on the 29th(Wednesday) of this month I decided to buy myself a sexy peice of clothing(my first I ever bought in my life). WHY?? I have no boyfriend, no special someone in my life(other then my daughter who I love dearly), I just got it to treat myself on nights I feel like dressing sexy or to feel sexy.

I will be 34 on Wednesday, why do I feel so weird about buying myself one? I bought it so I can wear it( even around my daughter, it IS NOT see through but a satin short nighty with a robe to match) this way my daughter(who is 12) isnt asking" Mom, why you showing your chest area(you can use boobs if you like)?" Is this normal for a woman of my age to want a sexy peice of clothing like this. They had some really nice see through ones(I dont have a boyfriend that is why I didnt get one, now if I did have one I would get it).

Weird or not weird??? Is this a phase???That is the question of the day for me.

Any other women feel like this at times?

PS- I think a woman can dress sexy/feel sexy and NOT have sex on thier mind, let alone not intending on having sex.

Please let me know what you all think, I appreciate all comments and questions.

Thanks!

Get a thong

[Edited 8/26/07 11:32am]

littlemissG said:

Sorry, org is hiccuping again on my end(darn org).

Do they make them in purple satin or does it make a difference what color they are(or black would match)?

See I dont think a thong would work, Im a 190 lb woman. You wont be able to see it on my bubble booty tush. Any suggestions? Or do I still get the thong?

Decisions, Decisions
[Edited 8/26/07 11:49am]

oh trust me, thong works nicely. you feel sexy walking around all day.
there are just comfy ones and uncomfortable ones
so don't write them all off if you get one that's bad.

a fantastic "omg i can't believe i spent that much on a bra" bra and panty set
is nice too... something that will make your boobs look delicious under that
special top or sweater... practical yet sexy. and we all know how men love
matching bras and panties.

your idea of something special to sleep in is nice too. you can set up
a bath with a glass of wine... put on the dusting powder that came with
your perfume that you never wear... and slip into the sexy lingerie. all for you.

and happy birthday!

How you are feeling and thinking is not weird at all. All women should feel sexy!! It doesn't matter if you are 25 or 60. I am 36, and I like to buy sexy panties, nighties, etc... It doesn't matter to me if a man sees these items or not, all I care about is that I am feeling beautiful and sexy!

So go out and buy sexy clothes girl! If the item makes you feel good about yourself, there is nothing wrong or weird about it!

Happy early birthday to you!

I feel alot better now that I know Im not weird for wanting to do this.

I do have a last question for those who replied(if you dont mind):

I NEVER(I do stress never) have worn a thong before, does feel like there is something in your tushy all the time(like getting a wedgy) or is it the feeling of not having undies on?(I know dumb question to ask but Im just starting to dig this sexy lingerie wearing stuff, before its ALWAYS the white cotton high cut/rise aka full panties)

I almost feel weird for even asking that but I need to know, curiosity is getting to me(not trying to be nosy or personal).


Im buying things a little bit at a time and when I have the means to do so. I will definately buy a matching bra/ panty set(the "OMFG I cant believe I spent that much on a matching bra and panty set" lol)
Thanks for the birthday wishes all

i love these, either panty or thong. they are so lightweight it feels like wearing nothing at all. or at least, you feel the fabric of your outfit against your cheeks. then you lean over or something and you are reminded that you are wearing a thong. it's all nice.
highly recommend these

emm said:

Thank you so much for answering my question.
I always wondered about if they ride up the tush or not. Im off to shop online WAHOOOOO! lol.

I didnt buy online, instead I went to my local department store and bought not 1, but 4 thongs(they were on sale as well!). THEY FIT AND I LOVE THEM! They are so comfy(except when bending down they make you actually notice they ARE there lol.)

I got purple, dark pinkish, green, and blue! I even bought myself a sexy short short night outfit.

I dont know if getting older is good or a bad thing but IM LIKING IT!

Next on list: matching bra and panty set!
[Edited 8/27/07 18:24pm]

toots said:

Sounds like you are enjoying this stuff! I love sexy panties, bras, nighties!!! Those things just make a girl feel good!

MoniGram said:

If I would of known this a LONG time ago, I would of done it!( my younger sister has been trying to get me into thongs and sexy things, she is 10 years younger then me, but never had the knack to do it). I guess Im changing my tastes in clothes, who knows.

toots said:

Took me years to, but it seemed like when I hit 30 everything changed for me. It's like turning 30 I became more sexy...at least in my own mind at least.

MoniGram said:

I am thinking the same way now(when you did at 30). Im wondering if it actually is a phase for some or most women. Even if it is just a phase, Im going to enjoy it. I asked my mom the same thing as in my thread, she said "Im just being a girl." I think its more then that,dont know what, but Im starting to wonder about my years ahead as well, if it gets better and better or the opposite.

I say whatever makes you feel good (sexy) about yourself is well worth the investment.

MoniGram said:

took me until about then too

actually it was the year I found www.bravissimo.com

all hail bravissimo

emm said:

ZombieKitten said:

I never heard of the website till now(Ill have to check it out)

emm said:

that is cute! lol

toots said:

I just got a catalog the other day in the mail from there...I love what they have!!!!