the first thing you notice about a man on first seeing him? Please give one example of a positive attribute and one of a negative.

If we are talking just physical things i'd say well groomed and great dress sense. Sharp suit

if you can smile at me and make my stomach do a little flip, you've got my attention.

evenstar3 said:

The way a man looks at me is the first thing I often notice, for the positive.

For the negative - bad shoes. lol.

TEETH! I cannot stress this enough. If your teeth look like butter I will walk right by you. I"m not talking imperfections, they can be crooked or whatever, just not yellow brown or green!

CarrieLee said:

OMG

Face. Absolutely the face.

the way he is dressed and then his eyes.

JustErin said:

good but what exactly about a face? we all have a face.. surely you dont mean a man with a face is attractive. Could u expound on this more for me please? Also, what about a negative, what attracts you for the wrong reason?

I always notice a man's eyes and smile first.

jess555ja said:

Co-sign on the eyes

jess555ja said:

Now how about a negative, Jessmeister?

3121 said:

What do you mean by that? Do you mean something that would turn me off or something that I shouldn't find attractive, yet I do?

How about Stinky feet so bad the smell hits u in the face even though they're wearing shoes....u smell them as soon as they walk in the room and everyone is asking..." DO u smell feet?"

jess555ja said:

I mean we can be attracted to look at something because its either A) visually pleasing or B) visually appaulling

you said you like nice eyes. What makes u stare at a guy for the wrong reasons?

Lips and his fingernails

3121 said:

Oh, alright. Then my negative would be dressing inappropriately for one's body shape
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3121 said:

That would depend on the individual, if it's positive or negative, wouldn't it? I mean you can't just say for example "nose" as a positive, because if it's an ugly nose then it's negative, right?

I notice the eyes and smile first. A good upper body wont hurt either.

If you dont moisturize your skin,thats a turn off for me. Dont come to me if you look like you've been rolling around in flour.

CarrieLee said:

LMAO!!!

DanceWme said:

what about them? u like? dislike?

retina said:

WHAT?

ThreadCula said:

Oh lawd

3121 said:

I love lips. I always notics that first.
I dislike when a guy's fingernails are not clean.

I go for his ass first, and ask questions later...

I major turn-off for me is when men wear wigs, like Rod Stewart. Like, gross

3121 said:

Example:

DanceWme just said "lips and fingernails" to answer what she notices first, and then you asked "like or dislike?". Well what I'm saying is, that depends on the person. If he has nice lips and fingernails then she likes them, and if he has bad lips and fingernails she probably dislikes them. The positive/negative aspect depends on each person, and not on the attribute itself. Right?

A confident walk/posture
A friendly smile and eye contact
Speach
Eyes
Hands

If he looks like a lying dog or not!

Mach said:

that's what I notice too.

I hate threads that objectify men. It's time women start respecting us as equals.

Imago said: