Sowhat said:

oooooh, I may hold you too that

Couldn't do it...

I'm generally not the possessive type, but that could change things...

violator said:

I am the possessive type and hell no way is my boyfriend going to be pawed at for a living

SupaFunkyOrgangrinderSexy said:

And then there are all those.... (gasp)... other things, that strippers can get into...

violator said:

EverSoulicious said:

, indeed...

violator said:

And another reason why I would never be with one Or someone who has been with one

EverSoulicious said:

I hear ya... I always say that I have no problem with what strippers do, in the spirit of non-judgement and all that... but I guess the reality of it is I am being judgemental...

violator said:

Me too

EverSoulicious said:

Well for me, I could give a shit less about the actual act of stripping. I say go the hell for it. But it's the lying, manipulations and just straight out evilness that is cultivated in some of those chicks that really is deserving of complete judgement

SupaFunkyOrgangrinderSexy said:

..And there it is...

SupaFunkyOrgangrinderSexy said:

And men And God knows what else

SupaFunkyOrgangrinderSexy said:

You call it evil,
I call it an edge.
Nothin' turns me on more than a loopy cunt who knows how to rub romance against the grain.

KoolEaze said:

Thanks KoolEaze.

Illustrator said:

i can't say that i disagree with that take!

Carr

ieMpls said:

You've actually run across hetero male strippers???

My 20 year old son worked as a cook at a local adult entertainment club for two years. He wouldn't date any of the strippers. Not clear why. He had female friends who served tables, and worked in the kitchen.(not dancers)
He had one Asian stripper who ate like a horse, and strippers received free food, so he had to cook for her...she was skinny as all get out. He was dumbfounded as to how much food she consumed.

KoolEaze said:

KoolEaze:luv: of gold...

SupaFunkyOrgangrinderSexy said:

thanks.....in his case it was a combination of her stringing him along and his TOTAL inability to deal with her job...he'd hang out at the club all the time....getting into fights sometimes because she was working....I always asked him what it was he expected her to do...in her case, she should have cut him loose when he got extremely obsessive (he wasn't dangerous or creepy, just jealous), but she dug the attention....and took great pleasure in playing him like a yo-yo.....

....I guess the moral of the story should be that if you can't handle your sig other getting gawked at by folks on pervert's row, you might wanna reconsider your choice of lover.....just my

reneGade20 said:

....and good evening...

Ottensen said:

Good evening to you dear.....

Dating is one thing, being your girlfriend or boyfriend is a whole other matter.

reneGade20 said:

i forgot to mention that part.
both times i dated a dancer, i NEVER went to see them at work.
that's just a BAD idea.
she can't do what she would normally do to get money, OR
she does and you feel like a moron for dating her.

so if you DO date a stripper, NEVER go see her at work. BAD idea.

xplnyrslf said:

At leasta handful of the men who strip in gay clubs are hetero. They make good money.

thanx for replyingand your advice. I decided that this person is too cute to pass up and i am going to stick with himvery slowly after last night!! So thanx guys and gals and have a fine week!!!

cheeseburger said:

The reponses in this thread didn't even make a dent, did they?

KoolEaze said:

KoolEaze..did you know we both have Pisces rising in our charts? I remember you saying that you did in one of the astrology threads..it stuck in my mind because I have it too. And for that matter, so does Antonio Banderas!

Volitan said:

Alot of them are in alot of pain inside. Alot of them are shallow and they don't care how they are treated. Alot of them are brilliant and creative and bright..alot of them are addicted to drugs and drinking, alot of them think real life is boring and want to live life on the edge, alot of them get trapped finnacialy and mentally, basically all different types of women from all walks of life. One thing I have noticed is women with true strong unshakable self esteem do not stay in it for very long or have a VERY hard time dealing with it because it can be a degrading experience at times, every day is a hustle...I'd say it can be more mentally exausting than anything.