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I need some man advice!!!!! OK I need dating advice. I'm not so great with dating and I've never been in a relationship so I don't always catch on to the games men play. So here's my story:
There's this guy that I've been crushing on at my school. I met him in Spring 2006 in one my classes. We flirted a little bit and he's seemed interested, but nothing ever came of it because I had a rough semester that year. Anyway I would see him around campus, but I never had a chance to speak to him too long because one of us was always on our way somewhere (I was usually late, lol) He always seemed happy to see me with a big smile on his face. Meanwhile, I would try to find him by asking around or looking on facebook, but nobody that I knew seemed to know him (I barely know him myself) and I never got his last name. I kept wanting to see him again at a good time because I thought we could go out and I wanted to do it fast because if it didn't happen soon he would probably end up with someone else. I mean I would see him in the most random places. I saw him at his job at the mall, but I couldn't talk because I really had to pee.  I saw him randomly on the highway in traffic on my way home from work. Aaannywooo, I unexpectedly found him on myspace and low and behold he's "In a Relationship"  . Then I looked him up on facebook (his named was spelled differently which is why I couldn't find him) to be nosy (yea I did it, and so what?) and there was some things up there that lead me to believe he and his girlfriend were splitting up. So I said wth and added him as a friend. I was going to send him a message, but I wasn't sure what to say. I didn't really matter because he sent me a message almost immediately and he was like "aww man. cool, you found me" or something like that. We went back and forth and he asked me what I did on the weekends and whether or not I wanted to hang out. OK now I'm excited but not too excited because I don't know about his girl and they seemed to have been together for a long time.. Here's the thing that really gets me. He gave me his phone number, but he made sure to preface it with "nobody calls me on here"  Now I'm just suspicious and frozen because that shit seems really shady. Should I go for it and take it slow or is he full of shit? I mean I could date him and not really be pressed about it going anywhere, but I'm not trying to help him cheat on his girlfriend if it's just one date. Hell I don't even know if it would be a date.
I don't really talk to a lot of you guys but a lot of you seem to be level headed individuals and I think you could give me good advice, or at least a good laugh I graduated bitches!!! 12-19-09   | |
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PurpleRighteous1 said: OK I need dating advice. I'm not so great with dating and I've never been in a relationship so I don't always catch on to the games men play. So here's my story:
There's this guy that I've been crushing on at my school. I met him in Spring 2006 in one my classes. We flirted a little bit and he's seemed interested, but nothing ever came of it because I had a rough semester that year. Anyway I would see him around campus, but I never had a chance to speak to him too long because one of us was always on our way somewhere (I was usually late, lol) He always seemed happy to see me with a big smile on his face. Meanwhile, I would try to find him by asking around or looking on facebook, but nobody that I knew seemed to know him (I barely know him myself) and I never got his last name. I kept wanting to see him again at a good time because I thought we could go out and I wanted to do it fast because if it didn't happen soon he would probably end up with someone else. I mean I would see him in the most random places. I saw him at his job at the mall, but I couldn't talk because I really had to pee. I saw him randomly on the highway in traffic on my way home from work. Aaannywooo, I unexpectedly found him on myspace and low and behold he's "In a Relationship" . Then I looked him up on facebook (his named was spelled differently which is why I couldn't find him) to be nosy (yea I did it, and so what?) and there was some things up there that lead me to believe he and his girlfriend were splitting up. So I said wth and added him as a friend. I was going to send him a message, but I wasn't sure what to say. I didn't really matter because he sent me a message almost immediately and he was like "aww man. cool, you found me" or something like that. We went back and forth and he asked me what I did on the weekends and whether or not I wanted to hang out. OK now I'm excited but not too excited because I don't know about his girl and they seemed to have been together for a long time.. Here's the thing that really gets me. He gave me his phone number, but he made sure to preface it with "nobody calls me on here" Now I'm just suspicious and frozen because that shit seems really shady. Should I go for it and take it slow or is he full of shit? I mean I could date him and not really be pressed about it going anywhere, but I'm not trying to help him cheat on his girlfriend if it's just one date. Hell I don't even know if it would be a date.
I don't really talk to a lot of you guys but a lot of you seem to be level headed individuals and I think you could give me good advice, or at least a good laugh First of all, you are overthinking this whole thing. Call him, he gave you his number right? Learn what he is all about from there. Very simple. (Insert something clever here) |
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PurpleRighteous1 said: I don't really talk to a lot of you guys but a lot of you seem to be level headed individuals and I think you could give me good advice, or at least a good laugh
Oh lawd! 
Anywayz, I say you call him and set something up. It doesn't have to be a date. Just go out for some coffee or something and find out about the girlfriend situation. After you find out what's up, you could see where things go. | |
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DarkKnight1 said: First of all, you are overthinking this whole thing. Call him, he gave you his number right? Learn what he is all about from there. Very simple. I figured I was, but I don't want to go anywhere near somebody else's relationship drama. I graduated bitches!!! 12-19-09 | |
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PurpleRighteous1 said: DarkKnight1 said: First of all, you are overthinking this whole thing. Call him, he gave you his number right? Learn what he is all about from there. Very simple. I figured I was, but I don't want to go anywhere near somebody else's relationship drama. Thats a good way to find out and save some time in the process. (Insert something clever here) |
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PurpleRighteous1 said: there was some things up there that lead me to believe he and his girlfriend were splitting up
Sounds like wishful thinking. If he's in a relationship and willing to go out with you, that is a very bad sign. There's plenty of dick in the sea (not that dick is a necessity for happiness - in fact, the opposite is probably usually true). If you really feel getting involved with this person is important  , ask him point-blank if he's in a relationship. If he says anything but "No", head for the hills. If he says no, I'd still investigate his ass. |
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Honey, take that son of a bitch and put him in the bed and FUCK HIM GOOD! Andy is a four letter word. | |
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vainandy said:
Honey, take that son of a bitch and put him in the bed and FUCK HIM GOOD! Yep. good advice and a laugh. Thanks orgers![Edited 7/28/07 20:15pm] I graduated bitches!!! 12-19-09 | |
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