ZombieKitten said: NDRU said: Actually the hotter they are the more nervous I get But I don't mind! I am just kidding but you know there are occasionally people, and I mean complete strangers, who don't violate the personal space by standing too close, they simply share it. It is strange phenomenon, male or female, hot or not, some people don't exude creepiness, or even ANYTHING - they could be there 2cm away and it doesn't bother me. I wonder if that is just me, or if others notice that. I guess there's different types of violations, because I think you're right. Some strangers might stand close but still have a way of making us feel at ease. Perhaps it's not just the space but how they comport themselves On the other hand I have one friend (not a stranger mind you) in particular who will stand too close and start saying an a deep voice "i was fucking this chick..." and the whole thing makes me want to run away. My Legacy
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I hate being crammed with people. Now i've hung up my moshing boots, I prefer to see a concert from the comfort of a seat. I hate it when the tube's packed, as well | |
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The only time I need personal space is when I am mad. Otherwise I could care less. | |
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acres...
I'm finding that more and more, I only wanna be around people when it's convenient for me...it's a shitty attitude for sure... | |
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roodboi said: acres...
I'm finding that more and more, I only wanna be around people when it's convenient for me...it's a shitty attitude for sure... I've noticed that lately | |
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EverSoulicious said: roodboi said: acres...
I'm finding that more and more, I only wanna be around people when it's convenient for me...it's a shitty attitude for sure... I've noticed that lately sorry... | |
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roodboi said: EverSoulicious said: I've noticed that lately sorry... it's ok. I understand I'm not as cute as your other women are | |
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EverSoulicious said: roodboi said: sorry... it's ok. I understand I'm not as cute as your other women are ok..question...I know I get on here, say all kinda shit and cut up...but do I really seem that fuckin' shallow??? I literally dont wanna be around anyone right now...even my own family...so I hardly think this has anything to do with whos hot or not... | |
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roodboi said: EverSoulicious said: it's ok. I understand I'm not as cute as your other women are ok..question...I know I get on here, say all kinda shit and cut up...but do I really seem that fuckin' shallow??? I literally dont wanna be around anyone right now...even my own family...so I hardly think this has anything to do with whos hot or not... that was a joke. and you know I don't think you are shallow. but here is your acres of space. hope things get better. | |
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personal space...
in bed, one of my body parts has to be touching my husbands (take yer mind outta the gutter!) I mean, a leg has to touch him, my arm, foot, anything. Lucky for me he feels the same way. | |
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NDRU said: ZombieKitten said: I am just kidding but you know there are occasionally people, and I mean complete strangers, who don't violate the personal space by standing too close, they simply share it. It is strange phenomenon, male or female, hot or not, some people don't exude creepiness, or even ANYTHING - they could be there 2cm away and it doesn't bother me. I wonder if that is just me, or if others notice that. I guess there's different types of violations, because I think you're right. Some strangers might stand close but still have a way of making us feel at ease. Perhaps it's not just the space but how they comport themselves On the other hand I have one friend (not a stranger mind you) in particular who will stand too close and start saying an a deep voice "i was fucking this chick..." and the whole thing makes me want to run away. eeeewwww! | |
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I don't mind if I have to be scrunched together with others if it's simply a crowding/lack of space problem.
It's only if a person intentionally touches my person or something attached to it that I become uneasy. I also don't like when people barge into me while they're passing me, or bump me with their carts in the supermarket line; it simply shows lack cognizance of and considertion for others, and that's a big manners-no-no for me | |
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onenitealone said: I'm sure I know your feelings on this and mine will be exactly the same, Anx.
Like you've mentioned on the Org previously, somehow I have been implanted with a homing device that seems to attract anybody and everybody. Like when you're on a bus and there are loads of seats free, yet someone plonks themself beside you. Or when you're out and about and you run into a random, er, 'character' and you're stuck with them all of a sudden. How does it happen?! I usually use the stink eye - that works. I had that happen to me YET AGAIN in the shower room today.....every shower stall was empty, save mine..there are 6 on each side...and this guy parked his ass in the one right next to me.....I was like WTF, over? A little room here, dude...SHOWER FOUL!!!!....no home training whatsoever..... He was like a cock who thought the sun had risen to hear him crow.
