I had a lovely chat with my ex today. I've not seen her in years and it was great to catch up and see where our lives went. Do you get on with your ex beaus?

Yes - when I see them

which is around 1-3 times a yr

I get along well with a couple of them, but there are two that I don't get along with at all and I would rather never here from them again. Those relationships ended very badly.

Same as Mach.

Yes I get along with most.

Some I havent seen in years, but when we speak or meet up, its all friendliness..

Nope, i speak to one now and again but only on a very surface level. We are exes for a reason

I of cause get on with Carrie. She's just the cutest drunk dialler in the world.

Oh YEah.

Totally.

Most of my exes hate me. haha

one of x's we still touch base every now and then. when we do we stick 2 what's going on in baseball, movies, and P. so we're chummy.

and then there's the other one i just want 2

JDInteractive said:

It was good to chat with you. You're the only one of my exes I still semi-regularly talk to.

rarely, and only casual talk. nothing deep. just a "how are you" kind of talk.

For the most part, yeah...no problems and get along great.

i've said it before and i'll say it again exes are exes for a reason.

heybaby said:

So that means even taking to each other or being appreciative and respectful is off-limits?...

One of my ex's passed away, so no with him, the other I talk to every other day, not cause I want to cause I have to

veronikka said:

Why do you have to?

veronikka said:

That's why I never date anyone who works in tech support ...

heybaby said:

Alright, alright calm down you!

REDBABY said:

kids

Byron said:

because i don't deal with them doesn't mean i don't respect them and appreciative of what? i'm just not into being buddy buddy with my exes. if i see them and they speak i'd say hello back but thats the extent of it. i don't see the need to to catch up on anything or any of that crap-just hi and bye-keep it movin

There are only 3 or so exes I have that I don't get along with/talk to anymore. I'm usually friendly with them and for some reason, people (usually other girls ) think that's weird.

heybaby said:

No one said hanging "buddy buddy" with them...just do you ever talk to them. Your answer was a pretty definite "HELL no" lol ...and appreciative of whatever part of themselves they gave to you, for however long they did. Appreciative of the experience and of the opportunity to learn and grow from it. I guess I couldn't find it possible to treat someone who once gave me their heart, emotions, time and body as if they're barely visible or irrelevant...unless that's what they're wanting me to do. Then, I'll respect their wishes.

I still talk to a couple of them.

JDInteractive said:

JD! Speaking to your ex makes me jealous! I'll fight her!

JDInteractive said:

A little too well...

I couldn't tell you if any of my ex's are even still alive.

I'm w/ Heybaby...ex's are ex's for a reason. When I did still see them rarely, I was civil, but that's about it.

I've been with my hubby for 19 years now, so if I even saw an ex, I don't know that I'd recognize him.

Byron said:

i don't mean to sound negative or be rude to them, i just don't want to be bothered honestly.

violator said:

I thought you were me!

violator said: