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PrintableSirPsycho said: heybaby said: oh i know its not and thats not what i did  i have kids and an extended family that i am very close to. they accept me for me also but i'd rather focus on one than start a big ass paragraph about all the many different kinds of love that we all know exist. and when it comes to family love, friendship love etc, etc, we sometimes expect for them to love us like that. i think its something totally different when someone your especially intimate with accepts those same quirks since we all have a fear of rejection on some level in this particular situaltion.yes...we do expect this from family....but family is not required to do this by law or nature....mothers have turned on children....brothers have murdered brothers....but the chances of a stranger truly loving you (in general) despite yourself, and a cousin doing the same...are equal are they not? (i know you gonna be like "hell no" )yes and no i said we expect them to which of course isn't always the case. a relative, cousin, etc etc can love you equally as a stranger can but the point i'm making is that its much harder in most cases to find a stranger who does than a relative per se. | |
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SirPsycho said: is it really that hard to find? or do we all simply take everyone/thing other than the one we choose for granted?
what's your opinion True love is out there. I experienced true, respectful and passionate love once. (R.I.P. baby) | |
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heybaby said: SirPsycho said: yes...we do expect this from family....but family is not required to do this by law or nature....mothers have turned on children....brothers have murdered brothers....but the chances of a stranger truly loving you (in general) despite yourself, and a cousin doing the same...are equal are they not? (i know you gonna be like "hell no" )yes and no i said we expect them to which of course isn't always the case. a relative, cousin, etc etc can love you equally as a stranger can but the point i'm making is that its much harder in most cases to find a stranger who does than a relative per se.well said....but is this only because we don't expect (and often don't accept...especially in the north...i dont know where u live) love from a stranger?  | |
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SirPsycho said: heybaby said: yes and no i said we expect them to which of course isn't always the case. a relative, cousin, etc etc can love you equally as a stranger can but the point i'm making is that its much harder in most cases to find a stranger who does than a relative per se.well said....but is this only because we don't expect (and often don't accept...especially in the north...i dont know where u live) love from a stranger? yes. and i live in the north | |
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JDInteractive said: I wanna be adored.
 That's always a nice thought!Proud Memaw to Seyhan Olivia Christine ,Zoey Cirilo Jaylee & Ellie Abigail Lillian  | |
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Harder to keep than find.
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hard to find, harder to keep this much is true..however I feel like the love between my husband and I is "perfect" for us..we neither one are perfect and we accept that, we both have faults and we mis understand each other, sometimes for days on end, but what makes our love perfect for us is how we handle the misunderstandings and misgivings and make the best of what we have...I believe the love we share can and will carry us through anything (at least that's my prayer). I never expected to find the "perfect" man, but finding the "perfect" person for me, that was a blessing. Because of God..we 2 r 1~~Darren & Suzyn forever
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