Or which is the appropriate time to have sex with somebody or in your opinion does it even matter as long as you are Hot for each other and willing? {Will anybody answer this question honestly and Openly ?}

Natasha said:

If you're both up for it, then why not?

I didn't think that sex on a first date was something you have to believe in or not (like, the existence of Santa Claus) - you just do it or you don't

Anyway I don't see a problem with it myself!

Yes i do...i think that there isnt nothing of bad doing sex at the first date...

When it happens, you obviously were having a great evening already...

Its just one of those things,if it happens it happens.Ive had sex on a first date,well in the middle of a first date

Much love Pochacco

Yes, I do believe it happens. Never for me though.

This might sound piggish, but I dont care how much you like someones personality, if they suck in bed, the relationship isnt gonna work. Better to find that out sooner than later.

first I need to try it to let you know my thoughts...

I'd be careful there... Sometimes what can happen is the sex is out of this world and as time passes and you get to know this person you may not want to see the truths that exist, because of the sexual ties. In other words, I think it is important to get to know someone first based on issues of trust. If you easily fall for someone who pleases you in bed, it's good to know that you can trust that they are really into you and won't go out and break your heart...

If you can have sex and leave your heart at home...by all means use a condom and get sloppy wet!

Here's as honest as I can be... sex is great on a first date, second date... basically whenever! BUT!!!... honestly speaking, I know this about myself, and this sounds pretty shitty... I will not hold interest in any woman that I can get to bed on the first date. If there is no challenge then I get bored, no matter how great she is, or better yet what she'll do, I will get bored if I get the payoff right off the bat!

Ladies... you may begin the crucification...NOW!

kendogg

If she does!

Kendogg- I think that is SO awsome that you can tell ladies some of the truth that goes on with men!

Thank you! It's about time a man confessed some reality You rock...

It can happen, and there's nothing wrong with it if it does, for the most part...I, personally though, would tend to stay away from sex on the "first date"...I wouldn't think any less of a woman who desired it with me right off the bat, but I may wonder what it meant to her, and what I meant to her...does it mean she really likes me, or does it mean she really like sex??...Did she sleep with me because she thought that's what I wanted, or because that's what she wanted??...Was she using sex to keep me interested in her, or was she simply desiring a sexual experience??...Does this mean that our "first date" has moved now into a "relationship", or is she of the mind that it was "just sex", and doesn't hold any importance in her heart and mind beyond the orgasms?...And on and on...

When I go out on a date(as opposed to a one night stand scenario), it's because I'm attracted enough to someone to do so, and I want to get to know them better to see if there's a desire for "something more" to develop...and I'd prefer to actually know the woman better, to feel more comfortable with being with her, before the sexual was introduced into things...that way, I understand her feelings about me, and about being sexual with me...about what we share, and whether or not there's more she wants to share with me...waiting eliminates many questions, and many doubts...plus, it's just healthier physically...there's a lot that can go "wrong" if you have sex on the first date...but there's nothing at all that can go wrong if you don't.

As a phenomenon, it is demonstrable and therefore can be proven, thus it exists and I have no choice but to believe in it.

Sex on a first date always ends in tears... you think I would have learnt my lesson by now...

I did on the first date. Now, I am married to her 3 years later. Love at first type (online), then we talked on the phone, then we met, had sex, built a relationship, I moved from Ohio to Illinois, got married, and now we are expecting a baby in March 03.

it's all on the VIBE.if it's there then Bingo if not then Let It Go.it doesn't really pin point anything one way or the other.IMHO

Sex on the first date is practically a requirement on the gay scene, though I do know men who actually date a few times before heading to the bedroom. In my experience, these are people are either more fragile or just very serious about finding a companion. Those I know seem to have a deep-seated self-hatred. On the other hand, there are those who would argue that men who are promiscuous do so out of lack of self-respect, but I never bought into that except in a few very obvious cases.

Only if they treat me nice

No.

'Do you believe in Sex on the first date ?'


yup..


and you dont even gotta take me to jack in the box first

Supernova said:

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Christopher said:

So basically what you're saying is if 2 people are enjoying each other and one thing leads to another and you feel like having sex with that person and all like the Chemistry is right just do it and enjoy yourself with no Guilt. So that's basically most peoples take on this question or what?

Supernova said:

co-sign

It just depends how strong the attraction is.

ian said:

Right on Ian!!! I am proud of you. I agree.

U mean AFTER the sex?