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PrintableThreadBare said: Every few moments, interrupts the discussion with: "OK, enough deep talk..." And means it. Has ever dropped it like it was hot. 
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To answer the question all of those things are deal breakers for me, though the snoring would take longer to find out about He'd have to be mighty damn perfect for me to adopt earplugs every night  I never met you, but I LOVE you & I will forever!! Thank you for being YOU - my little Princey, the best to EVER do it | |
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JustErin said: Everything you listed are deal breakers for me.
Well, maybe not the snoring...but everything else. funny. in real life none of those are deal breakers for me | |
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CalhounSq said: ThreadBare said: Every few moments, interrupts the discussion with: "OK, enough deep talk..." And means it. Has ever dropped it like it was hot.
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ThreadBare said: CalhounSq said: OMG People seem to be entertained by the traumas I've survived...  Tell us more!  I never met you, but I LOVE you & I will forever!! Thank you for being YOU - my little Princey, the best to EVER do it | |
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i'll tolerate snoring only.. everything else on your list are deal breakers .. | |
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ThreadBare said: Rhondab said:  Whatever, man. | |
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Byron said: And I do mean "shallow" ones lol...not anything like cheating or being abusive or dishonesty or what-not...what do you think would be the shallowest deal breaker for you if everything else about a person is pretty much great?
For example, imagine you've just started getting involved with a man or woman (take yer pick), and they're intelligent, funny, nice body, respectful, great in bed, etc., etc...whatever those good things are that you like to find in one person (if possible). Now...imagine that the only real "negative" this person has is one of the following things: - Constantly picks his/her nose, and I mean all day and night, even in public, in bed, in front of your family... - Horrendous table manners...eats like a slob, smacks loudly as they eat, talks with food in their mouths, etc...they're the same way when at a restaurant. - Has a lingering, sour body odor...no deodorant will take it away, and spraying perfume or cologne only makes the odor worse. - Flatulence galore lol...I mean they fart no matter where they are...restaurants, elevators...even during sex. - They're sloppy as hell...whenever you go to their place, it's a wreck...dirty dishes piled up, empty pizza boxes on the floor, stacks of newspapers and dirty clothes everywhere. And when they come over to your place, they're just as sloppy... - Snores like a freakin' jackhammer...big, loud open-mouthed snores that sound insane, and that last the entire night. Also, imagine that none of these things will ever change during the length of your relationship...if you chose to be involved with this person, this aspect of the person will be there no matter what you or they do. With everything else about this person being wonderful...would any of these be "deal breakers" in your eyes?...Or would they be something you'd be willing to put up with in order to be with someone who is practically perfect in every other way? If none of the ones above would be a deal breaker, what would be a "shallow deal breaker" in your eyes? Oh my gawd...Honey, I dated a GOREGEOUS man once who had not just one of those habits you listed, but minus nose picking and body odor....ALLL:-o. The relationship started hot and heavy and lasted passionately for 6 weeeks. But after several "domestically oriented" interludes with him (plus deeper issues of personality differenes) I had to let that fine ass brotha Gooooo  . There are not enough good looks or good sex on the face of this earth that will convince me to live my life (at THIS stage!) as if I am in a boy's dorm room or the set of "Sanford & Son" 
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All the things you mentioned would send me running these days, Byron. I'm most personally sensitive these days to the "sloppy as hell" person, though. It's just something I have decreasing tolerance of. Also...
* An overly loud or talkative person * Someone given to "bling" or general showing off * One with no sense of aesthetic * One who relies only on my ideas for interesting things to talk about, do, etc. Ὅσον ζῇς φαίνου
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I broke up with a guy because he would pick his nose at innapropriate times. He would also fart in front of me. His thing was that it was natural why was I upset about it.
Sorry. Farting, maybe but picking your nose.....NO! MyeternalgrattitudetoPhil&Val.Herman said "We want sweaty truckers at the truck stop! We want cigar puffing men that look like they wanna beat the living daylights out of us" Val"sporking is spooning with benefits" | |
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Indecisiveness is such a turn-off for me and would be a huge deal-breaker. Have an opinion and own it!
That business of habitually exiting bathrooms without washing hands would do it, too. I notice that. There could also never be a future with someone who dislikes dogs. Total deal-breaker. White socks and sandals... Just kidding. I'm all old and married now, so the points are moot, but those would be my superficial deal-breakers now. Murica: at least it's not Sudan. | |
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I was friends with this 35 year old burlesque dancer who wanted more out of our relationship, but she was still basically sponging off her folks. I mean, I get help from my folks every now and then, but she was basically sponging. I couldn't dig that. | |
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ThreadBare said: Has ever dropped it like it was hot.
Hey man, everybody poops. | |
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Byron said: And I do mean "shallow" ones lol...not anything like cheating or being abusive or dishonesty or what-not...what do you think would be the shallowest deal breaker for you if everything else about a person is pretty much great?
For example, imagine you've just started getting involved with a man or woman (take yer pick), and they're intelligent, funny, nice body, respectful, great in bed, etc., etc...whatever those good things are that you like to find in one person (if possible). Now...imagine that the only real "negative" this person has is one of the following things: - Constantly picks his/her nose, and I mean all day and night, even in public, in bed, in front of your family... - Horrendous table manners...eats like a slob, smacks loudly as they eat, talks with food in their mouths, etc...they're the same way when at a restaurant. - Has a lingering, sour body odor...no deodorant will take it away, and spraying perfume or cologne only makes the odor worse. - Flatulence galore lol...I mean they fart no matter where they are...restaurants, elevators...even during sex. - They're sloppy as hell...whenever you go to their place, it's a wreck...dirty dishes piled up, empty pizza boxes on the floor, stacks of newspapers and dirty clothes everywhere. And when they come over to your place, they're just as sloppy... - Snores like a freakin' jackhammer...big, loud open-mouthed snores that sound insane, and that last the entire night. Also, imagine that none of these things will ever change during the length of your relationship...if you chose to be involved with this person, this aspect of the person will be there no matter what you or they do. With everything else about this person being wonderful...would any of these be "deal breakers" in your eyes?...Or would they be something you'd be willing to put up with in order to be with someone who is practically perfect in every other way? If none of the ones above would be a deal breaker, what would be a "shallow deal breaker" in your eyes? 
You just described me 
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Ottensen said: There are not enough good looks or good sex on the face of this earth that will convince me to live my life (at THIS stage!) as if I am in a boy's dorm room or the set of "Sanford & Son"
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