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PrintableOne4All4Ever said: ZombieKitten said: you have to market the twins right! don't say "double trouble" even though it's catchy  well ... maybe I'll hire u to make some cute pics of them 
now I come to think of it ... I might actually market them as twinz here on the marketplace    | |
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KatSkrizzle said: TotalANXiousNESS said: My opinion is that this is a sticky subject.
But, in an ideal world would you liked to have stayed at home with her? Well. You can blame the stupid womens lib people for NOT being able too. UGH!  Yeah women's lib was sooo stupid I didn't say that. I've reached in darkness and come out with treasure
I layed down with love and I woke up with lies Whats it all worth only the heart can measure It's not whats in the mirror but what's left inside | |
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some women who are married or have partners to help care for their children don't have a choice but to be a working mom. Sure being an at home mom helps you be there for your kids, and eliminates babysitting/day care bills....but if there isn't enough income, then the woman has to work. And unless your husband or boyfriend makes enough to support you and the kids, thats a lot of pressure to put on one person to be bringing in the bread.
Me personally, i'd rather be a working mom. I will forever love and miss you...my sweet Prince. | |
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missfee said: some women who are married or have partners to help care for their children don't have a choice but to be a working mom. Sure being an at home mom helps you be there for your kids, and eliminates babysitting/day care bills....but if there isn't enough income, then the woman has to work. And unless your husband or boyfriend makes enough to support you and the kids, thats a lot of pressure to put on one person to be bringing in the bread.
Me personally, i'd rather be a working mom. Plus, with the divorce rate as high as it is, women SHOULD have some sort of income no matter what. But that's just MHO. | |
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gemini13 said: missfee said: some women who are married or have partners to help care for their children don't have a choice but to be a working mom. Sure being an at home mom helps you be there for your kids, and eliminates babysitting/day care bills....but if there isn't enough income, then the woman has to work. And unless your husband or boyfriend makes enough to support you and the kids, thats a lot of pressure to put on one person to be bringing in the bread.
Me personally, i'd rather be a working mom. Plus, with the divorce rate as high as it is, women SHOULD have some sort of income no matter what. But that's just MHO. Yeah def. I have conflicting opinions with this, and its something I struggle with. Because on one hand I DO want to teach my daughter not to depend on a man for ANYTHING, but at the same time I feel like that is telling her....Don't have faith in your marriage, plan for failure....yanno? I've reached in darkness and come out with treasure
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TotalANXiousNESS said: gemini13 said: Plus, with the divorce rate as high as it is, women SHOULD have some sort of income no matter what. But that's just MHO. Yeah def. I have conflicting opinions with this, and its something I struggle with. Because on one hand I DO want to teach my daughter not to depend on a man for ANYTHING, but at the same time I feel like that is telling her....Don't have faith in your marriage, plan for failure....yanno? | |
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Lothan said: TotalANXiousNESS said: Yeah def. I have conflicting opinions with this, and its something I struggle with. Because on one hand I DO want to teach my daughter not to depend on a man for ANYTHING, but at the same time I feel like that is telling her....Don't have faith in your marriage, plan for failure....yanno? True. Very true. She does need to learn how to be independent. I've reached in darkness and come out with treasure
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gemini13 said: missfee said: some women who are married or have partners to help care for their children don't have a choice but to be a working mom. Sure being an at home mom helps you be there for your kids, and eliminates babysitting/day care bills....but if there isn't enough income, then the woman has to work. And unless your husband or boyfriend makes enough to support you and the kids, thats a lot of pressure to put on one person to be bringing in the bread.
Me personally, i'd rather be a working mom. Plus, with the divorce rate as high as it is, women SHOULD have some sort of income no matter what. But that's just MHO. true yes, especially with how men can change so easily after marrying them, you better have something saved up on the side. Some men won't even pay for a divorce because some are just selfish like that. That's another reason why i will always work hard for mine, it doesn't mean that i won't have faith in my husband, but it will mean that i have a back up plan just in case things don't work out. I will forever love and miss you...my sweet Prince. | |
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