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Reply #60 posted 10/12/07 2:26pm

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I am joking. lol


Oh, so was I. Couldn't you tell?



Well my post was so lame, I wasn't so sure. lol
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Reply #61 posted 10/12/07 2:29pm

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While I prefer the latter, the only drawback are the 'mature" students' need to speak up whenever possible about their own life experiences, and challenge the teacher in ways I deem a bit inappropriate. In an extreme case, I've got most of my classmates in a humanities class trying to get our professor fired because of her 'biased' teaching. Because her teaching styles are a bit different and because she's not holding their hand the entire way, they want to see her canned. I'm doing everything I can to save her reputation with the board of our weekend program--she's incredible. Their fear of a more 'independent' learning style has seriously cramped their ability to see what she's doing for us: preparing us for grad school.

The worst part is that they're using her ethnicity and her personal studies/contributions (in addition to the textbook, as it doesn't cover minorities' roles in postmodern art history) as a reason to see her fired. pissed


falloff Oh man, I know this situation all too well. I took a class in Adult Education at UBC, where a poor teacher is supposed to teach teachers, with actual teaching experience of their own, how to teach. The mutiny atmosphere was hanging in the air already after the first class. lol

People suck.
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Reply #62 posted 10/12/07 2:43pm

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falloff Oh man, I know this situation all too well. I took a class in Adult Education at UBC, where a poor teacher is supposed to teach teachers, with actual teaching experience of their own, how to teach. The mutiny atmosphere was hanging in the air already after the first class. lol

People suck.

They really do. Especially older students. lol I don't know what's worse (generalizing, here): thirty kids fresh out of high school who don't want to shut the hell up when the professor is talking, or thirty 40-year-olds who think the rest of the class wants to hear their personal anecdotes/opinions. headache I know I'm a bitch.
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Reply #63 posted 10/12/07 3:08pm

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retina said:


falloff Oh man, I know this situation all too well. I took a class in Adult Education at UBC, where a poor teacher is supposed to teach teachers, with actual teaching experience of their own, how to teach. The mutiny atmosphere was hanging in the air already after the first class. lol

People suck.

They really do. Especially older students. lol I don't know what's worse (generalizing, here): thirty kids fresh out of high school who don't want to shut the hell up when the professor is talking, or thirty 40-year-olds who think the rest of the class wants to hear their personal anecdotes/opinions. headache I know I'm a bitch.


not at ALL! shake you described my frustrations with that same situation a lot better. it varies from just not realizing that they're coming off as annoying to flat-out not caring because they think they're better. rolleyes personally i'd take the younger class, as long as the professor has enough authority to tell them to shut the hell up. lol
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Reply #64 posted 10/12/07 3:11pm

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They really do. Especially older students. lol I don't know what's worse (generalizing, here): thirty kids fresh out of high school who don't want to shut the hell up when the professor is talking, or thirty 40-year-olds who think the rest of the class wants to hear their personal anecdotes/opinions. headache I know I'm a bitch.


not at ALL! shake you described my frustrations with that same situation a lot better. it varies from just not realizing that they're coming off as annoying to flat-out not caring because they think they're better. rolleyes personally i'd take the younger class, as long as the professor has enough authority to tell them to shut the hell up. lol

lol One thing I love about the younger crowds is their ability to take what the professor says without any lip or massive deconstruction/directions. My middle-aged classmates take everything more seriously, which is fantastic and inspiring, but boy do they love to chip in their two cents. wink When NO ONE GIVES A SHIT.
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Reply #65 posted 10/12/07 3:12pm

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evenstar said:

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They really do. Especially older students. lol I don't know what's worse (generalizing, here): thirty kids fresh out of high school who don't want to shut the hell up when the professor is talking, or thirty 40-year-olds who think the rest of the class wants to hear their personal anecdotes/opinions. headache I know I'm a bitch.


not at ALL! shake you described my frustrations with that same situation a lot better. it varies from just not realizing that they're coming off as annoying to flat-out not caring because they think they're better. rolleyes personally i'd take the younger class, as long as the professor has enough authority to tell them to shut the hell up. lol



You are all putting me off now. I just wanted advice. lol
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Reply #66 posted 10/12/07 3:14pm

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INSATIABLE said:

evenstar said:



not at ALL! shake you described my frustrations with that same situation a lot better. it varies from just not realizing that they're coming off as annoying to flat-out not caring because they think they're better. rolleyes personally i'd take the younger class, as long as the professor has enough authority to tell them to shut the hell up. lol

lol One thing I love about the younger crowds is their ability to take what the professor says without any lip or massive deconstruction/directions. My middle-aged classmates take everything more seriously, which is fantastic and inspiring, but boy do they love to chip in their two cents. wink When NO ONE GIVES A SHIT.



