JD wants to know

Why do people like to expose themselves? Are they hoping to turn people on? Are they hoping to shock? Is ANY attention is the attention they want?

Have you flashed or been flashed at? Are you an exhibitionist? Do you fantasize about showing your bits in public?

Go on, do tell

try again!

dont want 2 now


damn

ZombieKitten said:

Oh you git! You said you were going to post it anyway!

Well just to go back to what I was telling you, an ex of mine was flashed at at university. She was a bit shaken by it to be honest. I wouldn't dream of it out of sheer humiliation!

when I was 13 and my sister was 7 we walked along the beach by ourselves, and a guy came towards us out of the dunes, untying his speedos and he said "get a load of this, girls!" and showed us his wares! My sister says I laughed out loud, and he looked upset. I think I just gave him a face.

what was the motivation?

JDInteractive said:

I posted my story

excellent thread idea JD

ZombieKitten said:

I'm even giving my ideas such is the state of this place! he he.

JDInteractive said:

I think this thread is too intellectual to be honest

ZombieKitten said:

Careful what you say, you might hurt my feelings.

JDInteractive said:

that was a compliment

ZombieKitten said:

Anyone who says "get a load of this, girls!" and then shows you his penis is dying to be laughed at.

That said, it's still ridiculous behavior.
I've never been flashed at.
I was asked to flash many a time when I was at Mardi Gras many years ago, a policeman even tried to persuade me.
I didn't do it.

CarrieMpls said:

a real one? or one of these?

ZombieKitten said:

No, it was an actual cop. SOme guys were yelling to me from a balcony and I was saying I wouldn't and the cop walked by as it was going on and was all "come on, go ahead!".

Christopher said:

I U

ZombieKitten said:

ZombieKitten said:

I dunno, but I wish a hot guy would flash his wares at me.

Christopher said:

A female friend of mine was sitting on the beach one summer day and a man was sitting a few metres away. Suddenly he got up and walked over to her and asked "Do you know what time it is?". She answered that she didn't know, and then he went back to his spot, sat down, pulled down his trunks and started jacking off. I guess it was masturbation time.

retina said:

oh you reminded me of the man that asked me for directions I was walking down a street and this copper colour range rover pulls over and the guy asks me where is phillips st, so I tell him and only THEN notice he is naked and jerking off



this time I was afraid, and ran as fast as I could.

For some reason when a guy does it it seems pervy and when a woman does it I think

it's playful. The first time I did it I felt like I was in control but the more

guys asked for it the more I realized they were in control and all it did was

belittle me. I suppose it was an attention seeking thing for me.

They want attention very badly and they like the shock value.

The main difference is, when women do it it is the greatest thing in the world, and we giggle about it, but when men do it it is an affront to commmon decency and we want the guy castrated and put at the bottom of the river.

Sounds right to me!

It's dark in my room, so I'm flashing to see my way

ZombieKitten said:

I have done it - reason - it makes me laugh hard to see peoples faces



it isnt a sexual thing for me and more times then not I flash people I know ( we do it back and forth ) to make each other laugh