yeah i remember 2 this day: i was 14 my mother sat me down in the kitchen, told me point blank..if i were 2 get any girl pregnant, i better pray that the girls father would find me b4 she did! (maybe that's y i don't have kids 2 this very day)

No, but I just had the talk with my 15 and 13 year old

Never had the talk...I was presented a book about what goes where ...as cool as my parents were, that was pretty fuckin' lame...

Thank God they had a copy of "The Joy of Sex" hidden away or I wouldn't have had a clue about sex....

L4OATheOriginal said:

whoa whoa whoa.. wait a minute.. You're a guy!
all this time i thought you were a girl

no talk, why do you think I had a kid at 20?

JerseyKRS said:

You love kids?

Coming from a fundamentalist Christian family, I always thought sex was dirty, bad, gross, and sinful...so of course, I was curious about sex as a kid. I used to read my aunt's Jackie Collins for "the good parts" and would watch "Porky's" just for the boobs. My dad gave me "the talk" when I was 12, but the problem was, everything he told me--from condoms to sperm to eggs--I already knew thanks to the wisdom and knowledge of the kids on the playground.

heybaby said:

Me neither. My mom told me about the monthly cycle, then gave me some books to read. I dunno, back when I was growing up, parents did not seem to be as open to talking about stuff like this as they are now.

jess555ja said:

Ditto.

roodboi said:

great book my parents had penthouse, hussler and playboy hidden in there room

EverSoulicious said:

i can imagine what the 15 year old reaction wise

SaraWright10 said:

what gave u that impression? but yes i'm a pro-creator

L4OATheOriginal said:

He was a little embarrassed at first then had some pretty good questions. He then hugged me and said he was glad he could talk to me and not only his dad. I did tell him girls were the devil though

EverSoulicious said:

oh the days of searching through u'r parents hidden places and the u would make or this xpression . i flipped it on mine when they found my ahem collection of videos..i simply said..well who do u think gave me the idea?

EverSoulicious said:

pre tell y r they the devil?

L4OATheOriginal said:

im not sure.

L4OATheOriginal said:

Because WE ARE!!!!! Why do you think most of my friends are male?

EverSoulicious said:

girls

SaraWright10 said:

it's all good..wait is that a pencil in u'r blouse or u'r just realizing things?

EverSoulicious said:

well most of mine r females ... hmmmmm

theodore said:

that goes 4 mariah, christina and the dixie chicks right?

theodore said:

and don't you forget it

L4OATheOriginal said:

Mine too. But I'm gay so women's feminine wiles bullshit don't work on me. I do stand from afar and laugh at all the dumb men though

EverSoulicious said:

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SupaFunkyOrgangrinderSexy said:

My problems is I think too much like a guy insted of a catty girl (waites for the ass beating )

EverSoulicious said:

Reply to 'Do you remember "the talk"?'

No one ever told me a thing, nothing.
I learned it all from the streets and fucking.


No my parents were too busy being, to tell me anything.

Good thing. I'm a good guesser. Hmmm, that's seems about right.

when my mother had the the talk with my brother when he was 16. yes, I was there, sitting in the kitchen minding my own business, she says to him, "I don't want my grandkids scattered all over the country." my brother has this look and says, "okay" and that was it. while I'm sitting there what does that mean

My mom didn't talk with me about anything, the most she ever said was..You know how you get pregnant don't you?.. and I said yes, even though I wasn't totally sure, I figured it out none the less. BUT I have had several discussions with my 15 yr old daughter about everything that you can possibly think of, and yes I have her on BC, and NO as of right now, she is not sexually active, but knowing how teenagers and their hormones are and seeing how she has had this steady boyfriend for almost a year now, I thought better safe than sorry when the occasion does arise..lol. I want her to enjoy being a teenager, and even though I hope and pray that she waits until she is older before making that decision to give her self to some one so completely I want her to be sure she is ready emotionally, physically and every other way possible. Plus I want her to feel like she can talk to me about anything and everything. I definitely don't want her to be afraid and feel like she can't talk to me, that's not good. And she knows by being on BC that that is not permission to go ahead and have sex...

Yes like we have "the talk" several times a month