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PrintableCarrieMpls said: Imago said: Yeah. More routinely. I can see that.  And I think there's a great deal of truth to what you said.
But I also see guys who only become friends/bother getting to know women they find attractive (i.e. want to bone) more often than not... That's happening here on the org too
Guys do it to feed their egos. Not because they're seeking genuine friendship. That's not to say that we don't like genuine friendships--but it's not the primary factor when making friends with good looking women. Where women mistaken charm for sincerity, guys mistaken beauty for all manner of things, to include charm and sincerity. i think you break out of it to a larger extend in your late 20s though. At least I did. Though I prefer my male friends to be hot. I hate it when I hear girls say, I feel he really understands me, or he really knows how I feel, etc. etc. I always think, Bitch please--if you looked like me in drag, he wouldn't even talk to you. buys-to-guys edit. Buy-curious Freudian slip edit [Edited 8/5/07 6:51am] | |
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reneGade20 said: Imago said: Yes.
But the problem is that women always mistaken charm for sincerity. I don't meant that men don't genuinely care for their female friends, but men have this incredible urge to be charming. I think women have this equal urge to be "charmed" and view it at least subconsciously as a courtship ritual. This of course, allows the most charming guys to be complete assholes and still get away with it.  one more word out of you and you're out of the Man Fraternity.....
I've said it once, and I'll say it again. If we had been friends in the military at the same time, we'd get into a mess of trouble. | |
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Imago said: I hate it when I hear girls say, I feel he really understands me, or he really knows how I feel, etc. etc. I always think, Bitch please--if you looked like me in drag, he wouldn't even talk to you. Thats.....just.....scary..... 
....hold me....  He was like a cock who thought the sun had risen to hear him crow.
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Imago said: CarrieMpls said: I can see that. And I think there's a great deal of truth to what you said.
But I also see guys who only become friends/bother getting to know women they find attractive (i.e. want to bone) more often than not... That's happening here on the org too
Guys do it to feed their egos. Not because they're seeking genuine friendship. That's not to say that we don't like genuine friendships--but it's not the primary factor when making friends with good looking women. Where women mistaken charm for sincerity, buys mistaken beauty for all manner of things, to include charm and sincerity. i think you break out of it to a larger extend in your late 20s though. At least I did. Though I prefer my male friends to be hot. I hate it when I hear girls say, I feel he really understands me, or he really knows how I feel, etc. etc. I always think, Bitch please--if you looked like me in drag, he wouldn't even talk to you.  That is it...I am NOT believing anything anyone says to me here except Cloudy  | |
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Imago said: CarrieMpls said: I can see that. And I think there's a great deal of truth to what you said.
But I also see guys who only become friends/bother getting to know women they find attractive (i.e. want to bone) more often than not... That's happening here on the org too
Guys do it to feed their egos. Not because they're seeking genuine friendship. That's not to say that we don't like genuine friendships--but it's not the primary factor when making friends with good looking women. Where women mistaken charm for sincerity, buys mistaken beauty for all manner of things, to include charm and sincerity. i think you break out of it to a larger extend in your late 20s though. At least I did. Though I prefer my male friends to be hot. I hate it when I hear girls say, I feel he really understands me, or he really knows how I feel, etc. etc. I always think, Bitch please--if you looked like me in drag, he wouldn't even talk to you. So the guys just want to bone and the girls fall in love. We really are just products of biology and hallmark after all. |
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Imago said: reneGade20 said: one more word out of you and you're out of the Man Fraternity.....
I've said it once, and I'll say it again. If we had been friends in the military at the same time, we'd get into a mess of trouble. very very true..... 
never too late though.....if you still have your uniforms, and we manage to meet up, we can hang out and revisit the old days..... ....you know, if we'd actually had old days..... 
He was like a cock who thought the sun had risen to hear him crow.
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CarrieMpls said: Imago said: That's happening here on the org too
Guys do it to feed their egos. Not because they're seeking genuine friendship. That's not to say that we don't like genuine friendships--but it's not the primary factor when making friends with good looking women. Where women mistaken charm for sincerity, buys mistaken beauty for all manner of things, to include charm and sincerity. i think you break out of it to a larger extend in your late 20s though. At least I did. Though I prefer my male friends to be hot. I hate it when I hear girls say, I feel he really understands me, or he really knows how I feel, etc. etc. I always think, Bitch please--if you looked like me in drag, he wouldn't even talk to you. So the guys just want to bone and the girls fall in love. We really are just products of biology and hallmark after all. Some times it turns out that the girl wants to bone the guy she falls in love with and the guys falls in love with the girl he wants to bone so it is mutual. But not always | |
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CarrieMpls said: Imago said: That's happening here on the org too
Guys do it to feed their egos. Not because they're seeking genuine friendship. That's not to say that we don't like genuine friendships--but it's not the primary factor when making friends with good looking women. Where women mistaken charm for sincerity, buys mistaken beauty for all manner of things, to include charm and sincerity. i think you break out of it to a larger extend in your late 20s though. At least I did. Though I prefer my male friends to be hot. I hate it when I hear girls say, I feel he really understands me, or he really knows how I feel, etc. etc. I always think, Bitch please--if you looked like me in drag, he wouldn't even talk to you. So the guys just want to bone and the girls fall in love. We really are just products of biology and hallmark after all. to a certain extent, yes. But i have definitely been in situations where the guy has fallen for me and I just wanted to be friends. | |
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reneGade20 said: Imago said: I've said it once, and I'll say it again. If we had been friends in the military at the same time, we'd get into a mess of trouble. very very true.....
never too late though.....if you still have your uniforms, and we manage to meet up, we can hang out and revisit the old days..... ....you know, if we'd actually had old days.....
