independent and unofficial
Prince fan community
Welcome! Sign up or enter username and password to remember me
Forum jump
Forums > General Discussion > Are you someone who had no idea they were gay?
« Previous topic  Next topic »
Page 2 of 6 <123456>
  New topic   Printable     (Log in to 'subscribe' to this topic)
Reply #30 posted 08/13/07 1:51pm

HamsterHuey

Imago said:

It would be kind of cool having a male friend who only wanted to suck me off or lick my ass from time to time, with none of the emotional baggage.


Thing is, you can only do that as an one night stand, or it would become an emotional thing immediately.

I mean, I can only stick my tongue up the ass of the man I love, you know?





giggle

Yer just too cute. You were made to be hunted and tied down, Dan.
  - E-mail - orgNote - Report post to moderator
Reply #31 posted 08/13/07 1:51pm

MIGUELGOMEZ

Imago said:

HamsterHuey said:

I knew the first moment I fell in love. Defining moment, as I never had given it any thought. Well, not consiously anyways.

What happens to me alot is that I am attracted to non-feminine, straight acting guys and therefor often find myself in the position that married men hit on me, or feel comfortable enough around me to experiment.

Or to ASK me to experiment.

Some people just want an experience and do not want to be labeled; loads of men with gay tendencies end up married. It's just their own preconceived notion of what a gay man should be, I suppose. They think we're all Jacks (from Will And Grace sitcom) and then get confused when they meet guys not conformed to that stereotype.

I had a lengthy fling with a self-described heterosexual. He would start relationships with girls and as soon as he broke up, he came running to me. I did not mind (HOT fellow) and tried to help him define what it was that made him describe himself as straight, while making out with me.
He had the cutest way of describing it; "Herman, I am just gay for you." In the end I cut the recurring theme, as I liked him too much and we were becoming friends and I did not want to lose that.
He's now married, two kids and his wife knows about me. Funny thing, that. We tease him relentlesly.


That's hot.


It would be kind of cool having a male friend who only wanted to suck me off or lick my ass from time to time, with none of the emotional baggage.



Um.....er.....yeah.....um.....

"How you doin'?"
MyeternalgrattitudetoPhil&Val.Herman said "We want sweaty truckers at the truck stop! We want cigar puffing men that look like they wanna beat the living daylights out of us" Val"sporking is spooning with benefits"
  - E-mail - orgNote - Report post to moderator
Reply #32 posted 08/13/07 1:51pm

Imago

MIGUELGOMEZ said:

Imago said:



That's hot.


It would be kind of cool having a male friend who only wanted to suck me off or lick my ass from time to time, with none of the emotional baggage.



Um.....er.....yeah.....um.....

"How you doin'?"

boff
  - E-mail - orgNote - Report post to moderator
Reply #33 posted 08/13/07 1:52pm

RodeoSchro

MIGUELGOMEZ said:

Imago said:




falloff



They can go into all kinds of dangerous situations but can't handle some sexual remarks out on the street.

Well at least now they know how women feel when (and I'm not saying they all do this) they whistle at women or ogle their bodies.

I don't know how I feel about the chief making them be in the parade though.


The fire department promised a firetruck for the parade. These guys just happened to be on duty when the parade was scheduled.

It's no different than a firetruck being in the Little League parade.
  - E-mail - orgNote - Report post to moderator
Reply #34 posted 08/13/07 1:52pm

Imago

HamsterHuey said:

Imago said:

It would be kind of cool having a male friend who only wanted to suck me off or lick my ass from time to time, with none of the emotional baggage.


Thing is, you can only do that as an one night stand, or it would become an emotional thing immediately.

I mean, I can only stick my tongue up the ass of the man I love, you know?





giggle

Yer just too cute. You were made to be hunted and tied down, Dan.


boff
  - E-mail - orgNote - Report post to moderator
Reply #35 posted 08/13/07 1:52pm

MIGUELGOMEZ

Imago said:

MIGUELGOMEZ said:




Um.....er.....yeah.....um.....

