I don't have a type really. The only thing that's consistent is (no offense to the thin guys, but) they have to have some degree of weight on them. Nice shoulders/chest - not necessarily ripped or built, but some girth for me to feel like I'm holding onto something. I don't think I've ever been truly attracted to a skinny guy... except for Prince

CalhounSq said

I'm the same. I don't want to be with someone who is thinner than I am. I like to have something to hold on to.

Something I forgot when I first posted what my type is, is that I'm really, really attracted to men who can make me laugh. I'm someone who loves to joke around, so if a man gets my humor and can get me laughing, I'm like . It has worked for every boyfriend I've had.

jess555ja said:

I'm weird though b/c I'm kinda skinny (in the legs, at least) But if he seems at all frail, I ain't wit it

jess555ja said:

I completely agree. I LOVE a man with a good sense of humor, witty, sarcastic and just fun.

amorbella said:

oh yes!

Rhondab said:

jess555ja said:

Sense of humor is a must for me as well, I love to laugh, intelligence is another must

Calligraphy said:

if you want me, just say it...

Rhondab said:

Calligraphy said:

Ace said:

natalie imbruglia

My ideal "type" is very smart with a quick wit, a great sense of humor and an easy smile. Since I'm artistic myself she atleast appreciates art-- okay, MY art.

Who am I kidding it's all about the looks. Give me a woman with short hair or a pony tail, a long neck, prominent nose, and nice legs/ass/thighs.

My last girlfriend had all of these which goes to show it ain't everything..... but it is a good start.

I'm all over the map aesthetically. But the initial things I want from my men are kindness, a great sense of humour, and some semblence of gentility.

I'm Duddley Do-Right according to my boys....always got with girls in need of saving or with issues so heavy that they were born with red flags all over them....


but in spite of the fact that I was personified, this particular type of woman managed to be attracted to me as well because of my "nice" face....

CalhounSq said:

so this means I would have no shot at all then?....

j/k

Nice cheeks, nice hair, slightly overweight (I need something to moan about), completely unreasonable, aggressive and emotionally unstable. Game for a laugh, but not too silly/stupid kinda funny. Doesn't have to be incredibly knowledgable but I like 'em sharp. I like them loving but capable of rage.

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Rhondab said:

I'm not really very much fun, but I am at least a couple of those other things.

I'm a sucker for bad boys (musicians).. Usually with long, no more than shoulder-lenght hair..

And if a guy had nice biceps and blue eyes, that's it, I'm throbing..

Rhondab said:

So, you've met dudes at church, huh?

Calligraphy said:

in the past....

see.... ...

Usually someone totally unobtainable.

onenitealone said:

That's me. Emotionally speaking that is...physically, there is usually no prob.

I've finally admitted to myself that I am in love with my crush and it stinks.

JustErin said:

I'm the total reverse. The emotion part isn't a problem - it's the physical part that's the issue. But that probably has more to do with my self-confidence. If I really like a guy I usually don't go ANYWHERE near him.

Have you discussed this with your crush or kept it to yourself? I hope you're doing okay, Erin.

onenitealone said:

Thanks, Alun.

I'm fine. Not heartbroken or anything, just frustrated.

He knows how I feel...or at least should know as I have pretty much spelled it out to him several times. He just doesn't respond in any serious way when I bring it up, he seems to prefer ignoring the whole issue. Ive known him for years now and we're good friends...or at least I like to think we are. We just hang out now and then and hanging out always leads to hooking up...but that's all it is.

JustErin said:

Sounds like torture to me...

JustErin said:

yes it does

rushing07 said:

Seriously, I'm used to this kinda thing.

ZombieKitten said:

JustErin said:

Doesn't it make things a bit awkward between you two?
Do you meet often?