Two military male PRINCE fans with enough hair products between them to bankrupt the US treasury  is even too much for even this "don't-ask-don't-tell" army. | |
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shanti0608 said: CarrieMpls said: So the guys just want to bone and the girls fall in love. We really are just products of biology and hallmark after all. Some times it turns out that the girl wants to bone the guy she falls in love with and the guys falls in love with the girl he wants to bone so it is mutual. But not always But no one wants to be friends in that sceario. |
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shanti0608 said: CarrieMpls said: So the guys just want to bone and the girls fall in love. We really are just products of biology and hallmark after all. Some times it turns out that the girl wants to bone the guy she falls in love with and the guys falls in love with the girl he wants to bone so it is mutual. But not always Well, I won't get into all the scenarios, but I will say I'm glad that Carrie's threads always so readily gets girls to talk about "boning" in such terms. She has the Midas touch when it comes to these threads you know. | |
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CarrieMpls said: shanti0608 said: Some times it turns out that the girl wants to bone the guy she falls in love with and the guys falls in love with the girl he wants to bone so it is mutual. But not always But no one wants to be friends in that sceario. Well not just friends...I have had just friendly relations with someone that thought they wanted to bone me. Just have to be honest and open up front. boundaries.... | |
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Imago said: shanti0608 said: Some times it turns out that the girl wants to bone the guy she falls in love with and the guys falls in love with the girl he wants to bone so it is mutual. But not always Well, I won't get into all the scenarios, but I will say I'm glad that Carrie's threads always so readily gets girls to talk about "boning" in such terms. She has the Midas touch when it comes to these threads you know. I was just laughing to myself cause I don't think I've ever typed "bone" so much in my life. 
And it's not even a word I would ever really use. |
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shanti0608 said: CarrieMpls said: But no one wants to be friends in that sceario. Well not just friends...I have had just friendly relations with someone that thought they wanted to bone me. Just have to be honest and open up front. boundaries.... I want to bone you  | |
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Imago said: shanti0608 said: Some times it turns out that the girl wants to bone the guy she falls in love with and the guys falls in love with the girl he wants to bone so it is mutual. But not always Well, I won't get into all the scenarios, but I will say I'm glad that Carrie's threads always so readily gets girls to talk about "boning" in such terms. She has the Midas touch when it comes to these threads you know. honestly...it does not take much to get me talking about boning...it is NOT just a guy thing. Though I must admit Carrie has a way of saying it and getting away with it.
She is awesome!  | |
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CarrieMpls said: Imago said: Well, I won't get into all the scenarios, but I will say I'm glad that Carrie's threads always so readily gets girls to talk about "boning" in such terms. She has the Midas touch when it comes to these threads you know. I was just laughing to myself cause I don't think I've ever typed "bone" so much in my life.
And it's not even a word I would ever really use. I still have never referred to me as donk. It's like you hate certain words.  | |
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mdiver said: shanti0608 said: Well not just friends...I have had just friendly relations with someone that thought they wanted to bone me. Just have to be honest and open up front. boundaries.... I want to bone you only the gay guys are allowed to talk to one another about boning each other..if we talk about it - it will gross ppl out!
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shanti0608 said: Imago said: Well, I won't get into all the scenarios, but I will say I'm glad that Carrie's threads always so readily gets girls to talk about "boning" in such terms. She has the Midas touch when it comes to these threads you know. honestly...it does not take much to get me talking about boning...it is NOT just a guy thing. Though I must admit Carrie has a way of saying it and getting away with it.
She is awesome! You just wait--She'll have us all calling it "Scrogging" before long. Guys just want to SCROG, girls just want to be SCROGNASTY. you just wait. | |
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shanti0608 said: That is it...I am NOT believing anything anyone says to me here except Cloudy Leave me out of this. | |
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Imago said: shanti0608 said: honestly...it does not take much to get me talking about boning...it is NOT just a guy thing. Though I must admit Carrie has a way of saying it and getting away with it.
She is awesome! You just wait--She'll have us all calling it "Scrogging" before long. Guys just want to SCROG, girls just want to be SCROGNASTY. you just wait. she could say anything and it would be cool!  [Edited 8/5/07 7:03am] | |
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shanti0608 said: mdiver said: I want to bone you only the gay guys are allowed to talk to one another about boning each other..if we talk about it - it will gross ppl out!
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Cloudbuster said: shanti0608 said: That is it...I am NOT believing anything anyone says to me here except Cloudy Leave me out of this. HELL NO! | |
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Imago said: Two military male PRINCE fans with enough hair products between them to bankrupt the US treasury is even too much for even this "don't-ask-don't-tell" army.
He was like a cock who thought the sun had risen to hear him crow.
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shanti0608 said: Cloudbuster said: Leave me out of this.
HELL NO!  | |
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I wish we had simple courtship rules like these creatures: http://www.stanford.edu/c...adults.jpg [  No bugs on my thread!! - CarrieMpls] | |
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Yes, if both one or both people are ugly. | |
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reneGade20 said: Imago said: Two military male PRINCE fans with enough hair products between them to bankrupt the US treasury is even too much for even this "don't-ask-don't-tell" army.
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Imago said:
I wish we had simple courtship rules like these creatures: http://www.stanford.edu/c...adults.jpg [ No bugs on my thread!! - CarrieMpls]
DAN!!!!! | |
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JustErin said: Yes, if both one or both people are ugly.
No wonder you have never had any issues | |
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JasmineFire said: CarrieMpls said: So the guys just want to bone and the girls fall in love. We really are just products of biology and hallmark after all. to a certain extent, yes. But i have definitely been in situations where the guy has fallen for me and I just wanted to be friends. Yeah, I've seen it happen as well. But I think it probably does go the other way around more often... |
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