"How you doin'?"

boff



I would probably sound like one of those cat's that has a hairball after the said event.

"...hhhhh"

lol
[Edited 8/13/07 13:53pm]
MyeternalgrattitudetoPhil&Val.Herman said "We want sweaty truckers at the truck stop! We want cigar puffing men that look like they wanna beat the living daylights out of us" Val"sporking is spooning with benefits"
  - E-mail - orgNote - Report post to moderator
Reply #36 posted 08/13/07 1:53pm

Imago

RodeoSchro said:

MIGUELGOMEZ said:




They can go into all kinds of dangerous situations but can't handle some sexual remarks out on the street.

Well at least now they know how women feel when (and I'm not saying they all do this) they whistle at women or ogle their bodies.

I don't know how I feel about the chief making them be in the parade though.


The fire department promised a firetruck for the parade. These guys just happened to be on duty when the parade was scheduled.

It's no different than a firetruck being in the Little League parade.


little leagers rub their genitals and make lude remarks? omfg
  - E-mail - orgNote - Report post to moderator
Reply #37 posted 08/13/07 1:54pm

HamsterHuey

RodeoSchro said:

Highlights from the affidavits


What was the problem? That they were made to ride on a parade while being straight? Only sissies would be affected by this; men that are sure of who and what they are would have OR refused OR just went along with it without giving it a second thought. What are they monaing about? It's their freaking job.
  - E-mail - orgNote - Report post to moderator
Reply #38 posted 08/13/07 1:54pm

Imago

MIGUELGOMEZ said:

Imago said:


boff



I would probably sound like one of those cat's that has a hairball after the said event.

"...hhhhh"

lol
[Edited 8/13/07 13:53pm]

How did you know I was that hairy confuse


eek
  - E-mail - orgNote - Report post to moderator
Reply #39 posted 08/13/07 1:55pm

HamsterHuey

Imago said:

MIGUELGOMEZ said:




I would probably sound like one of those cat's that has a hairball after the said event.

"...hhhhh"

lol
[Edited 8/13/07 13:53pm]

How did you know I was that hairy confuse


eek


I showed him the pictures.
  - E-mail - orgNote - Report post to moderator
Reply #40 posted 08/13/07 1:55pm

MIGUELGOMEZ

Imago said:

MIGUELGOMEZ said:




I would probably sound like one of those cat's that has a hairball after the said event.

"...hhhhh"

lol
[Edited 8/13/07 13:53pm]

How did you know I was that hairy confuse


eek



whistling


You told me!!!! And then there's that picture.....


I kid, I kid. eek Is there a picture?.....
MyeternalgrattitudetoPhil&Val.Herman said "We want sweaty truckers at the truck stop! We want cigar puffing men that look like they wanna beat the living daylights out of us" Val"sporking is spooning with benefits"
  - E-mail - orgNote - Report post to moderator
Reply #41 posted 08/13/07 1:55pm

Imago

HamsterHuey said:

RodeoSchro said:

Highlights from the affidavits


What was the problem? That they were made to ride on a parade while being straight? Only sissies would be affected by this; men that are sure of who and what they are would have OR refused OR just went along with it without giving it a second thought. What are they monaing about? It's their freaking job.



I'm pretty sure there was a great deal of homophobia involved but the citizens at the parade also said lewed remarks to them. Not all men take those as compliments coming from other men you know. lol
]
  - E-mail - orgNote - Report post to moderator
Reply #42 posted 08/13/07 1:56pm

Imago

HamsterHuey said:

Imago said:


How did you know I was that hairy confuse


eek


I showed him the pictures.

falloff





shhh
  - E-mail - orgNote - Report post to moderator
Reply #43 posted 08/13/07 1:56pm

HamsterHuey

Imago said:

Not all men take those as compliments coming from other men you know. lol


Just file under 'occupational hazard' and bang yer wife a little harder when you get home. Please.
  - E-mail - orgNote - Report post to moderator
Reply #44 posted 08/13/07 1:56pm

