CarrieMpls said:

She's not a playa....but he is, she wants him to be exclusive with her. She wants to tell him how she feels without scaring him away, well she still can AFTER she establishes the monogamy and their relationship can grow from there. Erin said they were friends, so he must already care for her.....he just needs to be enticed to do the right thing....sex has always been a weapon for us, men and women alike, so there's nothing wrong with Erin using what God gave her so to speak. Love can be a game, its all in your perception of how you want to see it. I agree with what you said earlier, but Erin needs to take effective measures....if that means putting the ill na na on him, then so be it.

paintedlady said:

The sex is what keeps him around already....particularly lately. We are already using each other to get what we both want...but things are just very unspoken between us, we just do what we do and never talk about it.

Anyway, I've decided to just back off for now.

JustErin said:

What are you going to do when he comes sniffing around?

This is a serious thread.

I'm not talking about falling in love org-wise.

SupaFunkyOrgangrinderSexy said:

I'm gonna try and avoid that kind of situation.

JustErin said:

I don't love your hair org-wise. I love love your hair.

The rest of you could just be myspace angles so I'm on the fence.

JustErin said:

Ok, when you say you are going to back off are you going to tell him this or just like avoid his calls/emails? If you tell him what will be your explanation? If not and you avoid him, do you think your friendship can continue?

Personally I'd say something. Can't win if you don't play. Ya know?

Good luck

SupaFunkyOrgangrinderSexy said:

I was thinking of just going the avoidance route...God knows he does it whenever he feels like doing it.

And thanks for the hug.

Fauxie said:

I hate you.

JustErin said:

Nice avatar... probably.

You'll never really be able to hate me because you know I like your hair.

Fauxie said:

I think it's better for you to just think I am fake avatars and all myspace angles.

And if I ever see you in person you're getting this look followed by a punch in the face...all myspaced angled so you won't see it coming.

Fauxie said:

I think it's better for you to just think I am fake avatars and all myspace angles.

And if I ever see you in person you're getting this look followed by a punch in the face...all myspaced angled so you won't see it coming.

JustErin said:

I'd feel horribly let down if you did anything else.

Fauxie said:

Btw, thanks for the great advice in one of my rare serious threads.



I can't wait to punch you...hard.

when you know they don't feel the same way back.

Would you do it anyway? Just to let them know, to get it out?

I'm gone for 2 months and you're "Falling in LOVE"?????

Oh JEsus Mary and the Apostles.....

I'm gone for 2 months and you're "Falling in LOVE"?????

Oh JEsus Mary and the Apostles.....

TotalANXiousNESS said:

JustErin said:

Seriously.

Ew.

Orgnote me the specifics.

when you know they don't feel the same way back.

Would you do it anyway? Just to let them know, to get it out?

JustErin said:

H h h h hell no. If I caught feelings and I totally know he doesn't feel the same? No way, I would not give away that card. If he wasn't about the catching feelings, I think I would dip...I have done that.

Hell no, a man is not going to have the ultimate leverage on me. That's just how I feel

I told Byron I was madly in love with him

He left the Org for months