also post #23?

benyamin said:

Wooo.

Number23 said:

Can we shag?

Fancy London in Jan?