What does it have to do with two women?

What does it have to do with two women?

moviestar08 said:

for me, i have a few superficial qualifications, such as drug and disease free, not obese, a passion(ie job or career) that they love, and a non-psychotic state of mind . beyond that we simply have to be on the same page and of similar accord in the way we wiew the world. with similar (but not identical) temperment and interests, sexual compatibilty, respect and kindness towards one another... beyond this i could give a hoot if the dude looks like the Nutty Professor. i never notice. although eventually it happenes once im with the man for a while it comes to pass that people start TRIPPING, because they recognize that he's (in their estimation)'attractive'...FINE. whereas my version of his 'fineness' had nothing to do with his looks rather than his overall compatibility with me and ability to understand (and sometimes TOLERATE!) me. its weird, because i'm attracted to very stringent personality traits in a person, whereas many people around me only see the 'physical' aspects of that person...of which im completely oblivious to unil they point such things out to me...

Now it's four women?

I tend not to notice really what men look like until I get to know them. Rarely is it "he LOOKS hot, I want to get to know him" for me.

ZombieKitten said:

not so fashionable in this mtv day and age, but i have to say, me too...

Looks do matter to me. I could not fall in love with somebody I would not find attractive. It's not about him being beautiful by what society considers beautiful, but having certain attributes that attract me.

not so fashionable in this mtv day and age, but i have to say, me too...

Serious said:

Oh! Well in that case let me add that I like good legs on a man, absence of puffy feet, and a pretty set of choppers.

Ottensen said:

What are choppers?

For me, personality is more important. Of course I like to date men that I find physically attractive, but if they don't have personality and intelligence, I lose interest very quickly.

Serious said:

Helicopters!

women aren't as shallow as men

Looks matter to most women. Me? I want a well read man.

Looks are the single most important thing. Anyone who tells you otherwise is a frickin' liar.

JustErin said:

BlackAdder7 said:

I'm not that shallow!. If he's not able to discuss Freudian psychotherapy, I'm not interested.

JDInteractive said:

i wouldn't say they're the most important, but they definitely are a huge factor. if it's shallow to not want to be with someone you're not physically attracted to, then i guess i'm shallow.