That's very sweet. Lothan you know you're an org star!!!!! You delicious.

I think there has to be someone out there who can't stand me. Oh well. C'est la vie.

U all can just go straight to hell.

MIGUELGOMEZ said:

Imfuckingpossible.

I don't think I have any org enemies...

If I do, it's cause they think I'm a rotten mod. And that's only a couple I can think of.

CarrieMpls said:

I can't conceive of it. These people need hobbies.

Lothan said:

Ohhhhh my dear..I have learned that even being nice can cause you to have enemies. I must say that for me that sometimes being nice and getting along with every one has caused me some shit in the past but I guess it is all good.
I do think I need to take some lessons on bing a bitch from time to time.
Bitches seem like they have more fun


I would not worry about having enemies Ms. Ivy..you cant please everyone all of the time.
Just be YOU!!!

Graycap23 said:

HAs anyone ever told you that you are a twat? And that your alters are more transparrent than gin.....OH YEAH....ME

I try to be nice to everyone here....and I would hope that if I do something mean, that person would speak up and tell me so!

I speak my mind too much to be liked. I can live with the fact that I have to make my bed and then lie in it.

Lothan you have a ton of friends who care deeply about you. people should be jealous of you

btw, i think i get along with everybody if there is anyone who doesn't like me i'm really not aware of it. just because i may tell someone where to stick it every now and then (and generally in p&r) doesn't mean i don't get along with them or that i have ill will towards them if that makes any sense. if some one doesnt like me oh well they will get over it

Illustrator said:

That was directed at me, wasn't it?

In general, I'm honestly perplexed by people who get along with everyone. I feel like it's hard to get close to people who nobody hates, like they're hiding something.

I just have no problem telling people off when I feel like they deserve it. Perhaps it's a bad habit. I bite my tongue much more now than I used to, so I guess that's progress.

Anyways...I loves me some Lothan.

I also quite like Rhondab and didn't realize she had org-enemies.

Oh well, I guess I'll end my rambling post now.

Graycap23 said:

First, Lothan, wow! I NEVER make any lists so this was a really nice surprise.

Second, Graycap, I have opinions. Like a**.. well you know the saying, everyone does. Just like my a**... I choose to keep mine covered, not hit people over the head with it...speak out my a** etc.

I also have respect for others' opinions.

Nothinbutjoy said:

lol....

I don't know everyone well enough to have enemies. Right now it's pretty even ground for everybody....unless someone decides they want to steal my chimichanga. Then we got issues. DON'T NOBODY STEAL MY MEXICAN FOODS!!

I think I get along with everyone?! I am not rude, atleast I try not to be? hmmmm are you trying to tell me people don't like me?!

Illustrator said:

Anxiety said:

I am not sure why you would be jealous.

You have much respect, and love here.

I couldn't imagine you not speaking your mind.. It is a gift.

I don't have org enemies, neither do you.
Disagree and I'll beat you senseless.

Lothan said:

I wouldn't know.

Miguel, Dance, Psychodelicide, and Nothingbutjoy are wonderful people!

for all of you

emm said:

Back at you!!!!!

littlemissG said:

depends how many times you call me a slut

Lothan said:

Oh Sweetness ~ where do I begin??? Nathan and I were just talking about P&R and how you SO don't need it ~ that place hurts your spirit because you take everything so much to heart. You are the most beautious lady ~ depth, intellect, crazeeness, you are an empath through and through.

MoonSongs said:

i agree with all this! in general, P&R doesn't compliment your sensitivity and perspective, nor do they deserve your contribution of those qualities. i know you look for meaning in those debates, but we all know that 99% of the time you could find more sound logic in lewis carroll's "the jabberwocky" than in an average P&R thread. if you're using that forum for a barometer of social graces, you're going to be very pleasantly surprised by the TRUTH of the matter.

pfft. Personally, I think there's something a bit over-rated about getting along with everyone...what fun is that?

Also, just because you're honest (e.g. "tell it like it is") does not mean you aren't nice. I find people often misconstrue honestly with mean-ness, especially when they don't like what the truth sounds like. C'est la vie.

A little story: I used to be a bit nervous/scared of you because I remember as Hobbitch (before I *knew* you) we had a tiny disagreement on some thread or another...even then you were nothing but respectful although you did bust my balls a little. But you were the first person to respond to my desperate plea for Orger friends last month when I was going to be in Chicago, which really meant a lot to me. So while you may not get along with everyone, you are still nice!


(I try to be polite to everyone, but it's so hard, especially with stupid people. I think I do a good job most of the time but there are 2-3 people on the Org who really work my last nerve. I just try to ignore their posts.)

MoonSongs said:

You seem to be an very nice person for what I read on some of your posts.

DarkSideOfBeauty said:

I think she is wonderful