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reneGade20 said: I had that happen to me YET AGAIN in the shower room today.....every shower stall was empty, save mine..there are 6 on each side...and this guy parked his ass in the one right next to me.....I was like WTF, over? A little room here, dude...SHOWER FOUL!!!!....no home training whatsoever.....
That would drive me batshit! See?? It's not just the Org... even the troops can't get enough of reneGade20. | |
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LittleSmedley said: I hate being crammed with people. Now i've hung up my moshing boots, I prefer to see a concert from the comfort of a seat. I hate it when the tube's packed, as well
I wouldn't mind being crammed with you in the tube...or wherever 18 August 2007, O2 Arena, London
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The only thing I don't like about strangers is being stared at. At work I have about 300 to 600 people staring at me every day so when I'm off work I hate them looking at me. So my sunglasses are going with me as much as possible. [Edited 9/1/07 3:04am] 18 August 2007, O2 Arena, London
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Anxiety said: You know, like, when you're out in public at a store or on public transportation or something. What's the closest you can let people get to you without it grossing or freaking you out?
Do you think you need more personal space than most people? When someone invades your personal space, what do you do? Thank you, that is all. Now back up a bit. i dont mind if your in line somewheres and its a bit crowded as long as ppl dont got nasty hot garbage breath they need to breath on you. omg what if you're the one with the bad breath? | |
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If I need some extra space I just . That usually keeps them away. | |
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Christopher said: Anxiety said: You know, like, when you're out in public at a store or on public transportation or something. What's the closest you can let people get to you without it grossing or freaking you out?
Do you think you need more personal space than most people? When someone invades your personal space, what do you do? Thank you, that is all. Now back up a bit. i dont mind if your in line somewheres and its a bit crowded as long as ppl dont got nasty hot garbage breath they need to breath on you. omg what if you're the one with the bad breath? What about if they're carrying nasty, hot garbage? There's Joy In Expatriation. | |
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JDInteractive said: Christopher said: i dont mind if your in line somewheres and its a bit crowded as long as ppl dont got nasty hot garbage breath they need to breath on you. omg what if you're the one with the bad breath? What about if they're carrying nasty, hot garbage? a francis L. beating for sure | |
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Christaro said: If I need some extra space I just . That usually keeps them away.
Now see, I've done ignorant stuff like that when dudes approach me and refuse to get the hint that I'm not into them, you know, like when I'm walking down the street or on the train. Otherwise, if I can't force out a fart, I just burp really loudly then ask them for a tissue. Once they ineveitably say no I then proceed to pretend I'm picking THE ABSOLUTE BIGGEST BOOGER EVER out of my nose. That usually pretty much does the trick | |
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onenitealone said: reneGade20 said: I had that happen to me YET AGAIN in the shower room today.....every shower stall was empty, save mine..there are 6 on each side...and this guy parked his ass in the one right next to me.....I was like WTF, over? A little room here, dude...SHOWER FOUL!!!!....no home training whatsoever.....
That would drive me batshit! See?? It's not just the Org... even the troops can't get enough of reneGade20. bom chika wah wah.... He was like a cock who thought the sun had risen to hear him crow.
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reneGade20 said: bom chika wah wah....
* * This hug is from a distance. | |
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onenitealone said: reneGade20 said: bom chika wah wah....
* * This hug is from a distance. I ya 2!!!! (strictly platonic... ) He was like a cock who thought the sun had risen to hear him crow.
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Dont touch
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Moderator | I need nautical miles of space between me and others. In spite of the cost of living, it's still popular. |
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When it comes 2 strangers I don't want them 2 touch me or stand close 2 me..if they do so I will go somewhere else and after this I'll give them the sharp look... | |
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