MIGUELGOMEZ

Imago said:

HamsterHuey said:



I showed him the pictures.

falloff





shhh




HOLD UP.....WAIT A MINUTE.....
MyeternalgrattitudetoPhil&Val.Herman said "We want sweaty truckers at the truck stop! We want cigar puffing men that look like they wanna beat the living daylights out of us" Val"sporking is spooning with benefits"
  - E-mail - orgNote - Report post to moderator
Reply #45 posted 08/13/07 2:11pm

RodeoSchro

Imago said:

RodeoSchro said:



The fire department promised a firetruck for the parade. These guys just happened to be on duty when the parade was scheduled.

It's no different than a firetruck being in the Little League parade.


little leagers rub their genitals and make lude remarks? omfg


Well, not at firefighters. Mostly at each other.
  - E-mail - orgNote - Report post to moderator
Reply #46 posted 08/13/07 2:18pm

SupaFunkyOrgan
grinderSexy

avatar

Imago said:

MIGUELGOMEZ said:

Me? I've been gay all my life. I used to flirt and fall in love every five seconds when I was 5 years old.

Chuck was his name.....*sigh*

I did mess around with girls for a while. Then at 15-16 years old I came out.

Google Vida Guerra. I guarantee you'll have a a flashing hetero moment if you do.

I can't STAND her barf She gives me the serious creeps with that silicone injectioned ass lol
2010: Healing the Wounds of the Past.... http://prince.org/msg/8/325740
  - E-mail - orgNote - Report post to moderator
Reply #47 posted 08/13/07 2:20pm

INSATIABLE

avatar

SupaFunkyOrgangrinderSexy said:

Imago said:


Google Vida Guerra. I guarantee you'll have a a flashing hetero moment if you do.

I can't STAND her barf She gives me the serious creeps with that silicone injectioned ass lol

lol Agreed. It makes me want to call her doctor and get some antibiotics for her. Her ass looks like it's infected. ill

Not that I don't enjoy The Ass, mind you.
Oh shit, my hat done fell off
  - E-mail - orgNote - Report post to moderator
Reply #48 posted 08/13/07 2:23pm

Teacher

I know this: I always liked to shock people when I was a kid/in my teens. Therefore, without ever having been in love with or had a crush on another girl, I stated quite loudly one night at the youth center: "I believe that everybody, I mean EVERYBODY, is at the very least bisexual." As I said it I realised it was true, I DID believe that and I still do. First time I had a crush on another woman was my friend Åsa in high school, she'd cut her hair off and her new hairdo was sooooo cute mushy A few years later I was purely sexually attracted to another woman, it wasn't any different than when I've felt that way for men... but I've never dated or had sex with another woman, yet. Like Dan, I hatehatehate labels when it comes to love/sex, it's a waste of time and energy.

But to answer your question - I didn't really KNOW I was bisexual until I had the crush on Åsa but I never sweated it either.
  - E-mail - orgNote - Report post to moderator
Reply #49 posted 08/13/07 2:24pm

hokie1

SupaFunkyOrgangrinderSexy said:

hokie1 said:

Me? I'm totally straight, but I had no idea you were gay!!! eek

Well you're a gorgeously well-endowed minx and they are generally confused nod



lol I have the brains to go along with the hotness. nod
  - E-mail - orgNote - Report post to moderator
Reply #50 posted 08/13/07 3:05pm

IstenSzek

avatar

Imago said:

Albeit a straight acting gay man, such was his self-loathing that he was able to control his mannerisms.


no no no!

i like to think that i have like on a scale of 1 to 10, about 1.5 gay
mannerisms' and it's not like i'm able to control them lol i just was
not born with them.

probably the only thing that really gives me away as being gay is
the fact that i can be found on my knees sucking dick sometimes smile
and true love lives on lollipops and crisps
  - E-mail - orgNote - Report post to moderator
Reply #51 posted 08/13/07 3:08pm

horatio

IstenSzek said:

