Lothan said:

You know what, Ms. Lothan? Don't pay those projected feelings any mind whatsover.

The only mind you need to pay attention to is your OWN. Your true and authentic mind. Which, btw, when you are expressing it in free form, many of us luuuubs it quite much

And for those who don't....so what.

I repeat in "embellished" form, SO the FUCK what.

You know why? because even though this is a wonderful forum for people to come together to discuss ideas, make jokes, or if you're blessed, make friends, it's all still just cyberspace. At the end of the day, beyond the friends you can make here it's not real life. Or at least it's not real life to the point of taking on other people's S***. If you feel that you're personally invested in one or another that you may encounter here, that's a different thing altogether. But otherwise, while striving to be your best self as you see fit...grrrrl please ... In a case such as this, I am quick to quote the a line from Gloria Naylor's "Women of Brewster Place":

'...their good evenin's don't put food on my table'...

... and when you dig deeper and examine the multiple meanings esconced in such a phrase, one realizes that's one of the most poetic and metaphorical sentences ever written for a woman with an independent mind

Now take THAT shit to heart. I'm late for work!!! But I couldn't pass this thread up. Holla.

Anxiety said:

As someone that probably spends more time in P&R than other forums...I'm actually sorta offended.....


sorta....

No one here has more enemies than I do.

Know what though?

Don't care. This is just one in a million websites on the web. I need to speak my mind, and I'm too old to give a crap whether anyone likes it or not.

DevotedPuppy said:

I couldn't agree more. The two aren't mututally exclusive.

Thank you all for the kind words. It's been a really shitty week and this cheered me up.

I do have to learn to stay out of P&R.

CarrieMpls said:

And conversely, just cause you're nice the vast majority of the time doesn't mean you're dishonest, or not "telling it like it is".

Lothan said:

yes you do

Yeah, I'm a cunt, but at least I admit it.

Lothan said:

You just have to remember that this is just a website and also remember that we all have different views and opinions.
I had to learn some time ago that when I am here..I cannot take things so personal.
Some ppl are funny..they can be jealous of you therefore try to hurt you.
Dont give them that power.
You are a beautiful person- inside & out.

Cloudbuster said:

yes and being hot helps...for you anyways..

Lothan said:

you're a beautiful person

Cloudbuster said:

true but, what the hell does that have to do with this thread?

heybaby said:

'Cos I know I'm not somebody that everybody likes.
I'm not one of the "nice ones", as Ivy so kindly termed it. Makes the rest of us sound like complete assholes.

Oh wait, we are!

shanti0608 said:

Cloudbuster said:[quote]

heybaby said:

i rarely notice to even care.

Cloudbuster said:[quote]

heybaby said:

Dammit Cloudy. you know that's not what I am saying.

You are very dear to me and have been nothing but kind to me all these years, even when I disagree with you. I miss you when you don't post and I think of you away from this place. I love you, Cloudbuster.

heybaby said:

Then you're doing the right thing. The day you start to care is the day you should kill yourself. Or so my granny told me.

Lothan said:

Too little too late.




You know I loves ya. I was talking about you with Christopher just yesterday. We were both saying what a sweetheart you are.

Cloudbuster said:

Awwww.

Rhondab said:

you shouldn't be offended. you know exactly the element i'm talking about. i just think you have a rare talent for deflecting them.

Anxiety said:

Exactly ~ not meant at all to be offensive. I learn so much from reading through the P& R forums. It's that Ivy takes it home to bed with her and can't shake it ~ that works for a short term motivator but you just can't carry it long term.

So you're jealous of people like you who get along with everybody?



Oh yeah, the date is October 6th, 2008 in LA. I can give you the details if you'd like.

org enemies? I haven't been away that damn long when the hell did this happen?

I'm very nice. You've seen my threads, right?

Lothan said:

Aww, you're so sweet for saying that. I can't picture you having any enemies either. I can be pretty outspoken at times, check out the "Free Sign of the Times DVD" on the front page. I think I made some enemies on that one (not that I care, anyway, some people needed to be told a few things). There are a couple of people on here who I dislike, but I don't interact with them at all, I just ignore their posts. Ignorance is bliss.
[Edited 9/27/07 21:02pm]

emm said:

Emm, you are too!

Nothinbutjoy said:

Same here, I respect other people's opinons (for the most part), and I definitely have my own (even when I don't always express them).

I think we need to add Supa to the list. I don't think he has any enemies on here either.

ThreadCula said:

Is she the one who always ends her posts with "Smooches"?

even though i know nobody really knows me in here (except for one person i go way back with)

but the people i like in here so far are: Jackieblue, Cinnie, Anx, Miguel, Sammij & Chico.

they come across very natural to me.

i'm sure there are more names i forgot though
[Edited 9/28/07 8:46am]