shanti0608 said:

I have the Thieves insturmental remix (brotha with a purpose), Let's Work remix, and New World on rotation with RATM, Soundgarden, and Alice in Chains....its a miracle I haven't broken anything.....and now if I add P control, I'm gonna hurt myself tomorrow.....

....god I love being 40.....

Imago said:

and let's not forget mullet control.

So.....considering it's a "fashion mullet", do you pronounce it all french-like as in ballet or do you stick to the american pronunciatio?

JasmineFire said:

no...his official designation becomes Mullettor.....

reneGade20 said:

My fashion mullet is standing at the position of attention.

JasmineFire said:

I use an american accent but with a slight lisp.


Fathon mulleth.

Imago said:

JasmineFire said:

Fathon mulleth Fathon mulleth Fathon mulleth!

Imago said:

I'm so never calling you "donk".

mdiver said:

Dude, I don't even have friends.

JustErin said:

CarrieMpls said:

Exactly! So truthfully most males and females fall into their basic modus operandi.... most times it does come up but if handled well often its put away with and in my experience, both sides leak it out at some vulnerable point or other and it fades to dark a day later....

Muse2NOPharaoh said:

my thoughts as well.

JustErin said:

I wanted to be your friend.

But.

Your....

Cold

Canadian

And Cyber Fucking my org crush.

CarrieMpls said:

Muse2NOPharaoh said:

Ideally, thats the way one always hopes for these kinds of things to be handled...

on the flip side, sometimes the one lets it out more as a revelation than a leak....and you're sitting there with the "whofuckedtheneighborscat" look on your face....knowing that your friendship has just been flushed down the shitter.....

Do you believe straight men and women can truly have a platonic relationship?

Yes I do

Most of my closest best freinds are Male - straight, and I in no way want to bone them

not to say that I don't have male friends I would like to bone though

yep, my best friend ralph and I are proof of that. sure in the past we both thought about it, but neither of us want it to destroy the friendship we have.

sure, occasionally.

CarrieMpls said:

However, everybody is different and there is no right or wrong answer to your question simply due to fact that we're all human ( well most of us online ). Sometime Love can happen when you least expect it b/c there's no rhyme or reason to it and nature will take its course when its meant to be.

CarrieMpls said:

Yes, I can!

SnakePeel said:

Yes.

horatio said:

No.

Phantasmagoria said:

Yes.

CarrieMpls said:

All my female friends are hot. I'm very shallow.

MsLegs said:

Agreed and with SnakePeel too...I think it happens more when people who are friends are already attracted to each other on the onset of the friendship in some way….then yes, it will develop into something else just as it would with any other person they’re attracted to. It’s definitely probable to happen when one has a friend that is everything or have most qualities they’re already attracted to or what have you in a person. What happens or how it plays out after that depends on the persons involved, their level of honesty with themselves, their friend, and many other things. It’s not complicated but then it’s not simple either nothing about human attraction, emotion or love ever is.

The sad thing and down side is when you lose a true friend and friendship which in itself is hard to find... because they love you or you love them or it’s become more for the other and not both. It’s sorta crazy if you really look at it because that’s what everyone wants or is looking for…a love or to love someone who is also their friend...it's crazy I tell ya
[Edited 8/5/07 13:05pm]

I think it's absolutely possible.
Women and Men can be friends without anything else.


I have tons of guy friends.. most of who I would never even think about that.

TotalANXiousNESS said:

it will just be a bigger mullet then.


I like it.
The new mullet looks good on some guys in a rebllious jackass looking kind of way.





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[Edited 8/5/07 12:44pm]

Wow, this is a long thread and I can't be bothered to read it all, but I'll give my two cents anyway.

In my personal experience there is only one female friend where there is absolutely no romantic/sexual tension whatsoever and that is a girl I've practically grown up with. Our parents are long-time friends and since we're almost the same age we've basically known each other our whole lives and regard each other as a bonus sibling or at least a friend so old that nothing even slightly superficial matters anymore.

I guess our friendship is proof that it's possible to "just be friends", but it's also pretty amazing that out of all the friendships I've had and still have with females, it is the only one completely without romantic/sexual tension. In all the others, even if there is just a slight hint of it, there has still been a spark there. Usually it's not something that we need to act upon (although at other times it is...) but it's there nonetheless and I'm sure that on some subconscious level it is affecting the way we relate to each other.

retina said:

to paraphrase chris rock

a platonic friend is just a dick in glass case!















im j/k