dont see the point in keeping in touch with ex's of any kind including mates....past is past leave it there move on.

Ok heres the truth after ive just had a few glasses of wine..lol MOst of my exes have been total bastards, theres the alchoholic junkie physically abusive arsehole...My huband who lied too me from the first day we met for over a year until we were married and then told me he just wanted a visa...Then theres the ones that turned out to be gay,,,to the guy that had a fetish for shoving toothbrushes up his arse. ...So no I aint in touch with exes.

However I think its nice if u can stll remain friends with people u cared/ still care about, coz u dont stop havin feelings for people just coz they are an ex.

JD - Personally i think u and Carrie make a cute couple. thought it was so romantic that u both had matching outfits at last years party! Im a hopeless romantic. lol. It did bring a tear to my eyes..u 2 r lovely. x

zaara said:

omg!

zaara said:

OMG - I had no idea. Sarah, I am so sorry to hear that. I sincerely hope you have got those guys out of your system and have not let them affect you too much.

aw thanks, im learning that the past is the past and that aslong as i treat people how i wanna be treated then its all ok.. even if people dont in return. Its all good and im spiritually feeling lighter each day and its all a learning process that makes u stronger. I still get over upset when people are crap too me but still think everything happens for a reason. theres worse things that happen in the world and u should be grateful for what uve got and not think about what u dont have. x thanks tho.

zaara said:

Very true words but not always the easiest to live by. You must be a LOT stronger than you realise.

Sarah...

onenitealone said:

One of my ex's tells me I ruined his life for leaving him.
Another one has the same birthday as I do so when I text him on our birthday he ignores me.
All the others want to still have sex with me, so I try to stay away from my ex's.

GermanHottie1981 said:

ugh. why do they pull that crap? it's so stupid.

REDBABY said:

Besides, his breath stank so bad I never knew if I should have given him a roll of toilet paper or some chewing gum.
[Edited 8/30/07 14:37pm]

evenstar3 said:

I know! It's either me being real powerful or him being a loser. Or both.
[Edited 8/30/07 14:42pm]

GermanHottie1981 said:

i just think it's dumb to admit that to someone. plus, the whole 'oh my god i'm so sad we're not together pity me pity me' thing has gotten really old to me.

evenstar3 said:

Jesus Christ, even if I *ever* felt that way, I would NEVER give someone the satisfaction of thinking they did that to me.

onenitealone said:

i think it's being said to me as a way of manipulation. i'm not getting any satisfaction out of it, believe me, just frustration and annoyance.

evenstar3 said:

I have to admit I do get a lil satisfaction out of it. After all it was not my fault that I had to leave him.

evenstar3 said:

Dont listen to them arses.. ive been told in the past by a couple men , that they would kill themselves if i finished with them,, its blackmail.trust me.

zaara said:

yup, me too. that's the worst.

evenstar3 said:

Oh, I'm sure you're not - not at all. But nothing would make me stoop that low. That's where voodoo dolls come in handy.

I hope he leaves you in peace soon.

evenstar3 said:

TOTAL blackmail.

onenitealone said:

voodoo dolls!

thanks

Not really..

The only one I can think of is Hayden.. who is now my bestfriend, and gay? and we dated for about a day so that doesn't count.



But esp. not my last one.
He is the worst person I've ever met and I have no intentions of ever speaking to him again.

1 can be civil to because he understood what "I never want to hear from you again" meant the first time.
the 2nd was a trip to get rid of. He stuck to me like a babe to a mother's tit.
The third one is just a dramatic mess. His mother screwed with his head and pretty much set him down a bad path for life. He obsesses over people he cannot have. I tried to be friends with him for a short while but..ugh...he just never knew when to shut up about some married girl that was his "dominant mistress".... Not that I'm against the lifestyle but....since we were trying to be friends and all, it was really irritating to have every conversation be about some lady I never even heard of and how to win her over from her husband....

sooo.....it's 1 outta them all, I suppose.

I don't, I just crash her company's website when I have a bad memory