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Printablexplnyrslf said: MoniGram said:  As far as reality goes, Who wants someone, everyone else in the room's hot on??? Man or woman? Sorry, there are a few, who feed on constant attention, and I'm just a little too busy for that. 
This isn't relative to anyone's situation, just my perspective. I'll take the nerd in the corner, anyday....or someone who speaks a foreign language fluently. I'd make an exception for Antonio Bandaros..... [Edited 10/23/07 21:15pm] that's my perspective as well, the hottest guy in the room can't doesn't hold my attention.  | |
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xplnyrslf said: MoniGram said: As far as reality goes, Who wants someone, everyone else in the room's hot on??? Man or woman? Sorry, there are a few, who feed on constant attention, and I'm just a little too busy for that.
This isn't relative to anyone's situation, just my perspective. I'll take the nerd in the corner, anyday....or someone who speaks a foreign language fluently. I'd make an exception for Antonio Bandaros..... [Edited 10/23/07 21:15pm] So would I!  Proud Memaw to Seyhan Olivia Christine ,Zoey Cirilo Jaylee & Ellie Abigail Lillian  | |
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statuesqque said: xplnyrslf said: As far as reality goes, Who wants someone, everyone else in the room's hot on??? Man or woman? Sorry, there are a few, who feed on constant attention, and I'm just a little too busy for that.
This isn't relative to anyone's situation, just my perspective. I'll take the nerd in the corner, anyday....or someone who speaks a foreign language fluently. I'd make an exception for Antonio Bandaros..... [Edited 10/23/07 21:15pm] that's my perspective as well, the hottest guy in the room can't doesn't hold my attention. What sucks..this is the first time...HOT guy has ever looked my direction. Proud Memaw to Seyhan Olivia Christine ,Zoey Cirilo Jaylee & Ellie Abigail Lillian | |
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MoniGram said: statuesqque said: that's my perspective as well, the hottest guy in the room can't doesn't hold my attention. What sucks..this is the first time...HOT guy has ever looked my direction. oh, they've looked before HOT mama... they've looked | |
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I stayed away from "players".....the definition alone is a topic unto itself....
Again! This does not apply to your circumstances. The more perfect-looking the guy, the more trouble. My rule of thumb. I preferred intellect. I'm 52, and credit myself to avoiding alot of bad mistakes. Not that I didn't make a few.... [Edited 10/23/07 21:49pm] | |
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statuesqque said: MoniGram said: What sucks..this is the first time...HOT guy has ever looked my direction. oh, they've looked before HOT mama... they've looked Awww thank you hun  Proud Memaw to Seyhan Olivia Christine ,Zoey Cirilo Jaylee & Ellie Abigail Lillian | |
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Theres only a few things you need in this world to make u happyy...
Food. Beer. Fags. Sex. Good music. p.s. MoniGram a/s/l ??? | |
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rimmer said: Theres only a few things you need in this world to make u happyy...
Food. Beer. Fags. Sex. Good music. p.s. MoniGram a/s/l ??? About a barge pole away mate  | |
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rimmer said: Theres only a few things you need in this world to make u happyy...
Food. Beer. Fags. Sex. Good music. p.s. MoniGram a/s/l ??? If you want to know these things...PROFILE! Proud Memaw to Seyhan Olivia Christine ,Zoey Cirilo Jaylee & Ellie Abigail Lillian | |
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MoniGram said: If you want to know these things...PROFILE!
Like on CSI? Well... You feel rejected and youre drinking. So I would say that you are an available woman who likes a drink. My type of girl!!! do I get a prize?  | |
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rimmer said: MoniGram said: If you want to know these things...PROFILE!
Like on CSI? Well... You feel rejected and youre drinking. So I would say that you are an available woman who likes a drink. My type of girl!!! do I get a prize? Sorry no prize today!  Proud Memaw to Seyhan Olivia Christine ,Zoey Cirilo Jaylee & Ellie Abigail Lillian | |
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MoniGram said: paisleypark4 said: yeah girl i know exactly what u talkin about..since nobody invited me 2 the org party i feel the same way. Cheers   There was an org party???  Yeah, when was that? You know what? I say we form the outsiders of the Org clique, clique! | |
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MoniGram said: psychodelicide said: I'll bet you are, I would be too! Well a part of me is thinking of just saying...screw you..go find another fool to play games with! I know that Carrie MPLS HATES when I bring this into conversation. When my cupcake n I started off, I used some of the tips from this book. The book is called "Why Men Love Bitches". It's tongue in cheek, you don't really have to be a bitch, just "selfish". Men love, love, love, to chase. They say they don't, but they do. Don't let all of your thoughts go back to him, get busier, be unavailable once in a while. When he calls, don't answer...not all the time, but once in a while. Leave some things to imagination. I'm telling you! The busier and more selfish you are, the more intrigued. I remember when my cupcake n I were in the beginning and he and I were on the phone all day. One day, he called, and I didn't answer...all day. Then I answered later that night...he was like "where were you? Did you see I called?" I was like, yeah, I was sooo busy! If you dislike what I'm saying, like some other females on here...oh well...I lead you all to the water but....you know the rest! It's really common sense, and its really about putting YOU first in any relationship scenario. I wrote a book, my bad! | |
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KatSkrizzle said: MoniGram said: Well a part of me is thinking of just saying...screw you..go find another fool to play games with! I know that Carrie MPLS HATES when I bring this into conversation. When my cupcake n I started off, I used some of the tips from this book. The book is called "Why Men Love Bitches". It's tongue in cheek, you don't really have to be a bitch, just "selfish". Men love, love, love, to chase. They say they don't, but they do. Don't let all of your thoughts go back to him, get busier, be unavailable once in a while. When he calls, don't answer...not all the time, but once in a while. Leave some things to imagination. I'm telling you! The busier and more selfish you are, the more intrigued. I remember when my cupcake n I were in the beginning and he and I were on the phone all day. One day, he called, and I didn't answer...all day. Then I answered later that night...he was like "where were you? Did you see I called?" I was like, yeah, I was sooo busy! If you dislike what I'm saying, like some other females on here...oh well...I lead you all to the water but....you know the rest! It's really common sense, and its really about putting YOU first in any relationship scenario. I wrote a book, my bad! i agree with everything u just said. I've realized this too, more lately than before. | |
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KatSkrizzle said: MoniGram said: Well a part of me is thinking of just saying...screw you..go find another fool to play games with! I know that Carrie MPLS HATES when I bring this into conversation. When my cupcake n I started off, I used some of the tips from this book. The book is called "Why Men Love Bitches". It's tongue in cheek, you don't really have to be a bitch, just "selfish". Men love, love, love, to chase. They say they don't, but they do. Don't let all of your thoughts go back to him, get busier, be unavailable once in a while. When he calls, don't answer...not all the time, but once in a while. Leave some things to imagination. I'm telling you! The busier and more selfish you are, the more intrigued. I remember when my cupcake n I were in the beginning and he and I were on the phone all day. One day, he called, and I didn't answer...all day. Then I answered later that night...he was like "where were you? Did you see I called?" I was like, yeah, I was sooo busy! If you dislike what I'm saying, like some other females on here...oh well...I lead you all to the water but....you know the rest! It's really common sense, and its really about putting YOU first in any relationship scenario. I wrote a book, my bad! your not wrong, men do love to chase...the thrill of it and all that other bullshit that goes along with it, basically it's a game to be played. for me personally, it's never been a game or anything I've ever been interested in playing. though I do agree in any relationship YOU come first. | |
