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When U Love Somebody...... The feelings of your inner sanctum does not die because the feelings or personal blueprint that brought you to say "I love you" in the first place never wanes or changes. Everything that has ever made you smile WILL make you smile again!
Their may have been pain along the way. There may have been misunderstandings that you may have to try and overcome, but know this....the LOVE never goes away. Your lives may go in different directions but if you truly loved ANYONE when thoughts of that person arise good or bad...your heart still moves. I have these very thoughts day in and day out and I can still say..... I smile!  The man who does not read good books has no advantage over the man who cannot read them. -- Mark Twain.
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You've gone all soft in the head Dex! There's Joy In Expatriation. | |
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I smile. [Edited 10/5/07 6:17am] | |
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I'm thinking that a lot of times when relationships are so extreme both ways it's more of an obsession then love.
It's true, for me anyway, that once I really love someone that love never goes away...even after the relationship ends. That's why I am still on good term with my exes. | |
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JustErin said: I'm thinking that a lot of times when relationships are so extreme both ways it's more of an obsession then love.
It's true, for me anyway, that once I really love someone that love never goes away...even after the relationship ends. That's why I am still on good term with my exes. yeah same, I could never hate either of my past "love of my lifes"  | |
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ZombieKitten said: JustErin said: I'm thinking that a lot of times when relationships are so extreme both ways it's more of an obsession then love.
It's true, for me anyway, that once I really love someone that love never goes away...even after the relationship ends. That's why I am still on good term with my exes. yeah same, I could never hate either of my past "love of my lifes"  | |
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Mach said: ZombieKitten said: yeah same, I could never hate either of my past "love of my lifes" Ditto!! Whaps All Around!!  The man who does not read good books has no advantage over the man who cannot read them. -- Mark Twain.
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DexMSR said: Mach said: I am also the same way
Ditto!! Whaps All Around!!   | |
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JustErin said: I'm thinking that a lot of times when relationships are so extreme both ways it's more of an obsession then love.
It's true, for me anyway, that once I really love someone that love never goes away...even after the relationship ends. That's why I am still on good term with my exes. well said... | |
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JustErin said: I'm thinking that a lot of times when relationships are so extreme both ways it's more of an obsession then love.
It's true, for me anyway, that once I really love someone that love never goes away...even after the relationship ends. That's why I am still on good term with my exes. Well said...  | |
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^ Good thing I added the flower... | |
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Byron said: ^ Good thing I added the flower...
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I've been ok with my exes until recently. There are times though that you need to just close the door and move on without bitterness.
When I was there, I know I loved them deeply. That's enough for me. | |
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Eh, I disagree. 
Thoughts of love, even with the person I love now, are very painful. Exes, past loves of my life, reflection tells me it wasn't truly love and even if it were, those people were not worthy of that love. I may be a wee bit bitter but I am moving on. I look to one day forgive so I can close that chapter in my life. | |
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Lothan said: Eh, I disagree.
Thoughts of love, even with the person I love now, are very painful. Exes, past loves of my life, reflection tells me it wasn't truly love and even if it were, those people were not worthy of that love. I may be a wee bit bitter but I am moving on. I look to one day forgive so I can close that chapter in my life. I don't think what you're saying comes from a bitter place. Sometimes that "thing" you loved in that person DOES wane and does go away. Doesn't mean you don't wish them well or that you don't still care for them on some level but the manner of feeling changes. I don't think ANY of my exes were worthy of the love I gave to them but I'm ok with loving them because my heart was pure. I can walk away ok. | |
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Rhondab said: Lothan said: Eh, I disagree.
Thoughts of love, even with the person I love now, are very painful. Exes, past loves of my life, reflection tells me it wasn't truly love and even if it were, those people were not worthy of that love. I may be a wee bit bitter but I am moving on. I look to one day forgive so I can close that chapter in my life. I don't think what you're saying comes from a bitter place. Sometimes that "thing" you loved in that person DOES wane and does go away. Doesn't mean you don't wish them well or that you don't still care for them on some level but the manner of feeling changes. I don't think ANY of my exes were worthy of the love I gave to them but I'm ok with loving them because my heart was pure. I can walk away ok. Yeah, I can relate to this. | |
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JustErin said: Rhondab said: I don't think what you're saying comes from a bitter place. Sometimes that "thing" you loved in that person DOES wane and does go away. Doesn't mean you don't wish them well or that you don't still care for them on some level but the manner of feeling changes. I don't think ANY of my exes were worthy of the love I gave to them but I'm ok with loving them because my heart was pure. I can walk away ok. Yeah, I can relate to this. Co-sign. Procrastination is the art of keeping up with yesterday.
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Rhondab said: Lothan said: Eh, I disagree.
Thoughts of love, even with the person I love now, are very painful. Exes, past loves of my life, reflection tells me it wasn't truly love and even if it were, those people were not worthy of that love. I may be a wee bit bitter but I am moving on. I look to one day forgive so I can close that chapter in my life. I don't think what you're saying comes from a bitter place. Sometimes that "thing" you loved in that person DOES wane and does go away. Doesn't mean you don't wish them well or that you don't still care for them on some level but the manner of feeling changes. I don't think ANY of my exes were worthy of the love I gave to them but I'm ok with loving them because my heart was pure. I can walk away ok. | |
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Lothan said: Rhondab said: I don't think what you're saying comes from a bitter place. Sometimes that "thing" you loved in that person DOES wane and does go away. Doesn't mean you don't wish them well or that you don't still care for them on some level but the manner of feeling changes. I don't think ANY of my exes were worthy of the love I gave to them but I'm ok with loving them because my heart was pure. I can walk away ok. gotcha..... | |
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Rhondab said: I don't think ANY of my exes were worthy of the love I gave to them... None of them?...You're picking the wrong guys lol  ... | |
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Byron said: Rhondab said: I don't think ANY of my exes were worthy of the love I gave to them... None of them?...You're picking the wrong guys lol ...Don't we all at some point? | |
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Byron said: Rhondab said: I don't think ANY of my exes were worthy of the love I gave to them... None of them?...You're picking the wrong guys lol ...yeah...I am...
and yes...none of them. I'm strong enough to admit that. | |
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JustErin said: Byron said: None of them?...You're picking the wrong guys lol ...Don't we all at some point? yanno.... | |
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JustErin said: Byron said: None of them?...You're picking the wrong guys lol ...Don't we all at some point? I don't pick guys, so...lol ...But I'll take your word for it.
It would be next to impossible for me to say someone I loved didn't deserve my love at the time...I guess I don't see it as "my" love as much as I just see it as "love"...so it would be like saying they don't deserve love. And that's something I could never say about anyone. | |
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Rhondab said: Byron said: None of them?...You're picking the wrong guys lol ...yeah...I am...
and yes...none of them. I'm strong enough to admit that. Hope it starts changing for you...  | |
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Agreed.True love never dies.  | |
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