I think my mom knows I have sex but she

my mother and I never actually had the talk

Yeah, with my mum. She told me everything - I was fascinated. It ended with me saying "so why do we do it then if it's so painful giving birth?" and my mum said "because sex feels amazing!" then smiled and walked out the room.

From that moment forth I masturbated nightly to pictures of wombs.

Spookymuffin said:

kinda strange..you did not start masterbating becuase you found something actrative(or becuase someone aroused you)..you started masterbating cause you're momma said sex was amazing...CALLING DR FREUD!

Never had the talk.

For some odd reason my mom talks about sex with my older sister. But she pretends I dont know what it is.

weepingwall said:

that last sentence was a joke. It was a good 4-5 years after the talk before I discovered what masturbation was and how FUCKING FANTASTIC it is.

Spookymuffin said:

i was kidding myself lad..you know mutual masturbation is funner(but you didn't heard this from me)

weepingwall said:

Been there, done that.

Spookymuffin said:

well i haven't nor do i plan too! i'm in my morrissey phase..

weepingwall said:

I've done it with girls (although only recently) and boys (the joys of all-boy dormitory schools).

Spookymuffin said:

awww! you get to have all the fun..

weepingwall said:

I regret a lot. But hey, at least I figured out I was straight by doing it.

I remember. It didn't last long. She just said, "DON'T do it."

Spookymuffin said:

like i always say! experimenting is the way to life!

hokie1 said:

And what was the first thing you did?



My parents are so liberal about sex. When I got back, the second thing my dad said in the car ride home was "so, did you get laid?" and then when I laughed it off trying to not say anything he picked up on that and said "how many girls?"

Spookymuffin said:

Well, that's what my mom said to me when I was a young teen. Probably 13 or so. When I was older and had my first serious boyfriend (which happens to be my husband) she told me that she hoped that I would only do that with someone I was in love with and said that if I needed birth control to just come to her. She wanted me to be healthy and safe. I'm sure she realized that me waiting until marriage was not a realistic option. I was actually quite "old" when I lost my virginity--almost 18.

hokie1 said:

Same age as me, I was 17.

SupaFunkyOrgangrinderSexy said:

OMG!! That is one of the most desperate things I've ever heard!

hokie1 said:

OMG, I totally agree with 2the9s comment

Imago said:

My Mother NEVER talked about sex, or anything else. I learned everything from friends and health class.

SupaFunkyOrgangrinderSexy said:

Yeah, I think we compared notes on this once before. Your mom tried to ply you with pussy, mine with blow jobs from skanky high school girls.

SaraWright10 said:

my mum made an appointment with the doc for me to go on the pill

I cried and cried.

I had never even kissed a boy yet

ZombieKitten said:

She made you go on the pill before you'd even started doing ANYTHING at all?

jtfolden said:

No, because I refused. Years later when I got a boyfriend I agreed to go.

heybaby said:

me either, just had the magazines...(penthouse and hustler),,,

i never got a talk. when i first had a serious boyfriend my mom hinted around it a little, and i forcefully implied that it was none of her business.

i think i first learned what sex really was from a children's encyclopedia

My mom never had the talk with me, she was way shy and proper for that.
I on the other hand, have had the talk with my 14 year old daughter for years now. At any given moment, anything will set me off, and she just stares at me like I know mom, i know..

My mom is so great about it,
I wish all kids had my mom when it comes to stuff like this.
I've heard my friends say about how hard their parents were and how hard they took it.

My mom just kinda keeps me in the right direction.