I would have expected the mature students get on better with the professor/lecturers. eek
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Reply #67 posted 10/12/07 3:18pm

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not at ALL! shake you described my frustrations with that same situation a lot better. it varies from just not realizing that they're coming off as annoying to flat-out not caring because they think they're better. rolleyes personally i'd take the younger class, as long as the professor has enough authority to tell them to shut the hell up. lol

lol One thing I love about the younger crowds is their ability to take what the professor says without any lip or massive deconstruction/directions. My middle-aged classmates take everything more seriously, which is fantastic and inspiring, but boy do they love to chip in their two cents. wink When NO ONE GIVES A SHIT.


falloff yeah. once in awhile is cool, but i'm not paying to hear them talk every damn day.

sorry missme! you're obviously not like this, so you can roll your eyes at the loud older students with the rest of us. lol
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Reply #68 posted 10/12/07 3:20pm

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lol One thing I love about the younger crowds is their ability to take what the professor says without any lip or massive deconstruction/directions. My middle-aged classmates take everything more seriously, which is fantastic and inspiring, but boy do they love to chip in their two cents. wink When NO ONE GIVES A SHIT.


falloff yeah. once in awhile is cool, but i'm not paying to hear them talk every damn day.

sorry missme! you're obviously not like this, so you can roll your eyes at the loud older students with the rest of us. lol



It's ok, it's all new to me. I don't really care what politics and arguments they get into, it happens in life everywhere. So long as I am there to learn and there is a certain amount of fun too, I am easy going. biggrin
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Reply #69 posted 10/12/07 3:22pm

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MissMe said:

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lol One thing I love about the younger crowds is their ability to take what the professor says without any lip or massive deconstruction/directions. My middle-aged classmates take everything more seriously, which is fantastic and inspiring, but boy do they love to chip in their two cents. wink When NO ONE GIVES A SHIT.



I would have expected the mature students get on better with the professor/lecturers. eek

Older students, in my experience, don't like feeling inferior, and being "taught" doesn't come as naturally. They challenge their professors on inappropriate levels, which highly affects the speed of the curriculum. I'd believe it if I've been unlucky, but these oldsters constantly challenge historical facts and figures and interject with their personal opinion when it's not welcome. Classroom participation is fun and fascinating, but just because a person's seasoned does not mean they've grasped social skills in the slightest. neutral



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Reply #70 posted 10/12/07 3:24pm

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INSATIABLE said:

MissMe said:




I would have expected the mature students get on better with the professor/lecturers. eek

Older students, in my experience, don't like feeling inferior. They challenge their professors on inappropriate levels, which highly effects the speed of the curriculum. I'd believe if if I've been unlucky, but these oldsters constantly challenge historical facts and figures and interject with their personal opinion when it's not welcome. Classroom participation is fun and fascinating, but just because a person's seasoned does not mean they've grasped social skills in the slightest. neutral



I am laid back anyway, so I don't see it as a problem. I love to learn from both the young people and elderly. As they say, variety is the spice of life, and I am not kidding. wink
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Reply #71 posted 10/12/07 3:31pm

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MissMe said:

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Older students, in my experience, don't like feeling inferior. They challenge their professors on inappropriate levels, which highly effects the speed of the curriculum. I'd believe if if I've been unlucky, but these oldsters constantly challenge historical facts and figures and interject with their personal opinion when it's not welcome. Classroom participation is fun and fascinating, but just because a person's seasoned does not mean they've grasped social skills in the slightest. neutral



I am laid back anyway, so I don't see it as a problem. I love to learn from both the young people and elderly. As they say, variety is the spice of life, and I am not kidding. wink

Fuck you for not waiting until I edited.

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Reply #72 posted 10/12/07 3:32pm

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INSATIABLE said:

MissMe said:




I am laid back anyway, so I don't see it as a problem. I love to learn from both the young people and elderly. As they say, variety is the spice of life, and I am not kidding. wink

Fuck you for not waiting until I edited.

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It doesn't matter. Let me check and have a laugh at your expense!
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Reply #73 posted 10/12/07 3:34pm

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INSATIABLE said:

MissMe said:




I am laid back anyway, so I don't see it as a problem. I love to learn from both the young people and elderly. As they say, variety is the spice of life, and I am not kidding. wink

Fuck you for not waiting until I edited.

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Sorry. Ok I saw your edit but if I am starting a course completely new to me, why would I question it all and be an asshole? I am, and I hope I am not like that anyway but I can see where you are coming from. wink
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Reply #74 posted 10/12/07 3:39pm

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MissMe said:

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Fuck you for not waiting until I edited.

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Sorry. Ok I saw your edit but if I am starting a course completely new to me, why would I question it all and be an asshole? I am, and I hope I am not like that anyway but I can see where you are coming from. wink

Wait, what? lol No, embrace it fully and have a blast. I don't let my classmates affect my experience like it sounds, trust me. I know evenstar doesn't either 'cause she's better than that. Just expect all of your professors to be vastly different, and don't procrastinate. wink I was just being hard on myself for using 'effect' instead of 'affect'. I'll lie and say I'm tired so I slipped. innocent
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Reply #75 posted 10/12/07 3:42pm

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INSATIABLE said:

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Sorry. Ok I saw your edit but if I am starting a course completely new to me, why would I question it all and be an asshole? I am, and I hope I am not like that anyway but I can see where you are coming from. wink

Wait, what? lol No, embrace it fully and have a blast. I don't let my classmates affect my experience like it sounds, trust me. I know evenstar doesn't either 'cause she's better than that. Just expect all of your professors to be vastly different, and don't procrastinate. wink I was just being hard on myself for using 'effect' instead of 'affect'. I'll lie and say I'm tired so I slipped. innocent



I have totally lost the plot now. Are you a teacher or professor?
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Reply #76 posted 10/12/07 3:48pm

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I have totally lost the plot now. Are you a teacher or professor?

