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PrintableuPtoWnNY said: Flowerz said: we're not saying you 'cant' change... it's that "YOU WON'T" (not u personally) .. sorry, but i have to agree there that some guys just 'will not' give up their ways .. and it puts a strain on the relationship cause then the woman is suppose to 'put up' with garbage (if she chooses to) .. all for the sake of stubborness .. I'm one of those cats who refuses to change, but I make sure to tell women that up front. This is who I am, and if you can accept it, fine. If not, we can just stay friends. I've learned the hard way not to be so trusting in my relationships. I've been burned by being too nice a guy. I've always treated women like I treated my mother(RIP), but some took advantage of that. lemme just say that there were some things about my hubby that I didn't realize in the beginning were going to be an issue ( I guess more with me than him) however once we were married and had a real heart to heart discussion about some things, he has changed some of his previous lifestyle ways, not that they were physically harmful to me, but they were mentally stressful, and really rougher on him than he was willing to admit for a while., but all in all it has worked out in the end and things are soooo much better in that particular aspect! Because of God..we 2 r 1~~Darren & Suzyn forever
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hisfan4ever said: lemme just say that there were some things about my hubby that I didn't realize in the beginning were going to be an issue ( I guess more with me than him) however once we were married and had a real heart to heart discussion about some things, he has changed some of his previous lifestyle ways, not that they were physically harmful to me, but they were mentally stressful, and really rougher on him than he was willing to admit for a while., but all in all it has worked out in the end and things are soooo much better in that particular aspect!
My thing is, I'm not a sociable person. There are days I don't want to deal with(or call) anyone, including family. This is especially true during football season. Some women take that personally. |
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uPtoWnNY said: hisfan4ever said: lemme just say that there were some things about my hubby that I didn't realize in the beginning were going to be an issue ( I guess more with me than him) however once we were married and had a real heart to heart discussion about some things, he has changed some of his previous lifestyle ways, not that they were physically harmful to me, but they were mentally stressful, and really rougher on him than he was willing to admit for a while., but all in all it has worked out in the end and things are soooo much better in that particular aspect!
My thing is, I'm not a sociable person. There are days I don't want to deal with(or call) anyone, including family. This is especially true during football season. Some women take that personally. ..my 2nd ex hubby was a major football fan, and it's not that that was an issue, but good grief at some of the stuff I tolerated then..but my hubby now, it was more of let's say "personal" issues..but nothing we haven't worked through together and benefited from immensely. Because of God..we 2 r 1~~Darren & Suzyn forever
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wlcm2thdwn said: For me it's not to plug too many sockets into one outlet. Ouch!
[Edited 8/6/07 13:34pm] Don't plug an american blow dryer into a European one no matter how much you spent on the converter!  | |
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my ideal woman doesn't exist. | |
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Calligraphy said: my ideal woman doesn't exist.
Well, she may not be what you have listed in your mind but yes, she indeed does exist! | |
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Muse2NOPharaoh said: Calligraphy said: my ideal woman doesn't exist.
Well, she may not be what you have listed in your mind but yes, she indeed does exist! Keeping alive hope.  | |
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Calligraphy said: Muse2NOPharaoh said: Well, she may not be what you have listed in your mind but yes, she indeed does exist! Keeping alive hope. I was not attempting that.... ( I know you meant you) I am just right about this... one day, there she will be and you dear Sir will NOT know what hit you. That and I have got 5 that says she will not be exactly as you have fashioned her.  | |
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Muse2NOPharaoh said: Calligraphy said: Keeping alive hope. I was not attempting that.... ( I know you meant you) I am just right about this... one day, there she will be and you dear Sir will NOT know what hit you. That and I have got 5 that says she will not be exactly as you have fashioned her. Muse just put her five on it. 
Thanks, M.  I believe you. | |
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