Imago said:

Albeit a straight acting gay man, such was his self-loathing that he was able to control his mannerisms.


no no no!

i like to think that i have like on a scale of 1 to 10, about 1.5 gay
mannerisms' and it's not like i'm able to control them lol i just was
not born with them.

probably the only thing that really gives me away as being gay is
the fact that i can be found on my knees sucking dick sometimes smile


I see wwwaaay too many men who who identify as straight having very gay mannerisms.
So I dont think its so 'gay'. Its just people being people.
  - E-mail - orgNote - Report post to moderator
Reply #52 posted 08/13/07 3:09pm

IstenSzek

avatar

SupaFunkyOrgangrinderSexy said:

Are you someone who didn't figure out you were gay until you were an adult? This concept is so foreign to me as I have known I was gay since I was 4. nod How do you not know what you are feeling? I mean straight people never say they didn't realize they were straight until they were in college.

If you are one of these people, can you explain how you didn't know? Did you just not know what to call it but you had same sex attraction all along or did you not have same sex attraction and then one day you did? I am pretty sure the org clan had little to no confusion as to what was going on with themselves lol If you did, I'm interested to hear your thoughts smile



there's this guy i know vaguely who lives around the block and him and
a friend of mine (with who'm he's better acquainted) were having lunch
one day and he was telling his story about how he's been married over,
like, 15 years and has 2 kids and now he's divorced his wife because -
as he puts it - he started to have gay feelings and he felt that he'd
have to do the right thing and divorce first and then find out if his
feelings for guys were real.

i mean what.the.fuckety.fuck?

i just don't buy that. and i told him. he just listened and was like
'it's true, i never had any idea'.

i still don't believe it though. really, there's denial and there's
being so far back in the closet you're in fucking Narnia, as
a british sitcom once put it lol.
and true love lives on lollipops and crisps
  - E-mail - orgNote - Report post to moderator
Reply #53 posted 08/13/07 3:11pm

IstenSzek

avatar

horatio said:

IstenSzek said:



no no no!

i like to think that i have like on a scale of 1 to 10, about 1.5 gay
mannerisms' and it's not like i'm able to control them lol i just was
not born with them.

probably the only thing that really gives me away as being gay is
the fact that i can be found on my knees sucking dick sometimes smile


I see wwwaaay too many men who who identify as straight having very gay mannerisms.
So I dont think its so 'gay'. Its just people being people.


but then what would you consider a gay mannerism? i mean, i talk to these
guys who are like "omg, and then i was like 29 and i still hadn't told my
parents i'm gay and i just did not know how to tell them they were like -
totally - unaware"

all this in high heeled space boots smoking a cigarillo sipping spritzer

falloff

i mean, don't get me wrong, i think that's totally cool but indeed, it's
not very manly either lol.
and true love lives on lollipops and crisps
  - E-mail - orgNote - Report post to moderator
Reply #54 posted 08/13/07 3:14pm

CarrieMpls

Ex-Moderator

avatar

IstenSzek said:

SupaFunkyOrgangrinderSexy said:

Are you someone who didn't figure out you were gay until you were an adult? This concept is so foreign to me as I have known I was gay since I was 4. nod How do you not know what you are feeling? I mean straight people never say they didn't realize they were straight until they were in college.

If you are one of these people, can you explain how you didn't know? Did you just not know what to call it but you had same sex attraction all along or did you not have same sex attraction and then one day you did? I am pretty sure the org clan had little to no confusion as to what was going on with themselves lol If you did, I'm interested to hear your thoughts smile



there's this guy i know vaguely who lives around the block and him and
a friend of mine (with who'm he's better acquainted) were having lunch
one day and he was telling his story about how he's been married over,
like, 15 years and has 2 kids and now he's divorced his wife because -
as he puts it - he started to have gay feelings and he felt that he'd
have to do the right thing and divorce first and then find out if his
feelings for guys were real.

i mean what.the.fuckety.fuck?

i just don't buy that. and i told him. he just listened and was like
'it's true, i never had any idea'.

i still don't believe it though. really, there's denial and there's
being so far back in the closet you're in fucking Narnia, as
a british sitcom once put it lol.