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KatSkrizzle said: MoniGram said: Well a part of me is thinking of just saying...screw you..go find another fool to play games with! I know that Carrie MPLS HATES when I bring this into conversation. When my cupcake n I started off, I used some of the tips from this book. The book is called "Why Men Love Bitches". It's tongue in cheek, you don't really have to be a bitch, just "selfish". Men love, love, love, to chase. They say they don't, but they do. Don't let all of your thoughts go back to him, get busier, be unavailable once in a while. When he calls, don't answer...not all the time, but once in a while. Leave some things to imagination. I'm telling you! The busier and more selfish you are, the more intrigued. I remember when my cupcake n I were in the beginning and he and I were on the phone all day. One day, he called, and I didn't answer...all day. Then I answered later that night...he was like "where were you? Did you see I called?" I was like, yeah, I was sooo busy! If you dislike what I'm saying, like some other females on here...oh well...I lead you all to the water but....you know the rest! It's really common sense, and its really about putting YOU first in any relationship scenario. I wrote a book, my bad! Thank you for your advice...I actually tried the no answering his calls on Sunday...did answer texts either...later that night I called and he said he was so worried about me...but then he forgets how worried he was..and starts acting like a butt again.  Proud Memaw to Seyhan Olivia Christine ,Zoey Cirilo Jaylee & Ellie Abigail Lillian | |
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MoniGram said: KatSkrizzle said: I know that Carrie MPLS HATES when I bring this into conversation. When my cupcake n I started off, I used some of the tips from this book. The book is called "Why Men Love Bitches". It's tongue in cheek, you don't really have to be a bitch, just "selfish". Men love, love, love, to chase. They say they don't, but they do. Don't let all of your thoughts go back to him, get busier, be unavailable once in a while. When he calls, don't answer...not all the time, but once in a while. Leave some things to imagination. I'm telling you! The busier and more selfish you are, the more intrigued. I remember when my cupcake n I were in the beginning and he and I were on the phone all day. One day, he called, and I didn't answer...all day. Then I answered later that night...he was like "where were you? Did you see I called?" I was like, yeah, I was sooo busy! If you dislike what I'm saying, like some other females on here...oh well...I lead you all to the water but....you know the rest! It's really common sense, and its really about putting YOU first in any relationship scenario. I wrote a book, my bad! Thank you for your advice...I actually tried the no answering his calls on Sunday...did answer texts either...later that night I called and he said he was so worried about me...but then he forgets how worried he was..and starts acting like a butt again. that's basically how it works which is why I say it's a game...and you have to be willing to play it. it's back and forth...round and round... you don't answer their calls and what not, they get worried and then things are great or fine and then you're back at the not answering the calls again. it reminds of situations where you're always looking for that high. I really am too busy for all that and even when I'm not, I'm not playing that game...but that's how it works. | |
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statuesqque said: MoniGram said: Thank you for your advice...I actually tried the no answering his calls on Sunday...did answer texts either...later that night I called and he said he was so worried about me...but then he forgets how worried he was..and starts acting like a butt again. that's basically how it works which is why I say it's a game...and you have to be willing to play it. it's back and forth...round and round... you don't answer their calls and what not, they get worried and then things are great or fine and then you're back at the not answering the calls again. it reminds of situations where you're always looking for that high. I really am too busy for all that and even when I'm not, I'm not playing that game...but that's how it works. I am a bit sick of playing his game..been playing for 1 yr and 8 months...I am tired! Proud Memaw to Seyhan Olivia Christine ,Zoey Cirilo Jaylee & Ellie Abigail Lillian | |
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MoniGram said: statuesqque said: that's basically how it works which is why I say it's a game...and you have to be willing to play it. it's back and forth...round and round... you don't answer their calls and what not, they get worried and then things are great or fine and then you're back at the not answering the calls again. it reminds of situations where you're always looking for that high. I really am too busy for all that and even when I'm not, I'm not playing that game...but that's how it works. I am a bit sick of playing his game..been playing for 1 yr and 8 months...I am tired!  it can do that...but make sure that's what YOU want to do. | |
