hokie1 said:

Yeah, my goal in life is to annoy someone I could care two fucks about. Get a clue



Smooches;)

hokie1 said:

Kiss my ass. If you don't like it, move along


Smooches;)

Once again someone was looking for a little bit of help and advice and it turns into a word brawl . veronikka you kid knows you love them and you are doing your best as a single mom. Your child will look back in pride to see how much they were loved and provided for.

MsMisha319 said:

I would like to award you the "Class Act" of the Year at the org award. Your intelligent and insightful posts have put you on a level we all continually strive to reach.

CONGRATULATIONS!!!!!

hokie1 said:

Whatever



Smooches;)

EverSoulicious said:

Sometimes, the Org ain't the place for that.

But sewriously, all we can ever do is the best we can. There are no manuals that come with our kids and a lot of it is trial and error. No one can say to Veronikka if she is a good or bad parent. Ultimately, she will have to answer that for herself. Even better, ask her kids. I used to feel guilty about working so much but I asked my oldest what he thought and he thinks the world of his mom so whatever everyone else says goes right out the window.

Lothan said:

very true

I'm sorry Veronikka for using Ms. Misha as my puching bag. You are the sweetest girl and I have no doubt that you are a wonderful mother and that your daughter loves you dearly.

hokie1 said:

You didn't


In the end, like many have said, you have to do what's best for you and your family. You can't get upset because someone feels that what you are doing is not right. There will always be people like that. I enjoyed the two years I stayed home with my kid. But I would not do it again if I had another. My Choice.

Veronikka, you do what you feel is best. Don't feel guilty for anything. Your kid will love you regardless.



Smooches;)

MsMisha319 said:

I did.

Chilled Misha is much more fun than hostile Misha.

MsMisha319 said:

This sentence is hilarious.

hokie1 said:

I'm chill. I am

It's just that this topic gets people amped and argumentative because we all feel a certain way.


to everyone!


Smooches;)

MsMisha319 said:

Back at you.

And now I just read the rest of the thread.

Girl, your flippin out.....whats withthe attitude??

I don't care if you mop your floor or not, work or stay at home. It was just obvious that you had some animosity towards SAHM's.

And I called you on it, because I actually take pride in being a stay at home mom.

Just like I'm sure you take pride in your work.



You Classy Ass Potty Mouth.

TotalANXiousNESS said:

You crack me up.

Oh, I gotta go stop sitting on my ass being on the org. I need to find a mop or something.

TotalANXiousNESS said:

It's over. You are late


Thanks for the compliment



Smooches;)

MsMisha319 said:

I'm not late for anything. I was responding to what you had to say to me, and thats all.

TotalANXiousNESS said:

Oh.my.god.

JustErin said:

Don't be so shallow, they might even become president of the USA !

One4All4Ever said:

You didn't read her signature did you?

and @ Stay-at-home moms
and @ working moms

As long as the comes from your heart, your children will take what they get and become good human beings regardless ...

and ... errr ... what with daddies ?

hokie1 said:

I did ... I know it by heart actually ...

people always have a tendency to get worked up over this subject. right now i'm a stay at home mom, but i prefer to work because of financial and outside interests. i like being at home also because i have more time with my kids and my house. both have their pluses and minuses.

heybaby said:

you can only give 100% if you feel 100% ... the same goes for dads however ...

TotalANXiousNESS said:

Oh god, oh god, oh god....

I can't do it. You're so lucky I love you.

I was a stay at home mom until my son was a year and a half. I wish I could stay home with him until he is school age.

I don't give a shit what others say about the choices I have made in regards to staying home/working and being a single mom. I have an amazing son and I like to think that I had something to do with that and that's all I care about - me and him.

JustErin said:

truly ...

One4All4Ever said:

See, I'm not so shallow after all.

JustErin said:

I already knew u weren't ... I've devoured ur every post

as a man I am humbled with the devotion and (I don't find a word for that) that
most woman can care for children. As a father of three (someone start a male spinoff of this thread) I can only admit that I can only reach upto the ankles of these women ... ... All we can do is our very best ...

Now I've said it ...

JustErin said:

Erin, what is your son's name. If you don't mind saying. I just think he's the cutest. I need to meet you and see how you are in person. I'd love to see you interacting with your son. I think some people joke that you are uncaring and brash, but I know that you love your son. I can just tell by the way you speak about him.

Of course you had something to do with him being amazing. You're his mother. I really wish people would just get off the whole Stay at Home VS. Working. At the end of the day all that matters is that you love your child.

My mother worked full time when I was growing up and I never felt she didn't love me. She was always there for me even if she had to go without to do it. Mothers rock.