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We're officially an "old couple" Boyfriend and I went out last night. We stayed out very late, went and got some late night vittles and came home and went RIGHT to sleep. I've noticed that we've been doing that a lot lately. We are "long distance" he's in ATL n I'm in Charlotte. But we are going on 3 years...it wasn't always distanced, we lived in the same city until we both got a call 4 a change.
So when he first moved we were like on some "Discovery Channel" type shit. Like a night out with a lot of drinking would mean an evening of passion. But shit...we tired!!! Oh my it officially happened...we got familiar!! Either that or i'm just real tired. OH my...but thing is, i have no complaints, I don't need for him to be all over all the time now. Wow...we are in a new phase...what's next? | |
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It sounds like your relationship is at a happy, comfortable point.  Just don't let it get to routine.  Proud Memaw to Seyhan Olivia Christine ,Zoey Cirilo Jaylee & Ellie Abigail Lillian  | |
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KatSkrizzle said: Boyfriend and I went out last night. We stayed out very late, went and got some late night vittles and came home and went RIGHT to sleep. I've noticed that we've been doing that a lot lately. We are "long distance" he's in ATL n I'm in Charlotte. But we are going on 3 years...it wasn't always distanced, we lived in the same city until we both got a call 4 a change.
So when he first moved we were like on some "Discovery Channel" type shit. Like a night out with a lot of drinking would mean an evening of passion. But shit...we tired!!! Oh my it officially happened...we got familiar!! Either that or i'm just real tired. OH my...but thing is, i have no complaints, I don't need for him to be all over all the time now. Wow...we are in a new phase...what's next? As long as both of you are ok with how it feels then it is not a problem. Do what makes you happy | |
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He's totally cool.
I'm in school, working full time (in sales.. = STRESS) and a part time and also a member of some event planning chapters in Charlotte. I think I answered my own question. I should be tired. I'm always tired, lately. I think we are in that crazy comfortaple point, like Moni said. He left today..I miss him  | |
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KatSkrizzle said: He's totally cool.
I'm in school, working full time (in sales.. = STRESS) and a part time and also a member of some event planning chapters in Charlotte. I think I answered my own question. I should be tired. I'm always tired, lately. I think we are in that crazy comfortaple point, like Moni said. He left today..I miss him If you are working so much like you said, then I can see how you might feel that you have become an old couple! But..as long as you are happy, and you miss him when he is gone, and you count down the days until you see him next, I think it's okay to be that comfortable 'old' couple!  Proud Memaw to Seyhan Olivia Christine ,Zoey Cirilo Jaylee & Ellie Abigail Lillian | |
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Wow..really I just miss his presence. He just has to be around. I don't need to be all up on his jock. He could be in the next room. Just as long as he's there.
Yes the verdict is out...we just act like we're married, that's all!! | |
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KatSkrizzle said: Wow..really I just miss his presence. He just has to be around. I don't need to be all up on his jock. He could be in the next room. Just as long as he's there.
Yes the verdict is out...we just act like we're married, that's all!!  And if that is what makes you smile! Then more power to you both! Proud Memaw to Seyhan Olivia Christine ,Zoey Cirilo Jaylee & Ellie Abigail Lillian | |
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KatSkrizzle said: Wow..really I just miss his presence. He just has to be around. I don't need to be all up on his jock. He could be in the next room. Just as long as he's there.
Yes the verdict is out...we just act like we're married, that's all!! There is nothing better than just "being" when you are together. I can't wait until I get to just be with my man..just living life together. there's nothing wrong with what you are feeling. [Edited 7/22/07 18:34pm] | |
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MoniGram said: KatSkrizzle said: Wow..really I just miss his presence. He just has to be around. I don't need to be all up on his jock. He could be in the next room. Just as long as he's there.
Yes the verdict is out...we just act like we're married, that's all!! And if that is what makes you smile! Then more power to you both! Thanks! You're so sweet. It's the Nebraskan thing...or the leaving Nebraska! However you want to put it! 
We have plans to marry, just not this year or the next. He's working on finding the house..I just have to approve it He makes it so easy! | |
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shanti0608 said: KatSkrizzle said: Wow..really I just miss his presence. He just has to be around. I don't need to be all up on his jock. He could be in the next room. Just as long as he's there.
Yes the verdict is out...we just act like we're married, that's all!! There is nothing better than just "being" when you are together. I can't wait until I get to just be with my man..just living life together. there's nothing wrong with what you are feeling. [Edited 7/22/07 18:34pm] Yup, that's what it is. In the beginning it must've been just lust!
It's going to be intersting when we start shacking up. But really, just having him in the house makes me happy... | |
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KatSkrizzle said: MoniGram said: And if that is what makes you smile! Then more power to you both! Thanks! You're so sweet. It's the Nebraskan thing...or the leaving Nebraska! However you want to put it!
We have plans to marry, just not this year or the next. He's working on finding the house..I just have to approve it He makes it so easy!It sounds like you have one AWESOME man!!!! Proud Memaw to Seyhan Olivia Christine ,Zoey Cirilo Jaylee & Ellie Abigail Lillian | |
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KatSkrizzle said: shanti0608 said: There is nothing better than just "being" when you are together. I can't wait until I get to just be with my man..just living life together. there's nothing wrong with what you are feeling. [Edited 7/22/07 18:34pm] Yup, that's what it is. In the beginning it must've been just lust!
It's going to be intersting when we start shacking up. But really, just having him in the house makes me happy... No- the beginning was just you two getting to know one another which is normal. | |
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shanti0608 said: KatSkrizzle said: Yup, that's what it is. In the beginning it must've been just lust!
It's going to be intersting when we start shacking up. But really, just having him in the house makes me happy... No- the beginning was just you two getting to know one another which is normal.  Proud Memaw to Seyhan Olivia Christine ,Zoey Cirilo Jaylee & Ellie Abigail Lillian | |
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MoniGram said: KatSkrizzle said: Thanks! You're so sweet. It's the Nebraskan thing...or the leaving Nebraska! However you want to put it!
We have plans to marry, just not this year or the next. He's working on finding the house..I just have to approve it He makes it so easy!It sounds like you have one AWESOME man!!!! He's a God send! He is a wonderful man! I am SO blessed! | |
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KatSkrizzle said: MoniGram said: It sounds like you have one AWESOME man!!!! He's a God send! He is a wonderful man! I am SO blessed! Keep a hold of him. Because good men are hard to find! Trust me! Proud Memaw to Seyhan Olivia Christine ,Zoey Cirilo Jaylee & Ellie Abigail Lillian | |
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