Are you drinking? falloff
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Reply #77 posted 10/12/07 3:50pm

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INSATIABLE said:

MissMe said:

I have totally lost the plot now. Are you a teacher or professor?

Are you drinking? falloff



When you said classmates I misunderstood. lol Sorry I was thinking of your CLASS.

Yeah, I am kind of on another planet. I read things and don't take them in fully. boxed
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Reply #78 posted 10/12/07 3:52pm

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Are you drinking? falloff



When you said classmates I misunderstood. lol Sorry I was thinking of your CLASS.

Yeah, I am kind of on another planet. I read things and don't take them in fully. boxed

Don't trip, I do the same thing. My reading comprehension is seriously hit-and-miss, no matter how much I care about a subject. There are holes in my brain.
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Reply #79 posted 10/12/07 4:04pm

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Older students, in my experience, don't like feeling inferior, and being "taught" doesn't come as naturally. They challenge their professors on inappropriate levels, which highly affects the speed of the curriculum. I'd believe it if I've been unlucky, but these oldsters constantly challenge historical facts and figures and interject with their personal opinion when it's not welcome.


It's even worse when young students do that same thing though. At least the older students have something to back up their claims with other than hot air.
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Reply #80 posted 10/12/07 4:10pm

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When you said classmates I misunderstood. lol Sorry I was thinking of your CLASS.

Yeah, I am kind of on another planet. I read things and don't take them in fully. boxed

Don't trip, I do the same thing. My reading comprehension is seriously hit-and-miss, no matter how much I care about a subject. There are holes in my brain.

lol Thanks. I can see I will do really well concentrating at college.

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Reply #81 posted 10/12/07 4:12pm

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Older students, in my experience, don't like feeling inferior, and being "taught" doesn't come as naturally. They challenge their professors on inappropriate levels, which highly affects the speed of the curriculum. I'd believe it if I've been unlucky, but these oldsters constantly challenge historical facts and figures and interject with their personal opinion when it's not welcome.


It's even worse when young students do that same thing though. At least the older students have something to back up their claims with other than hot air.

You're not incorrect. lol Not in the slightest. I have much more respect for my elder classmates when they feel the need to be heard. As for the 19-year-old (who happens to be in all three of my weekend classes) proudly displaying her thong underwear and loudly text messaging during our exams, not so much. My teeth grind a bit everytime she interrupts the prof. I'd repeat some of her classics here, but you'd swear I was making it up.
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Reply #82 posted 10/12/07 4:16pm

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Don't trip, I do the same thing. My reading comprehension is seriously hit-and-miss, no matter how much I care about a subject. There are holes in my brain.

lol Thanks. I can see I will do really well concentrating at college.

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You know what? If you're anything like me, it will feel really impossible at first. lol Don't believe for a minute that it's "not meant to be", though. It WILL get easier. I hope you stay excited about this!

It's trite, but it's true: just DON'T let yourself get behind. It'll make the decision to drop out all the more easier. Get the numbers/emails of a few classmates in each course.
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Reply #83 posted 10/13/07 4:32am

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lol Thanks. I can see I will do really well concentrating at college.

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You know what? If you're anything like me, it will feel really impossible at first. lol Don't believe for a minute that it's "not meant to be", though. It WILL get easier. I hope you stay excited about this!

It's trite, but it's true: just DON'T let yourself get behind. It'll make the decision to drop out all the more easier. Get the numbers/emails of a few classmates in each course.



Thank you Insatiable. biggrin
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Reply #84 posted 10/15/07 1:13am

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I feel a change of career, and fancy going back to study.
Has anyone done this as a mature student? Any advice, please?
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I'm thinking about this too, but not sure on how I would cope with the decrease in pay, but I am still seriously thinking about teaching/journalism

have u decided what career you would like to pursue?
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Reply #85 posted 10/15/07 1:51am

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In Australia I have done three years worth of college as a mature age student after I had my first child and suffice to say I had a great time and even managed to pass everything I did!!! Something I did not quite accomplish in Highschool lol
However, being a kid at heart I sometimes found myself loosing sight of the old studying to goof of with the younger ones lol but in the end I made it and got some better Jobs for my effort and proved something to myself a the same time. So my advice would be....go for it and keep sight of ure goals...u never know where it make take u and as they say " U are never to old to learn!!"
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Reply #86 posted 10/15/07 2:36am

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I went back at 34...and it was much more enriching since I was able to apply life experience to my classes (political science, international relations, and sociology among them)...your perspectives add depth to whats being put out there unlike kiddies in the class who only know what they've been told or have read on their own.....

going back soon to finish off my bachelors...
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