That whole Larry Craig interview where Matt Lauer kept saying that he followed all the steps for soliciting gay sex. It was like all gay people know this "secret language" and that all gay men have bathroom sex.

It rubbed me the wrong way.....


..although we do have a secret language.....

MIGUELGOMEZ said:

i didn't know the tearoom code until this happened and i'm about as gay as they come.

how did he accidently happen to give all the signals?

ehuffnsd said:

Exactly. I don't know how I feel about this. Of course, if it was a woman he was cruising, everything would've been fine.

It wasn't really homophobic, but it did crack me up.A friend of mine was a home help & 1 old dear he was caring for had gone to a cafe for afternoon tea and she said about the couple who ran it: "They were a bit 'like that', but Oooh they did make lovely cakes"!

My friend said her mother said she was angry about having her taxes go to treating throat cancer in homosexuals.

My friend replied "so you've never sucked a dick?!"

NDRU said:

my housemate and his jewish friend were arguing in our garage, and it was progressing into quite a heated racial debate. When they came into the house, the master pretended to be talking to me "oh yeah, jewish people are OK, as long as they aren't gay as well"


I swear those two blushed and were speechless.

I've heard way too many in my time but a few that stand out to me are :

"Do gay people have souls?"

"My homophobia isn't as bad as it was and I understand now that they're people and they have the same feelings as us" [they're not a frickin' different species!]

"I don't agree with homosexuality.....but lesbians are HOT!"

And whenever I discuss Brokeback Mountain with anyone they always comment on how the gay sex scene was "almost rape".

I hear worse than this every day at work. The same guys that need to make gay jokes and put downs every minute are the ones that constantly need to be pushing poking and touching each other.
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purplesweat said:

I don't see how they could see that as a rape.

Oh, well...

scififilmnerd said:

I know

I think it's just cause it was rough and somewhat sudden. Some people seem to think all sex is making love with lots of candles and rose petals around

Cloudbuster said:

purplesweat said:

that woudl get borin

purplesweat said:

They were both willing participants.

purplesweat said:

seems like Hollywood thinks all sex is rough nowadays. Haven't seen BBM, but every love scene seems to be ripping clothes, tooth breaking kisses, and clearing off the dinner table

NDRU said:

that's just passionate sex.

not BDSM. though if they used the food in the sex or were being smacked around that would be a different story.

ehuffnsd said:

oh I know, I was just sayin...they act like nobody has normal gentle kissing & undressing anymore, or it's not worth filming, at least

They should have more sploshing in movies.....

MIGUELGOMEZ said:

what's sploshing? or should I not be asking...

NDRU said:

movies are about taking you away to some place you don't normally go.

MIGUELGOMEZ said:

for real!!! i'd love to see a movie that protrays BDSM/Kink in real terms vs it equalling some form of death.

NDRU said:

I was kidding. It means people that like to rub food all over their bodies. It's a fetish.

ehuffnsd said:

That could be hot!!!! I can see some of my fave actors in submissive roles. Total turn-on.

MIGUELGOMEZ said:

oh, well that's okay As long as it's not meat, yech

MIGUELGOMEZ said:

i would LOVE to Angelina and Brad in a BDSM movie!!!

ehuffnsd said:

To see Brad close to tears, of ecstacy of course, would send me over the edge.

ehuffnsd said:

movies for entertainment? yes. movies for art? no.