I tend to agree. I think it's like the women you hear about who show up at the hospital complaining of cramping and deliver a baby, claiming they had no idea they were pregnant.

COME! ON!!!!

It's just not possible to not know. You'd truly have to be in an insane state of denial with major emotional/psychological issues. And STILL somewhere in the back of your mind you refuse to look at you'd know.

Now, I think it's one thing to be curious about the sexuality you don't mainly identify with. But overall, you just know.
  - E-mail - orgNote - Report post to moderator
Reply #55 posted 08/13/07 3:22pm

Imago

IstenSzek said:

Imago said:

Albeit a straight acting gay man, such was his self-loathing that he was able to control his mannerisms.


no no no!

i like to think that i have like on a scale of 1 to 10, about 1.5 gay
mannerisms' and it's not like i'm able to control them lol i just was
not born with them.

probably the only thing that really gives me away as being gay is
the fact that i can be found on my knees sucking dick sometimes smile



Yes, I understand.

But he was suppressing his feminine side. One way that I could tell was when he would see my sister's cat he'd slip into this prissy little "Missy missy adrian" cat voice that was adorably gay as hell. lol



I'm a hardcore badass. I'm like so masculine half the time it's not even funny.
  - E-mail - orgNote - Report post to moderator
Reply #56 posted 08/13/07 3:24pm

SaraWright10

avatar

veronikka said:

I had a very good friend in high school who I had no idea was gay, well kida some of his mannerisms made me question him. He wa supposedly very in love with me during high school and even stopped talking to me because I would not be his girlfriend, he didn't want to be just friends. Well my aunt just saw him at a wedding a few months ago and he was dating a guy confused
[Edited 8/13/07 13:10pm]



I understand this..
My best guy friend right now has always been accused of being gay. Since he was in fourth grade. But he stood by saying he WAS NOT gay and he dated girls.. ONLY girls. Finally this year in January, he came out as "bi sexual" I'm fine with it and am perfectly okay with him telling me the boys he likes and other things. He tells me though, He is Gay. Yet, as gay as he is and believe me he is gay, he has the biggest crush on me. Literally, he likes me so much and talks about us dating and stuff and how pretty I am and how he wants to be with me. He also gets upset when I insist on telling him that it will never happen because in my eyes it won't.. So as gay as he is, there's still part of him that isn't.. If that makes sense?

So what I don't really understand is.. is there a way to tell for sure if you are fully gay? or what makes it so hard to decide? I mean no matter what age.


sorry if im off topic sad
  - E-mail - orgNote - Report post to moderator
Reply #57 posted 08/13/07 3:27pm

IstenSzek

avatar

Imago said:


I'm a hardcore badass. I'm like so masculine half the time it's not even funny.


i bet you could take 2 dicks at once and not bet an eye, you bad mf

smile
and true love lives on lollipops and crisps
  - E-mail - orgNote - Report post to moderator
Reply #58 posted 08/13/07 3:29pm

Imago

IstenSzek said:

Imago said:


I'm a hardcore badass. I'm like so masculine half the time it's not even funny.


i bet you could take 2 dicks at once and not bet an eye, you bad mf

smile


Fuck me Lars. I'm waiting.
  - E-mail - orgNote - Report post to moderator
Reply #59 posted 08/13/07 3:29pm

heybaby

IstenSzek said:

Imago said:


I'm a hardcore badass. I'm like so masculine half the time it's not even funny.


i bet you could take 2 dicks at once and not bet an eye, you bad mf

smile


lol
  - E-mail - orgNote - Report post to moderator
Page 2 of 6 <123456>
  New topic   Printable     (Log in to 'subscribe' to this topic)
« Previous topic  Next topic »
Forums > General Discussion > Are you someone who had no idea they were gay?