jami0mckay said:

I do that anyway.

MissMe said:

I always end with a conundrum

jami0mckay said:

That sounds way too complicated for me.

MissMe said:

well for you I'd end with a numbers game

Electronic needs to happen in 2 minutes. I'm just doing that because I need to blow of steam and I got a packed assed schedule with other stuff to do .

But as for the ones initiated by human connection...we need to take our time...I like my experiences, shall we say..."languid"....

MissMe said:

yeah yeah yeah. we can all cum fast when we try. there are a lot of different kinds of sex, everything from fucking ourselves to fucking other people, lasting from one second to hours as in tantric sex.

the point is WHY would you want to cut that short?? why would you even want to do that???

sex isn't a race to climax, it's not a fashion statement

imo it's all about the entire experience. the pleasure of skin to skin touching, getting to know someone else along the way. it's a lot of fun to find out about what the other person likes, and how. it takes time and trust but it's worth it, imo

MoniGram said:

XxAxX said:

Totally. I agree with all you are saying.

if you're 80.

now seriously though some people are desperate to cure their premature ejaculation. cruel people

What if the woman can't cum no matter how long it is and doesn't want head?

Great. Now I can't get "The Stick" out of my head.

Slave2daGroove said:

hm, that is a tough one.

in that case you'd probably want to give her my phone number.

alwayslate said:

XxAxX said:

I've always felt this way in one way or another for as long as I can remember, but its much more pronounced now since I'm older.....I like the experience of feeling every sensation....because its always different....with a little effort everytime can be sensationally different...

of course, I know the minute I walk in the door from this deployment its gonna be pump...pump...ahh....ahh....ahhh.....

and I'm spent!!!!

reneGade20 said:

MissMe said:

there is no such thing as a woman who can't cum. there are plenty that haven't but none that unable to.
that is just a myth the exists to protect the egos of lame-ass men who can't or are unwilling to try to get their women off. shit, give them all my phone number.

alwayslate said:

a lot of men either don't know, or don't care to take the time to find out what women like. it's just a simple matter of taking the time to get to know her. because, when a guy does that for us women it is a HUGE turn-on. that's when we know you care about us enough to take the time.

also, don't assume she is like your prior lovers! does she cum on top best? or maybe she comes faster on the bottom? ASK her. there is no need to rush, no need to impress anyone. just have fun

alwayslate said:

Yeah genius, unless you're a doctor or a psychiatrist I'm not sure you're qualified to answer the question.

XxAxX said:

She didn't know herself and I spent the time and got her close but I wasn't sure that she even knew what it was she was feeling because it sounded like she was there.

Slave2daGroove said:[quote]

Slave2daGroove said:

Okay, okay I'm sorry. My comment was insensitive but still it is true for most women. We are often made to feel that there is something wrong with us and that this problem we have is the reason we don't climax during sex (this is not just the mythical BS that lame lovers fill our heads with; so-called professionals say this crap, too).
I have had this same "problem" almost my entire life. I thought that something was wrong with me. I lied to lovers about how great they were and how it was just me; I was frigid or I just don't know what I like or whatever.
I was 29 years old when I had my first orgasm (well, the first one that someone else was responsible for).
okay we're getting off-topic. sorry.
back to the "which one would we have" subject.

XxAxX said:

because of my lazy good for nothing husband
[Edited 10/8/07 16:40pm]

ZombieKitten said:

you want my phone number?

alwayslate said:

yes please

ZombieKitten said:

but you have to make your husband watch.


..and take notes.

alwayslate said:

this is too good to be true!

It would definitely depend on the circumstance. I can find pleasure in both circumstances. But given a choice, I'm going to most often choose a prolonged, enduring sexual experience.

I usually start out by letting her play with my wii for about 58 minutes.
That way,
since I usually have to pay by the hour anyways,
we kill time, she gets entertained & I get my money's worth all at the same time.

According to Oprah,
that's known as "uni-tasking".

MoniGram said:

bom chika wah wah.....

reneGade20 said:

If I have to leave for work at 6 and it's quarter to then it's gotta be quick! The longer you're with someone the whole thing changes. At least it has for me. The closeness can come at any time. A kiss on the neck in the kichen or stroking her back in the bath. It's all good when you're in love.