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MoniGram said: statuesqque said: that's basically how it works which is why I say it's a game...and you have to be willing to play it. it's back and forth...round and round... you don't answer their calls and what not, they get worried and then things are great or fine and then you're back at the not answering the calls again. it reminds of situations where you're always looking for that high. I really am too busy for all that and even when I'm not, I'm not playing that game...but that's how it works. I am a bit sick of playing his game..been playing for 1 yr and 8 months...I am tired! Have you tried an older, more mature man???? | |
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statuesqque said: MoniGram said: I am a bit sick of playing his game..been playing for 1 yr and 8 months...I am tired! it can do that...but make sure that's what YOU want to do.It's all very confusing..and he drives me nuts...I can't even begin to count how many threads were started because he upset me!  Proud Memaw to Seyhan Olivia Christine ,Zoey Cirilo Jaylee & Ellie Abigail Lillian | |
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xplnyrslf said: MoniGram said: I am a bit sick of playing his game..been playing for 1 yr and 8 months...I am tired! Have you tried an older, more mature man???? Why yes I have...and let's just say...that is one of the reason I found my Andy! Proud Memaw to Seyhan Olivia Christine ,Zoey Cirilo Jaylee & Ellie Abigail Lillian | |
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MoniGram said: statuesqque said: it can do that...but make sure that's what YOU want to do.It's all very confusing..and he drives me nuts...I can't even begin to count how many threads were started because he upset me! being upset happens with all of them all the time... but do not call it quits because he does something else two day out of seven. | |
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MoniGram said: xplnyrslf said: Have you tried an older, more mature man???? Why yes I have...and let's just say...that is one of the reason I found my Andy! and there you have it... | |
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Have you tried an older, more mature man????
statuesqque said: MoniGram said: Why yes I have...and let's just say...that is one of the reason I found my Andy! and there you have it... geriatric old.....like, one that can't get around.....wheelchair bound..... that's a safe bet. Start shopping the nursing homes.
And don't be intimidated by dentures or incontinence. [Edited 10/24/07 9:00am] | |
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xplnyrslf said: Have you tried an older, more mature man????
statuesqque said: and there you have it... geriatric old.....like, one that can't get around.....wheelchair bound..... that's a safe bet. Start shopping the nursing homes.
And don't be intimidated by dentures or incontinence. [Edited 10/24/07 9:00am] you are so bad... | |
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statuesqque said: MoniGram said: It's all very confusing..and he drives me nuts...I can't even begin to count how many threads were started because he upset me! being upset happens with all of them all the time... but do not call it quits because he does something else two day out of seven. You are so right...I just get soooo MAD! I just need to remember the good things he does...like the other day..he sent me a text that said..."Sweetie, I don't know what I would do without you, you make me a better man!" Proud Memaw to Seyhan Olivia Christine ,Zoey Cirilo Jaylee & Ellie Abigail Lillian | |
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xplnyrslf said: Have you tried an older, more mature man????
statuesqque said: and there you have it... geriatric old.....like, one that can't get around.....wheelchair bound..... that's a safe bet. Start shopping the nursing homes.
And don't be intimidated by dentures or incontinence. [Edited 10/24/07 9:00am] OMG so funny! Proud Memaw to Seyhan Olivia Christine ,Zoey Cirilo Jaylee & Ellie Abigail Lillian | |
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MoniGram said: statuesqque said: being upset happens with all of them all the time... but do not call it quits because he does something else two day out of seven. You are so right...I just get soooo MAD! I just need to remember the good things he does...like the other day..he sent me a text that said..."Sweetie, I don't know what I would do without you, you make me a better man!" that so sweet I looked at those times when they blew me off as "ME TIME" enjoy it... | |
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statuesqque said: MoniGram said: You are so right...I just get soooo MAD! I just need to remember the good things he does...like the other day..he sent me a text that said..."Sweetie, I don't know what I would do without you, you make me a better man!" that so sweet I looked at those times when they blew me off as "ME TIME" enjoy it...Thank you hun! Instead of letting me stew in my own juices and stay mad...you helped me see things I was missing! I owe you one! Proud Memaw to Seyhan Olivia Christine ,Zoey Cirilo Jaylee & Ellie Abigail Lillian | |
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