I am so sick of men who make plans with you, then make up some lame reason why they can't go! Why are some guys like that? Don't they care about the other person's feelings!

Okay..I vented...so hopefully that will calm me down some!

MoniGram said:

I've heard the same about women!

JoeTyler said:

I know women can be the same way! But I am just so sick of one man in paticular! I just needed to vent!

MoniGram said:

jess555ja said:

Thanks lady! I am so glad no one is home today...I would so bite each and every one of their heads off! I am just so damn mad!

some men suck


did you let him know how you feel?

emm said:

I really didn't come out and say it...but the tone of my voice I think pretty much let him know. We had this planned for weeks now. I give up! I am not even going to waste my time making plans with him anymore...because each time I do, he pulls crap like this! He can be such an ass!

MoniGram said:

spell it out for him!
let him know how disappointed you were.
after you cool off though

emm said:

I agree.

Moni, after you calm down, you need to tell him or it is just going to keep happening.

jess555ja said:

Well that will have to be tomorrow, or next week, or next year...because right now, I just can't talk to him..or be around him. He just keeps letting me down over and over...maybe it's time to let go...chuck this 'friendship' and find someone who actually cares about my feelings!

MoniGram said:

Is this the same man that you were having problems with before?

jess555ja said:

sure is...and he just adds to the problems i am already having with in my life! like i need anymore drama!

jess555ja said:

I only signed on for half a sec. Sorry for that Moni! Jesse, I LOVE your new avatar!!! too cool!

MoniGram said:

God damn, this guy seems like an ass!


I think you should get rid of him and find someone who actually cares about you. This guy is screwing up way too much.

PaisleyPark5083 said:

Thanks...I knew venting here would be good for me! Everyone here always makes me feel better! At least the org is always here...it won't let me down. Now I sound like a loser...I so need a drink.

PaisleyPark5083 said:

Thank you!

jess555ja said:

I agree Jess...he knew I had much going on in my life when he met me. He knew I needed someone in my life I could count on...I thought things were going good, up until today..when he did this. Damn him! I even bought a new dress!!!!

MoniGram said:

I say you get some friends together and have a girls night out, that way you'll have some fun and that new dress won't go to waste!

jess555ja said:

That actually sounds like a great idea! But I get a feeling I will be spending my evening on the org. Save that dress for someone who can actually enjoy it!

it's not all men, Moni...you're just dealing with one of the less than good ones

BlackAdder7 said:

You are right! She needs to get rid of this dude and find herself a man that is going to love and respect her.

BlackAdder7 said:

I know it's not all men. I just keep finding the ones that take joy in letting me down one way or another!

jess555ja said:

Well if you know of any...let me know.

MoniGram said:

And Jess...he would have to love the Red Sox! WOW! I am already starting to feel better!

MoniGram said:

relationships take work. today we live in the textonamobilephonewhiledrinkinglattecappucinoinstantmessaging generation, with an incredibly short attention span.

MoniGram said:

Some men and some women don't think of how their actions will affect their significant other. I have had this problem before and I got sick of it. That is why I am single now and I am happy I don't have to deal with it anymore

MoniGram said:

I'll be on the look out

I am so glad I have the org...the people I chat with on here, I might never meet in person, but I know I can always count on them for good advice, a shoulder to bitch on, and there to make me feel better and laugh! I can never repay the friendships I have gained from coming here! So thank you to each and everyone of you, who deal with my 'I hate men' issues!

MoniGram said:

Hope things get better with that, girl! I know how you feel guys can be pretty rediculous about that. Hopefully he makes it up to you or you figure something out!

Maybe you should go get yourself some ice cream and listen to some music by yourself to make you feel all better!

SaraWright10 said:

Miss Sara...you are my kind of gal! Ice cream always makes things better. I am thinking..chocolate frozen custard concrete with snickers mixed in. YUMMY!