romantic?

or unfair?

discuss

ZombieKitten said:

i dont know but i've never seen anybody say no yet

ZombieKitten said:

depends what restaurant you've booked

jami0mckay said:

the cuckoo! dancing guys in lederhosen will ring bells and carry you up on stage

[Edited 10/31/07 2:18am]

ZombieKitten said:

that sounds like the musical dream I had on Sunday, I was on Broadway!

jami0mckay said:

did you sit on a log while they sawed the ends off it?

ZombieKitten said:

no but I sang 'The fairytale of new york' with dancing girls dressed as US cops

jami0mckay said:

I don't know that song you'll have to sing it to me!

ZombieKitten said:

ok when the lederhosen guys arrive I'll sing it then propose

anyway, now Jamie is in a meeting, we can discuss this in a serious manner.

If for example, the askee isn't sure and wants to think about it, what should they do? Wouldn't it create a pretty bad rift because they couldn't say yes on the spot IN FRONT OF ALL THEIR FRIENDS

ZombieKitten said:

jami0mckay said:

spake too soon

ZombieKitten said:

all staff are happy so meeting ended!! i bet they were lying


But yes I do think the pressure of it being in public has caused some 'yes's'

especially when its done on live tv

jami0mckay said:

I think a public break up announcement is also good!
http://www.youtube.com/wa...a2_zzXAKb0
(there is a swear word in this, so keep volume down!)

ZombieKitten said:

ZombieKitten said:

To each their own - Me, I wanted a very private one on one event when I proposed to TR

Horribly unfair. And I think the people that initiate them do so to pressure a situation that they're unsure about. And therefore deserve any humiliation they receive.

I wish a hot, sexy man would propose to me anywhere.

ZombieKitten said:

i think they're romantic if that's what you're into, & not really unfair.

I think a marriage propsals in public is romantic.

retina said:

Your use of emoticons as an answer leaves me no choice but to think you are full of fluff.....


To answer the question...

I think it depends on the person and situation. Mine was VERY public and it was fine and I thought it was very romantic. If it would have been private my answer would have been the same.

ZombieKitten said:

I met my beautiful wife Rishia in public, but I proposed to her in private. Does that still count?

We are still happily married, by the way.

Some what unfair. Because you don't wanna embarrass the person by saying no that you don't to marry them in front of all those people. Rather do that kind stuff in private

My ex did it in public lets just say I would have much preferred it in private

hokie1 said:

It's a private joke between me and Charlotte. The emoticon I mean, not the fluff. There's no fluff.

They can be romantic.

I always get all misty-eyed whenever I see one.

hokie1 said:

did he propose on tv or something?

It depends on how public. I was proposed to in a restaurant - the people around us were like, "omg how sweet." :That's fair. But at a football game is just unfair and wrong.