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PDA'S vs. PAM'S I am confused over this one.....so can you show me the way??
I've been dating a woman who seems to have problems with Public Displays of Affection (PDA). Yet she picks and chooses on her terms when and where she can apply them. Like in the parking lot of a happening joint...it won't happen. Yet in the safe confines of a supermarket in the suburbs...it CAN happen....WTF?? Then fresh off the conversation of being just friends.....we go to a house party and she Pisses Around Me (PAM) marking her territory by telling my boys wife that I "am" her man?? Somebody help me understand this please?! I see the double standard in place here and it plays for her conveniences it seems. The man who does not read good books has no advantage over the man who cannot read them. -- Mark Twain.
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Well, you said it. Sounds like she's setting a double standard. If it bothers you talk to her. Or have you already? There really isn't a good explanation except that girls are just stupid like that sometimes.  | |
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If you don't like the way she acts....leave her. | |
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I think you need to have a good long talk with her as to what type of relationship it is.
Is it a friends only or are you two a couple? If she's playing head games with you, drop her. 
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DexMSR said: I see the double standard in place here and it plays for her conveniences it seems. See it Speak it 
then tell us what she had to say about your perception 
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Where do you find these women? Furthermore, how can a guy even get an erection when his girlfriend lacks confidence in herself?
This is a waste of your time, Dexy.Oh shit, my hat done fell off | |
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Maybe she's just moody?
Or does it happen all the time with these rules at these specific places? | |
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INSATIABLE said: Where do you find these women? I'd want women to drool all over my man. Furthermore, how can a guy even get an erection when his girlfriend lacks confidence in herself?
This is a waste of your time, Dexy. | |
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DexMSR said: (PAM) marking her territory
I love PAM.  |
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luv4u said: I think you need to have a good long talk with her as to what type of relationship it is.
Is it a friends only or are you two a couple? If she's playing head games with you, drop her. 
enuff said...but we see what we want to sometimes. Dex: It seems there is definitely some miscommunication going on. You started by saying that you're dating this woman as in currently but then you said you're friends.....sounds like you're both confused. Or you're getting played. [Edited 9/27/07 9:58am] | |
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INSATIABLE said: Where do you find these women?
Furthermore, how can a guy even get an erection when his girlfriend lacks confidence in herself?
This is a waste of your time, Dexy.I agree.... Man, I don't know how I get so lucky as to have women like these....could be the alignment of the planets when I was born that dictate the women that will be in my life!! YEAH...I'LL GO WITH THAT ANSWER FOR A THOUSAND!!  The man who does not read good books has no advantage over the man who cannot read them. -- Mark Twain.
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DexMSR said: Man, I don't know how I get so lucky as to have women like these....could be the alignment of the planets when I was born that dictate the women that will be in my life!!
YEAH...I'LL GO WITH THAT ANSWER FOR A THOUSAND!!
Either that or you're blinded by the ass.  Oh shit, my hat done fell off | |
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INSATIABLE said: DexMSR said: Man, I don't know how I get so lucky as to have women like these....could be the alignment of the planets when I was born that dictate the women that will be in my life!!
YEAH...I'LL GO WITH THAT ANSWER FOR A THOUSAND!!
Either that or you're blinded by the ass. Ummmmm.....I reserve comment due to the overwhelming evidence compiled by certain parties that can in turn use it against me in a court of law!!! The man who does not read good books has no advantage over the man who cannot read them. -- Mark Twain.
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Rhondab said: luv4u said: I think you need to have a good long talk with her as to what type of relationship it is.
Is it a friends only or are you two a couple? If she's playing head games with you, drop her.
enuff said...but we see what we want to sometimes. Dex: It seems there is definitely some miscommunication going on. You started by saying that you're dating this woman as in currently but then you said you're friends.....sounds like you're both confused. Or you're getting played. [Edited 9/27/07 9:58am] She's having a party this weekend at her place....I'M SURE I'LL JUST BE A FRIEND THERE....LOL! The man who does not read good books has no advantage over the man who cannot read them. -- Mark Twain.
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DexMSR said: Rhondab said:
enuff said...but we see what we want to sometimes. Dex: It seems there is definitely some miscommunication going on. You started by saying that you're dating this woman as in currently but then you said you're friends.....sounds like you're both confused. Or you're getting played. [Edited 9/27/07 9:58am] She's having a party this weekend at her place....I'M SURE I'LL JUST BE A FRIEND THERE....LOL! oh gawddddd..... 
exit stage left..... | |
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Rhondab said: DexMSR said: She's having a party this weekend at her place....I'M SURE I'LL JUST BE A FRIEND THERE....LOL! oh gawddddd.....
exit stage left..... I'm not going...I got a friend in town celebrating a birthday with them!! The man who does not read good books has no advantage over the man who cannot read them. -- Mark Twain.
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I thought I was going to learn something about Blackberrys. | |
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RodeoSchro said: I thought I was going to learn something about Blackberrys.
 The man who does not read good books has no advantage over the man who cannot read them. -- Mark Twain.
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Lothan said: Women.are.nuts.
some. some.women are nuts. |
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sounds like she has her eye on someone else who she isn't sure of and is keeping you on the back burner.
this could be messy.  | |
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CarrieMpls said: Lothan said: Women.are.nuts.
some. some.women are nuts. | |
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pda-----> 
pam-----> 
 you get these confused? | |
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